Every turning point starts as a setback.

In Episode 23 of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Mike and Randy each share the moment that changed everything for them. The loss. The disappointment. The hit to the ego. The season where nothing felt certain.

Not the highlight reel.

The setback.

Mike talks about the personal and professional moments that forced him to rebuild his identity from the ground up. Randy shares the story that reshaped how he saw the business, himself, and what really matters.

Here is the truth: the setback that feels like it is breaking you is often the one building you.

This is not a motivational fluff episode. It is a real conversation about what happens when plans fall apart and you have to decide who you are going to be next.

If you are walking through a hard season right now, this one is for you.

There is always a little more fight left in you.

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Episode 22 – Life After Wrestling and Rebuilding Confidence

Mike Kinney & Randy Harig with Jay Behrends (formerly Big Daddy Dolan)

What happens when the ring goes quiet??

In this episode of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Mike and Randy are joined by former professional wrestler Jay Behrends, once known to fans as Big Daddy Dolan, for an honest conversation about identity, commitment, and rebuilding confidence after wrestling.

This is not a nostalgia episode. It is a real look at what comes after the gear comes off and the spotlight fades.

Jay talks about how he got into wrestling, why the gimmick only works when it is real, and the infamous cake match that fans still remember today. More importantly, he opens up about the emotional reality of life after wrestling and why confidence does not automatically transfer to the next chapter.

This episode explores:

• Identity loss after wrestling

• Commitment and credibility in performance

• Rebuilding confidence after a major setback

• Life after the ring

• Who you are when the match is over

This conversation goes beyond wrestling. It is for anyone who has had to redefine themselves after a defining chapter ended.

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Most people want results before they decide who they are.
That order creates confusion, inconsistency, and fragile confidence.

In this episode of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Mike Kinney & Randy Harig break down why identity must come before outcomes and what professional wrestling teaches us about the difference between playing a role and owning who you are.

You will hear why people copy instead of commit, why leaders hide behind titles, and why the most impactful performers were never pretending. They were themselves, turned up.

When identity is clear, decisions get easier.
When identity is owned, confidence compounds.

This episode is for leaders, creators, and anyone rebuilding confidence after a setback.

Bonus conversations are available on Patreon at patreon.com/wrestlingwithtomorrow
Learn more about Mike’s speaking and leadership work at kinneyconfidence.com

Most people believe confidence is something you wait for.
In this episode, Mike and Randy break down why that belief keeps people stuck.

Drawing from job interviews, wrestling, and speaking experiences that did not go as planned, they unpack how preparation directly fuels confidence and why relying on past success or personality eventually fails in new environments.

This conversation explores the difference between ego and earned confidence, why reps matter more than hype, and how showing up prepared changes how you perform under pressure.

If you are stepping into a new role, a new year, or a new challenge, this episode sets the tone for how confidence is actually built.

In Episode 19 of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Randy Harig and Mike Kinney sit down for a wide ranging and emotional conversation that reflects both loss and forward momentum.

The episode opens with a heartfelt discussion honoring the life and impact of Travis Sharpe, processing grief inside the wrestling community, and acknowledging how loss affects people differently. From there, the conversation shifts into the evolving world of Lucha Union, including what was learned behind the scenes and what it takes to build something sustainable.

Randy and Mike then look back on 2025 with honesty. The wins, the setbacks, the lessons that mattered, and the moments that forced growth. The episode closes with a clear eyed outlook for 2026, focused on intention, accountability, and doing things the right way.

This is not a highlight reel. It is a real conversation about wrestling, mental health, leadership, and what comes next.

Subscribe to Wrestling With Tomorrow and follow along as the story continues.

Episode 18 was recorded inside the El Parral Ballroom while the crew was setting up for the next Lucha Union show. Randy and I wanted you to feel the energy of a room coming together in real time and to understand how much work and belief goes into building something from the ground up. We talk about the aftermath of Grand Slam and how that match reshaped the year, what it really takes to launch a wrestling promotion, and why Austin MN continues to be the heartbeat of this entire universe. You’ll hear honest conversations about pressure, identity, confidence, long nights, and the grind behind the scenes as the ring goes up around us. We walk through the card, share what the documentary team is capturing tonight, break down the business moves happening behind the curtain, and look ahead to where all of this is heading in 2026. If you want a raw look at the chaos, the passion, and the mission of Wrestling With Tomorrow, this is the episode. Let’s get to work!

The dust has settled after MAW Grand Slam VII — and Cowboy Gator Magraw’s long-awaited return is finally in the books. In this episode, Mike and Randy break down everything that happened at the show: the emotion, the chaos, and the moments the cameras didn’t capture. From the roar of the crowd to the reality of what comes next, this is the unfiltered story behind one of the biggest independent wrestling moments of the year. They’ll share honest reflections on the night, reactions from fans, and what this means for Wrestling With Tomorrow moving forward. In this episode: Behind the curtain of Grand Slam VII The emotional impact of Mike’s comeback match Favorite matches and standout moments from the show Lessons learned for wrestlers, promoters, and fans alike What’s next for Gator, Lucha Union, and the WWT universe Follow & Support: Cowboy Gator Magraw Micro Brawlers: strictlygator.com Patreon exclusives: patreon.com/wrestlingwithtomorrow YouTube: @kinneyconfidence Instagram: @wwt.pod TikTok: @wrestlingwithtomorrow

In this episode of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Mike Kinney and Randy Harig sit down just days before MAW Grand Slam VII — where Mike steps back into the ring for the first time in nearly 20 years. It’s not about hype. It’s about the stillness before everything changes. They dive into what it means to prepare mentally and physically when the stakes are personal, not just professional. You’ll hear about: The grind no one sees when the cameras aren’t rolling How self-doubt and discipline battle for control before a big moment Why calm doesn’t mean weak — it means ready What legacy really looks like when you stop chasing approval and start owning your story This is The Calm Before the Bell — a conversation about pressure, purpose, and the peace that comes when you’ve done the work. 🎧 Listen now, share with a friend who’s chasing their own comeback, and be ready when the bell rings. #WrestlingWithTomorrow #CowboyGatorMagraw #GrandSlamVII #Motivation #MensMentalHealth

This week on Wrestling With Tomorrow, Randy takes the reins as host for a special Max Kellerman–style interview between Aaron Corbin and Cowboy Gator Magraw. The face-off format pulls no punches—Corbin and Gator go head-to-head, exchanging sharp words and raw emotion. Tensions rise, the heat builds, and fans get a rare look at the personal and professional friction driving this rivalry. Don’t miss this exclusive episode that sets the stage for what’s coming next. 👉 Join the conversation and unlock bonus content at: patreon.com/wrestlingwithtomorrow

This week, the gloves are off. The Kickstarter failed. The documentary’s off. The BBQ rub deal fell through. Mike’s walking into his final match with busted ribs and a full plate of everyday life hitting at once. In Episode 15 of Wrestling With Tomorrow, Mike and Randy strip away the highlight reel and talk about what happens when the dream you’ve been chasing starts to crumble. It’s raw, messy, and painfully real — but also funny, honest, and full of that stubborn “get-back-up” spirit the show’s built on.

Inside this episode:

A few laughs, a few F-bombs, and a reminder that the show always goes on!