The Bible says walk with the wise and you will become wise. Pastor said get around people who have what you need and you will learn from them and get what you need. Remember we all need mentors in our lives. God wants to use us to help others, but we are not their source, God is. Pastor reminded us that how we do, what we do matters. As parents we are a part of the building process for our kids, we are not every part. God will use others as well. Be mindful of eternal things, and take heed how we build.