Hi! Today we have a little Solo Q&A and I'm answering the questions you were most curious about - the ones I didn't get to in my recent AMA. These mixed bag episodes are fun to do, so keep the questions coming! I get into everything from how tall I am and what my relationship to my height has been over the years, whether I still consider myself an influencer, to my rising and moon signs (Aries rising, Leo moon - I had to look them up and take notes.) Then it shifts into all things holidays: what Christmas plans are looking like this year, easy early-shopping gift ideas, splurge ideas, and how Timmy and I go about gifts for each other. Plus, my #1 High Confectionary product right now. Come hang out, let's gab. 

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Date Night! What's going onnnn? Join us for a date as we drive around LA vintage stores to find stuff for our halloween costumes. What's on our mind? This lake house we found on Redfin that we can't stop thinking about. Should we get it and film a new renovation series?? Other topics include debates about whether farting under the sheets can actually ruin them and how we'd feel about living in a murder house. It's a Halloween special. We love date nights and we love you! 

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Coco Schiffer is here! Content creator, stylist, and creative director whose clean, classic aesthetic has made her one of the most refreshing voices in fashion right now. Coco started her career behind the scenes managing influencers and talent before naturally stepping into the spotlight herself, and she's built a brand rooted in simplicity, confidence, and an eye for the essentials. We get into her unique point of view, the real side of being an influencer - the less glamorous parts and the organization it takes, and how she keeps her wardrobe inspiring season after season. She opens up about being single in New York, her favorite solo rituals, finding your "uniform", curating a closet that works for your life, and lots more. She's the best and I'm dying to see her closet next time I'm in NY. Thank you so much Coco! 

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I had the pleasure of sitting down with Emilie Toups, a mother of five and the founder of Toups & Co. Organics - a skincare and makeup company rooted in ancestral wisdom, nutrient-dense ingredients, and the belief that beauty should never come at the expense of health. What started as a single batch of tallow balm in her farmhouse kitchen has become one of the most trusted names in clean beauty. Emilie opens up about her journey from motherhood to entrepreneurship, how she built Toups & Co. from the ground up, and why she believes our skin understands ingredients from nature far better than synthetic ones. We dive into everything from the truth about "clean beauty" myths to how toxins and microplastics sneak into our everyday routines, plus the simple, practical swaps that can make a huge difference for your skin and hormone health. Emilie is a wealth of knowledge and it was so inspiring to talk and learn from her. This conversation is about slowing down, trusting your body, and remembering that less really can be more. Thank you so much Emilie! And everyone needs to try Toups & Co. Organics, the quality is truly top notch.

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Hi darling friends. I'm in New York AGAIN, fresh off going to the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show and deep in my own thoughts. I get into the feelings that come with being in the city alone and the overthinking that comes with too much solo time - it's this weird mix of freedom and anxiety that shows up. In classic solo fashion, I jump around from the perioral dermatitis that I've been dealing with, what's in my travel bag and my go-to travel essentials (Tide Pen FTW.) There's also some honest talk about money, living from a place of abundance without being too irresponsible, and the book I've been falling asleep to. It's a little stream of consciousness, a little GRWM, and ends with a note of gratitude - for the quiet, the chaos, and everything in between. 

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Hello and welcome. We're here, Timmy came with notes. Topics of discussion include: the stress of planning trips with family, not wasting our energy, thoughts on alternative schooling methods, pop culture topics that Chat GPT said were noteworthy, Timmy's chicken parm, Owen Wilson's nose, and Nicole Kidman's new bangs. All very good date topics, wouldn't you say? Thank you for joining us. 

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I am SO excited to share this interview with Ash K. Holm, one of the most sought-after makeup artists in the world. You've seen her work on all the icons like Kim Kardashian, Ariana Grande, and countless red carpets, but behind the glam is a story of grit, artistry, and reinvention. We talk about her first big celebrity gigs, finding her signature style, the business of beauty, balancing artistry with entrepreneurship, launching her own education platform, and the mindset shifts that helped her transform from working behind the chair to building a global brand. And of course, we get into all her tricks and tools of the trade - her favorite products, the makeup hacks that work the best, the mistakes to avoid, and a ton more! 

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Sometimes the best conversations are the ones you go back to again and again, and this week, we are revisiting a conversation with Dr. Becky Kennedy - clinical psychologist, mom of three, TIME Magazine's "Millennial Parenting Whisperer", and founder of the Good Inside platform. At the time, I had discovered her work on Instagram during the pandemic, and her way of rethinking parenting was both eye-opening and grounding. We spoke about so many timeless topics: setting boundaries with our anxiety, helping kids sleep on their own, how to argue in front of kids in a healthy way, and what to do when you catch yourself repeating patterns you don't want to pass down. Listening back now, several years later, I feel the power of this conversation in a whole new way. Sonny is at a completely different age and stage, and so many of the strategies Dr. Becky shared hit me differently this time around. It's a reminder that parenting wisdom grows with us - what resonates in one season of life takes on new meaning in the next. Whether you heard this episode years ago, or you're brand new to Dr. Becky's work, you'll walk away with simple, actionable tools to feel sturdier and more confident as a parent. 

This episode is brought to you by HART Jewelry, Grüns, Tia, and CAKES Body. 

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When was the last time you and your partner tried something new in the bedroom? What if the problem isn't a lack of love, but a lack of imagination? In this episode, I'm joined by Shan Boodram, Chief Intimacy Officer at Arya, to explore how couples can reignite that new-love energy, no matter how many years it's been. As both a mom of two and a certified intimacy educator, Shan knows the challenges couples face - the chaos of parenting, the exhaustion, and the way relationships often get pushed to the bottom of the list. That's where Arya comes in. Think of Arya as a personal concierge for your love life - taking away the shame and guesswork so you can focus on connection, playfulness, and intimacy. Shan is one of the internet's most trusted and sought-after intimacy experts, and we cover a lot - from breaking down the stigma around sexual wellness to exploring why novelty is scientifically proven to boost connection, this conversation was as insightful as it was refreshing. Thank you so much Shan and Arya! 

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Hey guys! We are so pleased to be here with you. It's Date Night, we're going for another surprise lunch spot, and we had to pull over because the sports equipment was rolling around in the trunk. What's on our minds? Timmy's Birthday! And my time at New York Fashion Week! It was so much fun. We hit all our usual topics and acquire some of our highest rated sandwiches to date. We also get into important cultural debates like who is the hottest pop star right now and who is Carlos Estevez? We love you, we love well-constructed sandwiches. Let's make our own rules, f*ck the gatekeepers!

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