If we fall down, we gotta get up! Most men destroy marriages...that is absolutely false... sometimes women destroy relationships intentionally. At times women are not ready for a relationship but, they are attracted to the physical, the mental, and the money. They don't want you as a whole, but they want somethings that you bring. In the case of 34 year old Julie from Jersey, she started to get out of a relationship when she discovered it was a mistake leaving her husband and three year olf behind to move to Greece! Beware of the quick proposals and men who pursue you when they know you are married.