If you want your way, fight. Remember: where there is a fight, there are walls of defense.But if you want hearts, surrender. Instead of fortifying defenses, you weaken them. Humility dismantles argument and conflict.Jesus' death was a submission, a voluntary offering. When a greater authority voluntarily submits itself to a lower authority, it is not a defeat or a victory, but an entirely different type of warfare. The result is not victory by force, but by love--a conquest of the heart.