There is no doubt whatsoever that going forward there is always going to be a pre-COVID and post-COVID world.
The Coronavirus pandemic has upset everything we have known till now. Negotiating our children’s early years, negotiating their teen years – will it be the same? Or will we have to unlearn and learn a new way of bringing them up?
What kind of psychological effect might this pandemic have on our children? Can you see any visible signs? Have you noticed any change in behavior? How are you keeping them engaged at home? Are you looking differently at their upbringing?
Maybe you now think home schooling is not such a bad idea? Or maybe you think it is the worst idea. Personally I don’t think I can do it – I do not have the patience. But I also ask myself when will I be ready to let him go back to school with confidence? Will I have to learn to let go all over again?
For those of you who are pregnant or about to give birth, what are your fears or hopes and dreams for your child? How are you preparing yourself for motherhood in a suddenly uncertain world?
Our children were born in a very different world. A world of plenty – not just in terms of our daily life but also in terms of hopes and dreams and aspirations.
But they were also born in a world that thrived on inequalities and oppression and a lopsided distribution of wealth and opportunities. But today as we face our mortality we know that pandemics do not discriminate on the basis of religion or wealth or gender. This moment in time is as frightening as it is sobering.
Are we going to learn a lesson from this and work harder at demanding equal rights for every single person on this earth, or will we go back into our privileged corners again?
I hope we fight harder for equality in the post-COVID world. I hope we are more compassionate, more tolerant, more embracing, more grateful, more mindful.
I can’t wait to connect with you and learn about your deepest fears and uncertainties and hopes for the future. This solidarity – this mommyhood – will help us negotiate this crisis better and help us build a brand new world. Is that too much to hope for? Perhaps. But hope is courage. Hope is the future.
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We are in this together. Come talk to me. And tag another mommy – let’s build a chain and plot for a new world together.
Remember what Nellie McClung said?
Women are going to form a chain, a greater sisterhood than the world has ever known.