12.03.2014 - By Craig Haworth: Youth Sports Coaching Strategist and Podcaster
What does it take to be a winning youth coach? Listen in as Mike Frederick shares coaching stories and discusses his journey to becoming a successful coach.
Mike played 5 years in the NFL, including a Super-Bowl run with the Tennessee Titans, 1 year with the original Cleveland Browns, and 3 years with the Baltimore Ravens. He is now the head football coach at his alma mater, Neshaminy High School in Philadelphia. Mike is married and has four children.
Neshaminy H.S. on Twitter: @neshaminy
Neshaminy H.S. Website: neshaminyfootball.com
NFL Player article on Mike: nflplayerengagement.com
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Coaching/Leadership Quote
'The reason I coach is to make each player feel valued - from the top player on the roster to the bottom'
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The Music City Miracle
This was a play they practiced every week all season - so the team was prepared, the coach did not panic, and even though it didn't go exactly as planned - the players were prepared and executed the play successfully.
My ‘Cringe’ Moment
Pulling players immediately after they make a mistake - you teach your players to play in fear instead of aggressively
My ‘Ah-Ha Moment’
HUGE IDEA #1: 'The best time to implement change is after a win' - players are in a good mood, your voice will come across less irritating, studies show kids are apt to listen more after a win. After a loss is when you need to be more encouraging.
Teaching Children & Keeping it Fun
Each kid responds to different types of teaching - and the only way to figure it out with each kid is trial and error
Change things up: Play loud music during practice(learning to communicate in a loud setting); set fun goals: if our running back out-rushes their running back then we get ice cream(great goal b/c it affects the offense and defense)
Best Stolen Idea/Advice from another Coach
'The reason I coach is to make each player feel valued - from the top player on the roster to the bottom'
Recommended Resources
HUDL - allows him to watch film with his coaches while at their own home. Also they exchange 3 films with each team they play- so they physically don't send any scouts to any games. You can also track how long players have been on HUDL - so they try to catch their players doing something right and recognize players that are putting extra time in.
Other coaches - if you're struggling with something - call up some other coaches and ask for a few tips
Discipline
4 step process for a player who has a concern or is upset:
Talk to your position coach
Talk to your coordinator
Talk to the head coach
If there is still a problem - then the head coach can pull in the parents if needed
Reward and Recognition
Mike asked the players if there were any 'entertainers' in the group (artistic, musicians, rappers, etc.) - told them to prepare something - and on the last 3-a-day of the summer - they skipped the last practice and let the players 'entertain' the team
Inspiring Story
Joe Ehrmann has been a personal mentor to Mike, and Mike has implemented Joe's philosophy of how to love these kids.
Mike shared a story of a kid from Haiti who didn't have much money or insurance, but when he turned 18 he purchased his own 4-month insurance rider and is playing for their team his senior year. Very inspiring to Mike and the whole team. 'That's why I coach'
Winning/Goals for a Youth Coach
HUGE IDEA #2- Priorities for a Youth Sports Coach: