“WORTH MORE THAN RUBIES”

In this season make it your mission to become a better you. Whether you are overcoming a toxic pattern, toxic relationship or trying your best to break free from “stinking thinking” and self sabotaging behavior, I want you to know that you have the ability and power with God to change those areas of your life that your future is depending on. We often don’t want to be real with ourselves, but if changing your toxic behavior and transforming your life requires you to dig deep and uproot what you’ve been suppressing for so long…. Than so be it! You are worthy of living a life of love, peace and true joy! In this season be consistent, be intentional, be wise, be diligent, be receptive, be encouraged and be true to you!

We’ve all been guilty of carrying more than we should. We often are weighed down by shame, worry, doubt, problems that don’t belong to us and past pain. On this rainy day I hope that you all understand that you’re not alone and that God is with you. You don’t have to carry it anymore…. Whatever your “it” is… Know that it’s only heavy because you haven’t given it to God yet! Be encouraged

Often we feel like we’re losing when we endure heartache, betrayal, the word no, rejection, pain and so much more. But often we fail to realize that God makes absolutely no mistakes and He cannot and will not fail. We don’t lose just because the canvas that’s being painted seems dark, we don’t lose just because we’re enduring character building days and our hearts our wrapped in pain. But instead we win every day. Every situation that has birthed a life lesson has birthed a win…..and every ounce of pain that has been endured hasn’t been endured in vain! The sooner we realize that our degrees don’t hold more weight than our experiences and pain, the sooner we’ll clearly see that …..We win everyday!

Often life has its challenges and often if not secure in who we are or within Christ; we’ll allow the opinions and perceptions that others have regarding us to become our reality! Although adversity can’t be avoided I want you to know that no matter what you are currently enduring, you are victorious and you will always win! There’s purpose within every ounce of pain and within everything we endure within life. But the sooner we realize that we serve a God that promises to never leave us or forsake us the better off we’ll be. On today stand firmly on the promises of God, walk with your head held high, in confidence, in love for yourself and for others and continue to rise above everything that has been assigned to distract and throw you off course. Be encouraged!

Isn’t it ironic how we make, making the right decisions harder than they should be? We often internalize everything and refuse to see the reality of what or who a person, place or thing really is. It’s often our distorted perception of how we wished things were that keeps us in arms that don’t deserve us. It’s also our bad habit of making excuses that keep us stagnant and in the same expired place for to long! On today I challenge you to be bold and to see yourself through the lens of Christ. You matter, your life matters and your heart matters. Making those right decisions… those God decisions can and will change the direction and course of your life in a beautiful way!! Be encouraged on today and know that you are worthy of so much more…. Don’t fear the process; but fear being in the same place two years from now.

In this season “Choose you”! Move on in grace, move on knowing that you are deserving of genuine love, kindness and honesty. Move on knowing that you deserve to be whole. It’s not always about how we “ENTER” something but often how we “EXIT” as well. On today choose integrity, choose your dignity and your self-respect. Despite the pain that you may feel from making the right decision, I want you to know that there’s an incredible blessing attached to you walking away from anything or anyone that didn’t benefit your walk with Christ. Be encouraged

On today I hope that you know that it’s okay to grieve, it’s okay to feel, it’s okay if you feel the emotion of anger and sadness after making the right choice. I want you to know that you matter, that you’re important and that true strength is within you making the courageous decision to be honest with yourself and with those that you trust about the current condition of your heart. I hope that you remain encouraged on today and that on everyday …… you choose life!

Often we neglect ourselves to please and remain in good graces with others, on today I want you to realize how valuable you are. When you’re always so accessible and fear the reaction of others regarding your “NO” you are proving that you have the inability to show up for yourself daily and be authentically you! Know that you are important, you are resilient and you are stronger than you think you are. Be bold, be wise… and Be intentional on today.

On today go where the love is! Go where the encouragement, grace, strength and compassion reside. While you walk in love towards others and for yourself on today make sure the environment you choose to settle in; is an environment that mirrors the love of God! Be encouraged.

On today love people beyond their pain and scars. Some people do not have the capacity to give you what you want or need due to past pain, upbringing and let’s face it a “lack of wanting to”. But love yourself enough today not to yearn for love from someone that has the inability to love themselves or others. Everything you need God is, while hurt people do hurt people… hurt people also need someone to see beyond their pain. So If you find yourself helping someone through their healing, I want you to know that your heart and mind matter also and While being gentle with others please be gentle with yourself! Be encouraged and keep blooming 🌻