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What happens when you spend your life being underestimated and somehow turn that into your greatest advantage?

In this episode, I sit down with Judit Pach, former Hungarian Ambassador to Indonesia, ASEAN, Singapore and Brunei, whose journey into diplomacy was never actually part of the plan.

We talk about feeling like an outsider from a young age, becoming a government spokesperson at just 25, and then stepping into her first ambassadorial role at 30 while people openly questioned whether she was too young, and too female, for the job.

Judit takes me behind the polished image of diplomatic life: the power dynamics, loneliness, crises, cultural misunderstandings and high-stakes business diplomacy that eventually taught her how to use being the underdog to her advantage.

And after reaching the top of a career, she did something equally unexpected: she walked away, stayed in Singapore and began exploring a new life at the intersection of international business, geopolitics and Asia-Europe relations.

We also talk about women in leadership, commanding a room when you don’t fit the traditional image of authority, and why Judit now wants to be the mentor she wishes she had when she was finding her own way.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:46 The Career She Never Planned

02:08 Leaving Diplomacy, Staying in Singapore

04:52 Why Singapore Looks to the Future

07:19 Too Young. Too Female.

12:32 The Underdog Strategy

16:19 Selling a Country Nobody Knows

23:16 Bullied at 16, Built a Strategy

30:19 The Reality of Ambassador Life

33:23 When Diplomacy Becomes Crisis Management

38:45 Life After Reaching the Top

42:14 The Advice She Still Needs

💫 ABOUT JUDIT PACH

Judit Pach is a former Ambassador and senior executive with over two decades of experience across Europe and Asia, spanning diplomacy, strategic communications, business development, and international relations. She is also a passionate advocate for women’s leadership, mentoring, and sustainability.

CONNECT WITH JUDIT → https://www.linkedin.com/in/judit-pach/

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💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact.

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

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What happens when one unexplained paranormal experience completely changes the direction of your life?

In this episode, I sit down with Eugene Tay, founder of Supernatural Confessions and paranormal researcher, to talk about his journey into Singapore’s supernatural world.

We get into the possession experience that started everything, the haunted house where Eugene says he unknowingly spoke to a dead woman, how he claims to cleanse homes, and the extraordinary story of using a wooden doll to outwit a spirit.

Eugene also shares why he keeps an entire collection of supposedly haunted objects, how Supernatural Confessions became his full-time work, his experiences visiting Singapore’s haunted locations, and one of his strangest recent encounters in Kashi, India.

This is a candid conversation about ghosts, possession, haunted homes, spiritual practices, fear, the paranormal, and the mysteries Eugene believes exist beyond the physical world.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 How Supernatural Confessions Began

01:03 The Possession That Changed Eugene

05:13 The Footprints Appeared

08:11 He Spoke to a Dead Woman

13:57 The Doll That Fooled a Spirit

15:14 Paranormal or Mental Health?

17:19 How Eugene Cleanses Homes

19:13 His Collection of Haunted Items

23:32 The Voice That Changed Everything

42:47 Eugene’s Kashi Encounter

47:09 What He Wants His Son to Remember

💫 ABOUT EUGENE TAY

Eugene Tay is the founder of Supernatural Confessions, a Singapore-based paranormal platform exploring supernatural experiences, haunted locations, and unexplained encounters. A paranormal researcher, writer, and mystic, he explores the intersection of personal experiences, spirituality, folklore, and the supernatural.

CONNECT WITH EUGENE → https://supernaturalconfessions.com/

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved.

With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact.

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

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📩 Sponsorship and Guest Appearances Requests → [email protected]

What happens when a woman spends years trying to make a relationship work…only to realize her nervous system has been running the show?

In this episode, I sit down with somatic relationship coach Janel Smith to talk about why we behave like children in relationships.

We get into relationship anxiety, primal panic, codependency, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, and why your rational brain can disappear the moment you feel a partner pulling away.

Janel also shares why she left New York for India after her career and relationship collapsed at the same time, what that breakdown taught her about validation, safety and love, and how she rebuilt her life around what felt right.

This is a candid conversation about anxious attachment, emotional healing, healthy relationships and what it really takes to feel safe in love again—without trying to become perfectly "healed."

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 Intro

00:59 Why Does Love Make Us Lose Our Minds?

01:29 Your Body Knows Before Your Brain Does

03:23 When "He's Not Texting Back" Feels Like an Emergency

08:05 Are Any of Us Actually Secure in Love?

09:17 "I Thought Something Was Wrong With Me"

12:10 What to Do When Your Brain Goes Offline

14:19 What Working in Emergency Rooms Taught Her About Love

16:21 Are You Loving Him… or Trying to Save Him?

21:49 When "Doing the Work" Alone Isn't Enough

25:26 The 14-Year-Old Girl Janel Never Forgot

28:26 The Privilege Most of Us Don't Even Notice

32:03 Successful Career. Broken Relationship. Total Burnout.

35:53 Maybe Healing Isn't What We Think It Is

💫 ABOUT JANEL SMITH

Janel Smith is a somatic relationship coach and the founder of Grounded Love™, where she helps women heal anxious attachment and grow secure relationships. A nurse practitioner with dual master's degrees, she built a successful career leading global health programs before burnout and a breakup sent her on a personal healing journey from self-improvement to self-acceptance. Today, through her signature GROW Method™ and a trauma-informed, somatic attachment approach, she guides women to feel safe in relationships, working with clients both in Bali, where she's based, and online around the world.

CONNECT WITH JANEL → https://www.janelrsmith.com/

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact.

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

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Can a relationship stay healthy when love becomes a struggle over needs, expectations and personal agency?

In this episode I sit down with Amara Samata—private advisor on love and legacy, to talk about why couples fall into crisis and what can help rebuild connection.

We get into self-ownership, Relationship Squared, power-couple dynamics, modern dating, AI relationships and non-traditional relating.

Amara also shares why trying to fix or control a partner often points back to unresolved needs within ourselves, and how mutual consideration can create a stronger relationship.

This is a candid conversation about communication, boundaries, relationship repair and human connection.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 Podcast Trailer


01:15 Introduction and Navigating Relationships in Crisis

04:02 Double Mutual Consideration and the Four Compartments of Care

06:50 Identifying Inner Needs Versus Trying to Control a Partner

10:59 Holding Space and Proactive Growth in Couples Advisory

15:50 Balancing Professional Success and Intimacy in Power Couples

17:53 Artificial Intimacy and the Evolutionary Purpose of Connection

22:34 Breaking Unconscious Agreements and Building the Shared We

27:08 How Daily Resentments Accumulate and Shifting Marriage Norms

33:21 Modern Dating Dynamics and the Mindset of Single Women

37:53 Setting Healthy Boundaries and Staying Open to Possibility

45:17 Navigating Non-Traditional and Open Relationship Dynamics

52:34 Personal Desires for Partnership and Closing Thoughts

💫 ABOUT AMARA SAMATA

Amara Samata is a private advisor to families, founders and individuals on love and legacy. She works with couples navigating relationship crises and also discusses her work with founder CEOs and high-powered couples. Her approach explores self-ownership, communication and “Relationship Squared”—a framework centered on mutual consideration between partners.

CONNECT WITH AMARA SAMATA → https://amarasamata.com/

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact.

CONNECT WITH YANA

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LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

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Kate Petersil shut down a thriving business, ended a 14-year marriage, and somehow came out of it asking a bigger question:

What if falling apart is actually part of becoming more yourself?

In this episode, I sit down with Kate to talk about her journey from motherhood and entrepreneurship to Mount Kailash, spiritual awakening, divorce, conscious uncoupling, and rebuilding life from a completely different place.

We get into why she walked away from a successful women’s club, what difficult conversations taught her about honesty and leadership, and how she learned to stop forcing what no longer felt aligned.

Kate also shares how she reframed divorce, co-parenting, love, business failure, personal growth, and the pressure women feel to “hold everything together.”

This is a raw conversation about relationships, women in business, self-discovery, healing, motherhood, spirituality, and what it really takes to trust your heart when logic is telling you not to.

If you’re in the middle of a life transition, questioning your relationship, career, identity, or next chapter, this conversation might hit very close to home.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 | The Woman Who Reinvented Herself

03:31 | What Happens When You Stop Fighting Life?

05:47 | The Lesson Women Learn in Their Bodies

07:40 | What If Success Isn’t the Point?

09:26 | Why Walk Away When Everything Is Working?

13:54 | Starting Over When Your Old Life No Longer Fits

18:35 | The Conversations Most People Keep Avoiding

19:53 | How Big Can One Crazy Idea Become?

21:54 | The Values That Change How You Live

26:23 | When Love Is Still There, but the Relationship Isn’t 27:19 | What You Discover When You Finally Tell the Truth

29:19 | Can You Let Go Without Becoming Bitter?

30:10 | A Different Way to Love After Separation

32:30 | What Are You Really Searching For?

35:27 | What Do Your Children Learn From Your Choices?

37:08 | What If the Relationship Didn’t Fail?

40:59 | The Advice She Wishes She Had Followed Earlier

42:55 | What If Heartbreak Is Doing the Opposite?

44:53 | The Question We Should Be Asking More Often

48:40 | One Last Moment Before the Cameras Go Off

💫 ABOUT KATE PETERSIL

Kate Petersil (Ekaterina Petersil) is an international entrepreneur, mindset mentor, and host of the Dushevnoe Utro (Soulful Morning) podcast. As the co-founder of the global networking platform MeetPartners, she built a massive community alongside top self-development icons.Today, Kate channels her massive influence across Instagram and YouTube into empowering female leaders worldwide through her exclusive WM Club, global masterminds, and spiritual retreats.

CONNECT WITH KATE → https://www.instagram.com/katepetersil

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

💫 Free Masterclass — 9 Love Archetypes™: https://love.yanafry.com

📩 Book a 1:1 with Yana: [email protected]

What happens when a man spends nearly 60 years doing relationships "the traditional way"… and then decides to rewrite the rules?

In this episode I sit down with Angel Belove, a men's mentor, tantra teacher and relationship coach, to talk about his journey from corporate life and long-term monogamy to a radically different way of approaching love, intimacy and connection.

We get into modern masculinity, men's mental health, emotional intelligence, why so many men struggle to express sadness, and what Angel calls the new "HE-Man": Healthy, Emotionally Expressed masculinity.

Angel also shares what decades of marriage, fatherhood, divorce and relationship work taught him about dating, communication, polarity and building deeper emotional connection—and why, at 60, he questioned whether love and intimacy had to follow the traditional relationship model at all.

This is a candid conversation about masculinity, tantra, modern dating and what it really takes to build a life where success and love don't have to compete.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 | Why So Many Men Feel Lost Right Now

01:35 | The Masculinity Rules That Aren’t Working Anymore

03:05 | What Does a Strong Man Actually Look Like Today?

03:25 | The Version of Masculinity Angel Had to Unlearn

06:10 | What “Be a Man” Quietly Does to Men

09:55 | The New Kind of Man Angel Wants to Create

10:40 | What Men’s Anger Is Really Hiding

12:20 | Why Men Need Other Men More Than They Admit

13:10 | The Communication Skill That Changes Relationships

15:25 | Have Modern Relationships Lost Their Spark?

18:00 | What If You’re Not Supposed to Stay in One Role?

19:25 | The Relationship Shift That Changes the Whole Dynamic

20:25 | What Healthy Feminine Energy Actually Feels Like

22:50 | The Secret to Keeping Attraction Alive

24:15 | Successful, Independent… So Why Is Love Still Missing?

25:00 | The Hidden Price You Pay for Success

27:25 | You Don’t Need More Time. You Need This.

30:10 | How to Know What Deserves More of Your Life

31:45 | At 60, Angel Completely Changed How He Loves

34:40 | The One Thing That Could Help You Live Longer

💫 ABOUT ANGEL BE

Angel Be is a modern relationship guide and certified love coach specializing in conscious connection, intimacy, and compassionate communication. A certified Tantra Counselor, he helps individuals and couples navigate modern relationships with greater authenticity, presence, and depth.

CONNECT WITH ANGEL → https://coaching-for-couples.ghost.io/about-angel/

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

I thought most divorces came down to “communication issues.” Turns out, the real answer may be much simpler: sex, money, or kids.

In this conversation, I https://www.instagram.com/yanafry and The Forties Formula unpack the three biggest causes of divorce, why long-term couples stop talking honestly about intimacy, and how resentment quietly builds inside a marriage.

We also discuss sexual shame, mismatched expectations, changing desire after children, and why your partner cannot read your mind.

And when couples finally ask for help, the wrong kind of therapy can sometimes make the problem even worse.

Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass and discover how to attract and thrive in soulmate relationships → https://love.yanafry.com

Watch this if you want a more honest conversation about marriage, intimacy, relationship communication, and what actually keeps couples together.

Click here for the full episode on The Forties Formula Podcast, where I am being interviewed by Amanda and Jasmin => https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzXRHQhsHAE

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

62 years of marriage, one bank account, plenty of disagreements… and somehow, divorce was never part of the conversation.

I sat down with Mannie Chidambaram to understand what a long-lasting marriage actually looks like after six decades of building a life, a family, and a partnership together.

Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass and decode how finally to be happily married → https://love.yanafry.com

She shares her refreshingly direct marriage advice on money, accepting your partner as they are, why today’s generation feels so restless, and what she believes makes relationships last.

We also talk about women empowerment, whether having more freedom has actually made women happier, and the advice she would give young girls growing up today.

This is less about the “secret to a happy marriage” and more about the life lessons you only get after actually living one for 62 years.

And when I asked Mannie about the happiest moments of her life, her answer brought the whole conversation back to what mattered most.

Watch full episode with Mannie Chidambaram here 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iq5vrvG66Co

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

What happens when love gets lost in translation… and your partner’s culture makes every argument feel like a completely different language?

In this episode, I https://www.instagram.com/yanafry sat down with psychologist, couples therapist and sex therapist Ho Shee Wai, who has spent 28 years helping relationships survive conflict, cultural differences, intimacy struggles and major life transitions.

Having worked with couples from around 80 nationalities, she explains why some people want peace, others want connection, and why even the language you speak can change how your partner experiences you.

Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass and discover how to attract and thrive in soulmate relationships → https://love.yanafry.com

We also talk about sexless marriages, rebuilding desire after children, financial conflict, open relationships, neurodivergence and the silent treatment.

This is an honest, practical conversation about couples therapy, relationship advice and how two people can stop fighting over whose culture is right, and create a new one together.

IN THIS EPISODE

00:00 | Why Your Partner’s Love Can Feel Completely Wrong

02:33 | Love Languages Don’t Explain This

04:02 | The Real Reason You Feel Invisible

06:15 | Stop Expecting Your Partner to Read Your Mind

09:33 | The Fairytale That Quietly Damages Relationships

12:15 | Why Expat Marriages Face the Ultimate Stress Test

15:04 | You Become a Different Person in Another Language

18:15 | Men Want Peace. Women Want This Instead

20:26 | The Money Fight Most Couples Avoid

25:12 | The Relationship Rules You Must Create Yourself

26:09 | Why Loving Couples Still Fight So Badly

27:45 | Silent Treatment Isn’t Silence to Your Partner

30:13 | Winning the Argument Could Cost You the Relationship

31:57 | What Couples Get Wrong About Sex Therapy

36:05 | Sexual Chemistry Isn’t Something You Either Have or Don’t

37:43 | Can One Partner’s Needs Stay Unmet Forever?

39:50 | The Rule Open Relationships Cannot Survive Without

42:49 | How Desire Disappears After Children

45:22 | When Your Partner’s Brain Works Differently

48:26 | The Identity Struggle Third Culture Kids Rarely Explain

49:49 | Where Do You Belong When You’re From Everywhere?

50:40 | The One Habit That Keeps Love Alive

💫 ABOUT HO SHEE WAI

Ho Shee Wai is the Director and Registered Psychologist of The Counselling Place, a Singapore-based private practice celebrating its 20th anniversary this year. With 28 years of clinical experience, she works with individuals, couples, and families from diverse cultural backgrounds, specializing in intercultural relationships, expatriate life, and cross-cultural family dynamics. Passionate about making psychology practical and accessible, Shee Wai helps people better understand how culture, identity, and life transitions shape the way we communicate, connect, and build lasting relationships.

CONNECT WITH SHEE WAI:

The Counselling Place → www.thecounsellingplace.com 

Upcoming ADHD group for adult ADHD and their partner → https://www.thecounsellingplace.com/flourishing-with-adhd 

Facebook → https://www.facebook.com/TheCounsellingPlace/

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafry

Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafry

Bookings → [email protected]

I thought success was supposed to make dating easier, not turn every date into a quarterly performance review.

In this conversation, I https://www.instagram.com/yanafry explore why high-achieving women can feel confident at work, but deeply vulnerable in love.

We unpack dating in your 40s, anxious attachment, fear of rejection, emotional walls and the pressure to find commitment before time runs out.

We also discuss why successful women may over-give, pay for everything, rush intimacy or walk away after one small mistake.

Join my 9 Love Archetypes™ Masterclass and discover how to attract and thrive in soulmate relationships → https://love.yanafry.com

This is an honest look at how ambition, control and past heartbreak can quietly shape modern relationships.

Watch the full episode on The Forties Formula Podcast, where i am being interviewed by Amanda and Jasmin => https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzXRHQhsHAE

💫 ABOUT YANA FRY

Yana Adamanta Fry is an internationally recognized love and relationships coach and founder of The Academy of Love™, a pioneering platform that teaches Relational Mastery for high-achieving women, where they learn to be both wildly successful and deeply loved. With over 15 years of global experience and clients from 30+ countries, she weaves ancient wisdom with modern strategy to help high-achieving women create lives of deep purpose, soulful relationships, and lasting impact. 

CONNECT WITH YANA

Website → https://love.yanafry.com

LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/yanafryInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/yanafryBookings → [email protected]