Getting laid off can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you, but what if the real work begins after the shock fades?
In this episode, Diana sits down with Steve Jaffe, author of The Layoff Journey, to talk about the often-overlooked emotional side of job loss. From surviving four layoffs to helping others process theirs, Steve shares what professionals get wrong about "bouncing back" and why grieving your job is not weakness, it's necessary.
Key Topics or Themes
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Steve's career journey from advertising to author of The Layoff Journey
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What layoffs during the dot-com crash and post-9/11 taught him about resilience
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The seven stages of grief as they apply to job loss
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Why skipping emotional processing can hurt your job search
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Shame, dignity, and identity after a layoff
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How to manage anger and disappointment during a prolonged job search
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Practical self-care strategies that actually support career recovery
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What companies and leaders can do to handle layoffs more humanely
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Why "job security" is largely a myth — and what to focus on instead
⏳ Timestamps 00:00 Intro & meet Steve Jaffe 02:24 The "What Happens in Vegas" campaign story 06:09 First layoff during the dot-com crash 17:35 Multiple layoffs & career pivots 26:37 The seven stages of grief after job loss 31:20 Why emotional recovery matters before job searching 38:00 The role of shame, identity, and dignity 46:20 How leaders can handle layoffs more humanely 52:10 The hardest parts of layoffs people don't expect 57:45 Lightning round & final advice
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