Social Media and Big-Tech try to convince you that their product(s) are about making your life better or “connecting with people” etc. But the companies themselves have the goal of getting your attention, and then keeping you on their platforms for as much of your day as possible. They collect your data and usage habits and then sell your data or use the information to make money off you.
To do that they engage experts in an area of psychology research called "persuasive design," whose scholars seek to understand how to create something that is next to impossible to put down. Persuasive design combines behavioral psychology with technology to alter human behavior – yes, your behavior.
Tristan Harris, an ex-Google employee, speaking to the US Congress said the business model of big social media companies "is to create a society that is addicted, outraged, polarized, performative and disinformed. That's just the fundamentals of how it works."
Emily Jashinsky says these companies wield their power over your mind, to make you angrier, lonelier, dumber, less healthy and more addicted.
We become increasingly disconnected from the real world and end up “living in our heads.”
So what to do? In authentic spiritual systems/practices they promote both “dos” and “don’ts” (Yama/Niyama) in order to change your life. In relation to the topic we are coving I make some suggestions.
· Stay off the apps as much as possible (limit usage),
· don’t just look to fill up an empty space,
· don’t just click on things that are fed to you (it is not harmless!!),
· stop seeking acceptance and validation through empty posts
· don’t just react (get emotionally involved or outraged)
· move to take charge of your mind and its’ contents
· get a (real) life (find PURPOSE)
· become more informed (Yoga Wisdom)
· practice tolerance and humility
· cultivate spiritual wisdom
“One who is not connected with the Supreme Soul can have neither transcendental intelligence nor a steady mind, without which there is no possibility of peace. And how can there be any happiness without peace?” - Bhagavad-gita 2.66