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The Entrepreneur’s Paradox: Why Working Harder Keeps You Stuck
Guest: Stacey SteinmillerHost: ScottDuration: ~30 minutes
Episode Summary
In this episode, Stacey Steinmiller dives deep into the entrepreneur’s paradox—why skilled business owners find themselves working harder than ever yet feeling more stuck, stressed, and disconnected from the freedom they started their business to create. This isn’t a strategy problem or a time management issue—it’s a belief problem.
Stacey explains how entrepreneurs unconsciously choose to believe stories of doubt and operate from a frequency of scarcity and struggle, creating a self-fulfilling cycle where hard work yields diminishing returns. The breakthrough isn’t in working smarter—it’s in believing differently and recognizing that our energy and frequency create results just as much as our actions do.
Key Takeaways
1. You’re Unconsciously Choosing Your Doubt
The beliefs keeping you stuck (”I’m not enough,” “People will choose my competition,” “I have to sacrifice everything to succeed”) aren’t facts—they’re stories you’ve been unconsciously choosing to believe. The first step to freedom is recognizing this is a choice and examining where these beliefs came from.
2. Your Energy Creates Results, Not Just Your Actions
Think about all the times clients appeared “out of nowhere” without running ads, or solutions showed up right when you needed them. These weren’t coincidences—they were moments when your energy aligned with what you wanted. When you’re forcing and controlling from a place of stress, you can’t access the creative, strategic thinking that actually moves your business forward.
3. Unwavering Self-Belief Is a Practice, Not a Destination
You don’t have to “fully believe” the new story before you start living it. The practice is examining where your limiting beliefs came from, finding evidence that contradicts them, and consciously choosing the new story—especially when doubt creeps in. This shifts the frequency you’re operating from and everything else flows from there.
Topics Discussed
The Doing vs. Being Trap
* Why doubling down on problems when you’re stuck doesn’t work
* The importance of stepping back, taking breaks, and allowing insights to come
* How answers come from shifting your energy, not forcing solutions
The Belief Problem Behind the Time Management Myth
* Why efficiency and delegation won’t solve the root issue
* How unconscious beliefs create self-fulfilling cycles of struggle
* The moral judgments around success, money, and taking time off
The Freedom Paradox
* Why entrepreneurs leave 9-5 jobs for freedom but end up in a worse grind
* The fear of being seen as “just in it for the money” or lazy
* How these beliefs inadvertently create the exact problem you were trying to escape
Practical Tools for Shifting Your Energy Stacey shares journaling prompts to examine your beliefs:
* What do I believe about my ability to succeed?
* Where did these beliefs come from?
* What evidence do I have that contradicts these beliefs?
* What do I need to believe instead to create the life I actually want?
* When have I experienced “miracles” in my business?
The Power of Feeling Your Feelings
* Why processing emotions is essential (not just meditation or breathing exercises)
* The story Paul Gemo shared about crying in his car after making payroll
* How acknowledging and releasing feelings helps you reset and move forward
Energy Over Action
* Making energy the priority instead of action
* Why taking time to process emotions isn’t wasting time—it’s essential work
* How crying, feeling, and acknowledging can create breakthroughs
The Responsibility Trap
* How taking on energetic responsibility for others (employees, clients, family) creates pressure
* The difference between helping/serving vs. saving/fixing
* Why taking less responsibility for others allows you to hold more and lead better
Choosing Your Story
* How there’s a story behind every action and goal
* The practice of consciously choosing which story you believe
* Why you can’t “think your way out” when you’re in survival mode
Memorable Quotes
“When you start resenting your business, you’re gonna treat it like s**t. Because you’re angry and you’re not meeting your own needs because you’ve decided that’s not possible for you. You’ve created your own hell.” — Stacey
“If you don’t even let yourself think that success is possible while taking vacation, you are not gonna build the life that will make that possible.” — Stacey
“Your energy creates results as much as your actions do. And that’s a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow.” — Scott
“Where you are with your business has just as much to do with your attitude as it does with your actions.” — Scott
Guest Bio
Stacey Steinmiller is a transformational coach supporting entrepreneurs and leaders to rise beyond fear and self-doubt to embody their highest desires and live a soul-aligned life. Her work focuses on the relationship between energy, beliefs, and business success—helping driven entrepreneurs break free from burnout and build sustainable, fulfilling businesses.
Connect with Stacey:
* Website: RadicalLifeCoach.com
* Substack: RadicalEvolution.Substack.com
Resources Mentioned
* Read the full article that inspired this episode on Stacey’s Substack
* Journal prompts for examining limiting beliefs (included in the article)
* Story: Paul Gemo’s vulnerable moment about making payroll at Craft Cannery
Next Steps
If this episode resonated with you:
* Take 20 minutes to journal with the prompts Stacey shared
* Notice where you’re unconsciously choosing doubt over trust
* Pay attention to the “miracles” that happen in your business when you’re not forcing
* Reach out to Stacey if you’re ready to do deeper work on shifting your beliefs and energy
About This Show
This podcast explores energy work, entrepreneurship, and the inner game of building a business that doesn’t burn you out. Hosted by Scott, featuring regular conversations with transformational coach Stacey Steinmiller about what it really takes to succeed as an entrepreneur—from the inside out.
Subscribe and follow for more episodes on energy, belief work, and sustainable business growth.
Production by Roc Vox StudiosIf you want to do a live stream or podcast like this, visit RocThe Entrepreneur’s Paradox: Why Working Harder Keeps You Stuck
Guest: Stacey SteinmillerHost: ScottDuration: ~30 minutes
Episode Summary
In this episode, Stacey Steinmiller dives deep into the entrepreneur’s paradox—why skilled business owners find themselves working harder than ever yet feeling more stuck, stressed, and disconnected from the freedom they started their business to create. This isn’t a strategy problem or a time management issue—it’s a belief problem.
Stacey explains how entrepreneurs unconsciously choose to believe stories of doubt and operate from a frequency of scarcity and struggle, creating a self-fulfilling cycle where hard work yields diminishing returns. The breakthrough isn’t in working smarter—it’s in believing differently and recognizing that our energy and frequency create results just as much as our actions do.
Key Takeaways
1. You’re Unconsciously Choosing Your Doubt
The beliefs keeping you stuck (”I’m not enough,” “People will choose my competition,” “I have to sacrifice everything to succeed”) aren’t facts—they’re stories you’ve been unconsciously choosing to believe. The first step to freedom is recognizing this is a choice and examining where these beliefs came from.
2. Your Energy Creates Results, Not Just Your Actions
Think about all the times clients appeared “out of nowhere” without running ads, or solutions showed up right when you needed them. These weren’t coincidences—they were moments when your energy aligned with what you wanted. When you’re forcing and controlling from a place of stress, you can’t access the creative, strategic thinking that actually moves your business forward.
3. Unwavering Self-Belief Is a Practice, Not a Destination
You don’t have to “fully believe” the new story before you start living it. The practice is examining where your limiting beliefs came from, finding evidence that contradicts them, and consciously choosing the new story—especially when doubt creeps in. This shifts the frequency you’re operating from and everything else flows from there.
Topics Discussed
The Doing vs. Being Trap
* Why doubling down on problems when you’re stuck doesn’t work
* The importance of stepping back, taking breaks, and allowing insights to come
* How answers come from shifting your energy, not forcing solutions
The Belief Problem Behind the Time Management Myth
* Why efficiency and delegation won’t solve the root issue
* How unconscious beliefs create self-fulfilling cycles of struggle
* The moral judgments around success, money, and taking time off
The Freedom Paradox
* Why entrepreneurs leave 9-5 jobs for freedom but end up in a worse grind
* The fear of being seen as “just in it for the money” or lazy
* How these beliefs inadvertently create the exact problem you were trying to escape
Practical Tools for Shifting Your Energy Stacey shares journaling prompts to examine your beliefs:
* What do I believe about my ability to succeed?
* Where did these beliefs come from?
* What evidence do I have that contradicts these beliefs?
* What do I need to believe instead to create the life I actually want?
* When have I experienced “miracles” in my business?
The Power of Feeling Your Feelings
* Why processing emotions is essential (not just meditation or breathing exercises)
* The story Paul Gemo shared about crying in his car after making payroll
* How acknowledging and releasing feelings helps you reset and move forward
Energy Over Action
* Making energy the priority instead of action
* Why taking time to process emotions isn’t wasting time—it’s essential work
* How crying, feeling, and acknowledging can create breakthroughs
The Responsibility Trap
* How taking on energetic responsibility for others (employees, clients, family) creates pressure
* The difference between helping/serving vs. saving/fixing
* Why taking less responsibility for others allows you to hold more and lead better
Choosing Your Story
* How there’s a story behind every action and goal
* The practice of consciously choosing which story you believe
* Why you can’t “think your way out” when you’re in survival mode
Memorable Quotes
“When you start resenting your business, you’re gonna treat it like s**t. Because you’re angry and you’re not meeting your own needs because you’ve decided that’s not possible for you. You’ve created your own hell.” — Stacey
“If you don’t even let yourself think that success is possible while taking vacation, you are not gonna build the life that will make that possible.” — Stacey
“Your energy creates results as much as your actions do. And that’s a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow.” — Scott
“Where you are with your business has just as much to do with your attitude as it does with your actions.” — Scott
Guest Bio
Stacey Steinmiller is a transformational coach supporting entrepreneurs and leaders to rise beyond fear and self-doubt to embody their highest desires and live a soul-aligned life. Her work focuses on the relationship between energy, beliefs, and business success—helping driven entrepreneurs break free from burnout and build sustainable, fulfilling businesses.
Connect with Stacey:
* Website: RadicalLifeCoach.com
* Substack: RadicalEvolution.Substack.com
Resources Mentioned
* Read the full article that inspired this episode on Stacey’s Substack
* Journal prompts for examining limiting beliefs (included in the article)
* Story: Paul Gemo’s vulnerable moment about making payroll at Craft Cannery
Next Steps
If this episode resonated with you:
* Take 20 minutes to journal with the prompts Stacey shared
* Notice where you’re unconsciously choosing doubt over trust
* Pay attention to the “miracles” that happen in your business when you’re not forcing
* Reach out to Stacey if you’re ready to do deeper work on shifting your beliefs and energy
About This Show
This podcast explores energy work, entrepreneurship, and the inner game of building a business that doesn’t burn you out. Hosted by Scott Fitzgerald, featuring regular conversations with transformational coach Stacey Steinmiller about what it really takes to succeed as an entrepreneur—from the inside out.
Subscribe and follow for more episodes on energy, belief work, and sustainable business growth.
Production by Rock Fox StudiosIf you want to do a live stream or podcast like this, visit RocVox.com —walk in, talk, walk out. We handle everything else.
Get full access to RADICAL EVOLUTION at radicalevolution.substack.com/subscribe
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By Stacey Steinmiler & Scott FitzgeraldThe Entrepreneur’s Paradox: Why Working Harder Keeps You Stuck
Guest: Stacey SteinmillerHost: ScottDuration: ~30 minutes
Episode Summary
In this episode, Stacey Steinmiller dives deep into the entrepreneur’s paradox—why skilled business owners find themselves working harder than ever yet feeling more stuck, stressed, and disconnected from the freedom they started their business to create. This isn’t a strategy problem or a time management issue—it’s a belief problem.
Stacey explains how entrepreneurs unconsciously choose to believe stories of doubt and operate from a frequency of scarcity and struggle, creating a self-fulfilling cycle where hard work yields diminishing returns. The breakthrough isn’t in working smarter—it’s in believing differently and recognizing that our energy and frequency create results just as much as our actions do.
Key Takeaways
1. You’re Unconsciously Choosing Your Doubt
The beliefs keeping you stuck (”I’m not enough,” “People will choose my competition,” “I have to sacrifice everything to succeed”) aren’t facts—they’re stories you’ve been unconsciously choosing to believe. The first step to freedom is recognizing this is a choice and examining where these beliefs came from.
2. Your Energy Creates Results, Not Just Your Actions
Think about all the times clients appeared “out of nowhere” without running ads, or solutions showed up right when you needed them. These weren’t coincidences—they were moments when your energy aligned with what you wanted. When you’re forcing and controlling from a place of stress, you can’t access the creative, strategic thinking that actually moves your business forward.
3. Unwavering Self-Belief Is a Practice, Not a Destination
You don’t have to “fully believe” the new story before you start living it. The practice is examining where your limiting beliefs came from, finding evidence that contradicts them, and consciously choosing the new story—especially when doubt creeps in. This shifts the frequency you’re operating from and everything else flows from there.
Topics Discussed
The Doing vs. Being Trap
* Why doubling down on problems when you’re stuck doesn’t work
* The importance of stepping back, taking breaks, and allowing insights to come
* How answers come from shifting your energy, not forcing solutions
The Belief Problem Behind the Time Management Myth
* Why efficiency and delegation won’t solve the root issue
* How unconscious beliefs create self-fulfilling cycles of struggle
* The moral judgments around success, money, and taking time off
The Freedom Paradox
* Why entrepreneurs leave 9-5 jobs for freedom but end up in a worse grind
* The fear of being seen as “just in it for the money” or lazy
* How these beliefs inadvertently create the exact problem you were trying to escape
Practical Tools for Shifting Your Energy Stacey shares journaling prompts to examine your beliefs:
* What do I believe about my ability to succeed?
* Where did these beliefs come from?
* What evidence do I have that contradicts these beliefs?
* What do I need to believe instead to create the life I actually want?
* When have I experienced “miracles” in my business?
The Power of Feeling Your Feelings
* Why processing emotions is essential (not just meditation or breathing exercises)
* The story Paul Gemo shared about crying in his car after making payroll
* How acknowledging and releasing feelings helps you reset and move forward
Energy Over Action
* Making energy the priority instead of action
* Why taking time to process emotions isn’t wasting time—it’s essential work
* How crying, feeling, and acknowledging can create breakthroughs
The Responsibility Trap
* How taking on energetic responsibility for others (employees, clients, family) creates pressure
* The difference between helping/serving vs. saving/fixing
* Why taking less responsibility for others allows you to hold more and lead better
Choosing Your Story
* How there’s a story behind every action and goal
* The practice of consciously choosing which story you believe
* Why you can’t “think your way out” when you’re in survival mode
Memorable Quotes
“When you start resenting your business, you’re gonna treat it like s**t. Because you’re angry and you’re not meeting your own needs because you’ve decided that’s not possible for you. You’ve created your own hell.” — Stacey
“If you don’t even let yourself think that success is possible while taking vacation, you are not gonna build the life that will make that possible.” — Stacey
“Your energy creates results as much as your actions do. And that’s a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow.” — Scott
“Where you are with your business has just as much to do with your attitude as it does with your actions.” — Scott
Guest Bio
Stacey Steinmiller is a transformational coach supporting entrepreneurs and leaders to rise beyond fear and self-doubt to embody their highest desires and live a soul-aligned life. Her work focuses on the relationship between energy, beliefs, and business success—helping driven entrepreneurs break free from burnout and build sustainable, fulfilling businesses.
Connect with Stacey:
* Website: RadicalLifeCoach.com
* Substack: RadicalEvolution.Substack.com
Resources Mentioned
* Read the full article that inspired this episode on Stacey’s Substack
* Journal prompts for examining limiting beliefs (included in the article)
* Story: Paul Gemo’s vulnerable moment about making payroll at Craft Cannery
Next Steps
If this episode resonated with you:
* Take 20 minutes to journal with the prompts Stacey shared
* Notice where you’re unconsciously choosing doubt over trust
* Pay attention to the “miracles” that happen in your business when you’re not forcing
* Reach out to Stacey if you’re ready to do deeper work on shifting your beliefs and energy
About This Show
This podcast explores energy work, entrepreneurship, and the inner game of building a business that doesn’t burn you out. Hosted by Scott, featuring regular conversations with transformational coach Stacey Steinmiller about what it really takes to succeed as an entrepreneur—from the inside out.
Subscribe and follow for more episodes on energy, belief work, and sustainable business growth.
Production by Roc Vox StudiosIf you want to do a live stream or podcast like this, visit RocThe Entrepreneur’s Paradox: Why Working Harder Keeps You Stuck
Guest: Stacey SteinmillerHost: ScottDuration: ~30 minutes
Episode Summary
In this episode, Stacey Steinmiller dives deep into the entrepreneur’s paradox—why skilled business owners find themselves working harder than ever yet feeling more stuck, stressed, and disconnected from the freedom they started their business to create. This isn’t a strategy problem or a time management issue—it’s a belief problem.
Stacey explains how entrepreneurs unconsciously choose to believe stories of doubt and operate from a frequency of scarcity and struggle, creating a self-fulfilling cycle where hard work yields diminishing returns. The breakthrough isn’t in working smarter—it’s in believing differently and recognizing that our energy and frequency create results just as much as our actions do.
Key Takeaways
1. You’re Unconsciously Choosing Your Doubt
The beliefs keeping you stuck (”I’m not enough,” “People will choose my competition,” “I have to sacrifice everything to succeed”) aren’t facts—they’re stories you’ve been unconsciously choosing to believe. The first step to freedom is recognizing this is a choice and examining where these beliefs came from.
2. Your Energy Creates Results, Not Just Your Actions
Think about all the times clients appeared “out of nowhere” without running ads, or solutions showed up right when you needed them. These weren’t coincidences—they were moments when your energy aligned with what you wanted. When you’re forcing and controlling from a place of stress, you can’t access the creative, strategic thinking that actually moves your business forward.
3. Unwavering Self-Belief Is a Practice, Not a Destination
You don’t have to “fully believe” the new story before you start living it. The practice is examining where your limiting beliefs came from, finding evidence that contradicts them, and consciously choosing the new story—especially when doubt creeps in. This shifts the frequency you’re operating from and everything else flows from there.
Topics Discussed
The Doing vs. Being Trap
* Why doubling down on problems when you’re stuck doesn’t work
* The importance of stepping back, taking breaks, and allowing insights to come
* How answers come from shifting your energy, not forcing solutions
The Belief Problem Behind the Time Management Myth
* Why efficiency and delegation won’t solve the root issue
* How unconscious beliefs create self-fulfilling cycles of struggle
* The moral judgments around success, money, and taking time off
The Freedom Paradox
* Why entrepreneurs leave 9-5 jobs for freedom but end up in a worse grind
* The fear of being seen as “just in it for the money” or lazy
* How these beliefs inadvertently create the exact problem you were trying to escape
Practical Tools for Shifting Your Energy Stacey shares journaling prompts to examine your beliefs:
* What do I believe about my ability to succeed?
* Where did these beliefs come from?
* What evidence do I have that contradicts these beliefs?
* What do I need to believe instead to create the life I actually want?
* When have I experienced “miracles” in my business?
The Power of Feeling Your Feelings
* Why processing emotions is essential (not just meditation or breathing exercises)
* The story Paul Gemo shared about crying in his car after making payroll
* How acknowledging and releasing feelings helps you reset and move forward
Energy Over Action
* Making energy the priority instead of action
* Why taking time to process emotions isn’t wasting time—it’s essential work
* How crying, feeling, and acknowledging can create breakthroughs
The Responsibility Trap
* How taking on energetic responsibility for others (employees, clients, family) creates pressure
* The difference between helping/serving vs. saving/fixing
* Why taking less responsibility for others allows you to hold more and lead better
Choosing Your Story
* How there’s a story behind every action and goal
* The practice of consciously choosing which story you believe
* Why you can’t “think your way out” when you’re in survival mode
Memorable Quotes
“When you start resenting your business, you’re gonna treat it like s**t. Because you’re angry and you’re not meeting your own needs because you’ve decided that’s not possible for you. You’ve created your own hell.” — Stacey
“If you don’t even let yourself think that success is possible while taking vacation, you are not gonna build the life that will make that possible.” — Stacey
“Your energy creates results as much as your actions do. And that’s a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow.” — Scott
“Where you are with your business has just as much to do with your attitude as it does with your actions.” — Scott
Guest Bio
Stacey Steinmiller is a transformational coach supporting entrepreneurs and leaders to rise beyond fear and self-doubt to embody their highest desires and live a soul-aligned life. Her work focuses on the relationship between energy, beliefs, and business success—helping driven entrepreneurs break free from burnout and build sustainable, fulfilling businesses.
Connect with Stacey:
* Website: RadicalLifeCoach.com
* Substack: RadicalEvolution.Substack.com
Resources Mentioned
* Read the full article that inspired this episode on Stacey’s Substack
* Journal prompts for examining limiting beliefs (included in the article)
* Story: Paul Gemo’s vulnerable moment about making payroll at Craft Cannery
Next Steps
If this episode resonated with you:
* Take 20 minutes to journal with the prompts Stacey shared
* Notice where you’re unconsciously choosing doubt over trust
* Pay attention to the “miracles” that happen in your business when you’re not forcing
* Reach out to Stacey if you’re ready to do deeper work on shifting your beliefs and energy
About This Show
This podcast explores energy work, entrepreneurship, and the inner game of building a business that doesn’t burn you out. Hosted by Scott Fitzgerald, featuring regular conversations with transformational coach Stacey Steinmiller about what it really takes to succeed as an entrepreneur—from the inside out.
Subscribe and follow for more episodes on energy, belief work, and sustainable business growth.
Production by Rock Fox StudiosIf you want to do a live stream or podcast like this, visit RocVox.com —walk in, talk, walk out. We handle everything else.
Get full access to RADICAL EVOLUTION at radicalevolution.substack.com/subscribe