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Today, I sit down with Ashlea Dillard to explore the realities of life as a firefighter and paramedic, the pressures placed on women in first responder roles, and the mental health battles that often remain hidden behind the uniform. Ms. Dillard begins by walking us through her unexpected path into firefighting after initially pursuing nursing. Once she stepped into fire culture, she discovered a tight-knit community defined by teamwork, problem-solving, and high-stakes decision-making. She shares stories from her early years on the ambulance, the transition to the firetruck, and the unique challenges she faced as one of the few women in a male-dominated field.
As our conversation continues, Ms. Dillard describes the subtle and overt pressures that come with being a woman in the fire service—from constant performance scrutiny to the emotional toll of proving oneself capable in a culture shaped by masculine norms. She explains how burnout developed not from large-scale emergencies, but from the accumulation of routine calls, constant sleep disruption, and never-ending administrative tasks. We also discuss the shift in fire and EMS work over the past several decades, how unpredictable calls can escalate instantly, and why the belief in being indestructible can put responders at risk.
We then transition into the turning point of Ms. Dillard’s career: confronting the emotional, physical, and spiritual effects of burnout while managing graduate school, clinical training, and a demanding 48-hour shift schedule. As she recognized the need to prioritize her own mental health, she made the difficult decision to step away from the fire service and complete her transition into counseling. Today, she works as a licensed professional counselor and clinical hypnotherapist specializing in first responders, military members, and their families. She shares how her podcast allows her to amplify stories, offer insight, and build community by helping individuals reconnect with their identity outside of their uniform.
To close the episode, I ask Ms. Dillard what young people should know before they enter the first responder field. Her reality check offers a grounded perspective on danger, complacency, training, and the need for intention behind the mission.
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Today, I sit down with Ashlea Dillard to explore the realities of life as a firefighter and paramedic, the pressures placed on women in first responder roles, and the mental health battles that often remain hidden behind the uniform. Ms. Dillard begins by walking us through her unexpected path into firefighting after initially pursuing nursing. Once she stepped into fire culture, she discovered a tight-knit community defined by teamwork, problem-solving, and high-stakes decision-making. She shares stories from her early years on the ambulance, the transition to the firetruck, and the unique challenges she faced as one of the few women in a male-dominated field.
As our conversation continues, Ms. Dillard describes the subtle and overt pressures that come with being a woman in the fire service—from constant performance scrutiny to the emotional toll of proving oneself capable in a culture shaped by masculine norms. She explains how burnout developed not from large-scale emergencies, but from the accumulation of routine calls, constant sleep disruption, and never-ending administrative tasks. We also discuss the shift in fire and EMS work over the past several decades, how unpredictable calls can escalate instantly, and why the belief in being indestructible can put responders at risk.
We then transition into the turning point of Ms. Dillard’s career: confronting the emotional, physical, and spiritual effects of burnout while managing graduate school, clinical training, and a demanding 48-hour shift schedule. As she recognized the need to prioritize her own mental health, she made the difficult decision to step away from the fire service and complete her transition into counseling. Today, she works as a licensed professional counselor and clinical hypnotherapist specializing in first responders, military members, and their families. She shares how her podcast allows her to amplify stories, offer insight, and build community by helping individuals reconnect with their identity outside of their uniform.
To close the episode, I ask Ms. Dillard what young people should know before they enter the first responder field. Her reality check offers a grounded perspective on danger, complacency, training, and the need for intention behind the mission.
https://sitaroundthefire.org/
Website: https://coupleonukes.com
Exodus, Honor Your Heart, & Nulu Knives: https://www.coupleonukes.com/affiliates/
Want to be a guest on Couple O' Nukes? Send me a message on PodMatch: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1726279485588093e83e0e007
Sign Up For A PodMatch Account: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/coupleonukes
*Couple O' Nukes LLC and Mr. Whiskey are not licensed medical entities, nor do they take responsibility for any advice or information put forth by guests. Take all advice at your own risk.