Work Wives Unscripted

SEASON 2 IS HERE BABY!! We’re back and trust us when we say, a whole lot’s changing. Also lol at us thinking that would be a quick 4-5 week break between seasons, because here we are just shy of 4 MONTHS LATER.

We’ve had a lot of conversations over the past few months that have led us to take more action — pulling our dreams out of our asses and wasting no more time on making them a reality. 

In true Work Wives fashion, we’re bringing you in on all of it, spilling every ounce of vulnerability in this episode to lay out exactly where we’re at while outlining the risks we’re each taking to get there.

As always, a good tea-spilling wouldn’t be complete without our embarrassing or ratchet stories and extensive Would You Rather’s. 

We missed you so much and are excited to be back. Giddy up bitches, this is gonna be one hell of a ride.

xx
Jill and Katie

P.S. We finally got our shit together and made a Work Wives Instagram, we heard you’ll suffer from severe fomo if you don’t participate over there. Doctor’s orders. 

WE MADE IT TO THE SEASON FINALE! Season 1 of Work Wives Unscripted was about finding our voices and our audience, and we sure have. Buckle up your bootstraps for Season 2, Wives, we're just getting started.  See you soon.

Join Jill and Katie as they reflect on all things personal, work, and podcast related from questions submitted by you:

Personal

• How’d you guys meet?
• What would child you think of where you are now?
• What’s one thing you guys love to do but don’t do often enough?
• The topic of ego - during this time have you been struggling with what your ego is trying to prove to secure status and validation as opposed to what is actually in alignment with your truth and how have you dealt with navigating those differences?
• Where do you want to see growth in this season of life?
• When was the last time you felt major BDE?

Work

• Answer individually - what’s one thing you’re most proud of in your business?
• What moment solidified the “holy fuck” this is it? I’m doing “it” in your career?
• What were your biggest breakthroughs as filmmakers over the years or moments that upped your game?
• What’s the hardest thing each of you has faced in the industry?
• Take 1 min and rail against something in the wedding/film culture - something you have had it with
• Words of encouragement when things don’t go right (i.e. difficult client, or when you realize you missed a crucial shot)
• If you were brand new to video and weddings now, would you do anything differently?
• Do you regret starting a business? What would you change if you could go back?
• I struggle so much with wanting to make each project better than the last, and it starts to feel like I’m constantly chasing the next thing. Do you struggle with that and how do you manage expectations within yourself?

Podcast

• What’s your favorite episode of the pod so far?
• Has the podcast evolved the way you thought it would or has it taken a different direction?
• How have you been surprised about what you’ve learned about yourselves through recording the podcast?

As always, don't be afraid to slide into the DM's, especially over this next month off because we'll miss you.

Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

Being in the rhythm of Season 1 has really opened our eyes to finding our voices within this space, while also trusting that when a topic presents itself, it's Mani saying, "Yep, Say It." And the true Wives know that we all love Mani!

Cozy up and listen in as this week Jill opens up about her experience with severe anxiety.

**Trigger Warning**
This episode discusses panic attacks and hypochondria, as well as suicidal thoughts and ideation.

Beyond discussing Jill's story, Jill and Katie also chat about:

• How to be there for someone you love who may be experiencing a mental health crisis of their own
• The power of seeking help
• The reality of what may trigger one's mental health crisis may not be the same trigger for someone else's
• Finding grace and acceptance that only you can save you

When Jill was at her worst, she actively sought to listen, relate, and connect to anyone with a similar experience. 

We love you, Wives! If you would like to connect with Jill to chat more about your personal experience with anxiety or dive deeper into her story, send her a DM.

Jill: @onefortyfilms

This week we're talking about Work Wives' Driver's Ed baby! In all seriousness, we have some BIG catching up to do including but not limited to:

• Recent funny stories from work trips
• What it feels like being on set and not "fitting the bill" of what your standard video production team may look like
• A riot of a Would You Rather
• Identifying & leaning into your strengths and using that as your superpower, while also getting candid about the emotions we've felt throughout the process.

We love you! Happy Friday and GO NUGGETS. As always, don't be afraid to slide into the DM's, we always get excited to hear from you!

Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

It’s Thursday and we know you bitches are thirsty. This week we cover:

• How hard it is to talk to kids
• The harsh reality of being a High School Teacher
• It’s maybe not THAT bad to be a clown
• Would we still create art if there was nowhere to post it? 
• Chatting AI?!?!
• Breaking down the human experience we all strive to maintain and connect with
• Aligning your creativity with your natural skillset through your career and hobbies

Let us know your thoughts this week, lots to break down!  Don't be afraid to slide into the DM's! We always get excited to hear from you. Love you, wives.

Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

Hi ya cutie Wives! Jill and Katie went rogue this week and dove deep into the topic of solopreneurship. A catch-up was much needed, and of course, things got deep.

They covered how they're currently navigating business guilt and being present in their relationships, which lead them to a bigger question:

Is Solopreneurship sustainable? 

It still feels taboo to discuss sustainability as a solopreneur. It's something that once hitting the 5-year mark in both Jill and Katie's businesses, they've spent a lot of time working through. There are so many conversations regarding how to be a "successful" solopreneur, but how does one navigate growing that success into something bigger?

So grab your drink of choice and join your ladies to talk about it.

Feedback on the episode? Don't be afraid to slide into the DM's! Ily a milli.
Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

WE MISSED YOU and have a lot to catch up on. You voted on the episode topic so here she is! Networking events are important, but no one talks about how awkward they are.

Let's just say Jill and Katie are....on one this week. Katie expands on her trip to Amsterdam and Jill's been keeping a big ole secret that she's been holding close to her chest, literally. What better place to share the news than the pod? The Wives break down an episode-themed "Would You Rather?", share a few horror stories about previous networking events, and expand on ways to network that are far less painless.

Can't forget to mention that Jill and Katie also shout out some beloved Wives and what they love about them!

Is anyone interested in a WWU Networking Event? Listen in as Jill and Katie pitch how they would do it.  As always, thanks so much for being here. We love you dearly!

P.S. Don't be afraid to slide into the DM's
Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

Jill and Katie are back on home turf this week. Jill brought her puppy Boots home and she's...perfect. Katie talks about her weird dreams recently and shares what the internet claims they mean. Would You Rather take an interesting turn to come to the passionate conclusion that moths should no longer be inferior to butterflies, and THEN, a deep dive into comparison on social media addressing:

What social media felt like when Jill and Katie started their businesses 
What social media feels like now
Tips and tricks to say bye to a negative and self-sabotaging headspace

• Curating your feed in a way that serves you
• Setting intentions behind the content you share
• "Wow-ing" Clients vs. Peers
• Showing up because you want to, not because you have to
• The Internal vs External dilemma of creativity

Let's just say it's bound to be relatable. Love you, Wives.

P.S. Don't be afraid to slide into the DM's, Jill and Katie love to hear from you!
Jill: @onefortyfilms
Katie: @blnkfilms

Dive on into the pod-tub with your two favorite podcasters. Katie defends Jill at a pub, Jill's getting a pup, and the girls navigate the challenges of what it means to be unapologetically yourself.

Jill and Katie don't hold back this week with their "Would You Rather?" as they dig up a funny old story of one of their biggest fights.

The Wives also give a good ole dose of their hybrid approach of equal parts tender and tough love as they discuss what it means to seize your own opportunities in your business. There are seasons in a business where we can get caught up in our heads wondering why customers aren't filling up our inboxes with inquiries. Jill and Katie break down their approaches of chasing after what you want while also doing a little book club action from "The Third Door" by Alex Banayan.

Be sure to hang in until the end to listen to their breaking new hit, You Are More in Control Than You Think"

Ily, Work Wives!

Referenced in this episode:
Jai Long's Podcast
The Third Door
Kathrin Zenkina's Podcast