Episode #142: You Can F*cking Choose The Way You Do Relationships, And It’s Epic

Confused AF about what kind of relationship model you actually want because all you’ve ever been taught is monogamy or bust? And even THEN, monogamy has soooo much variability from person to person around expectations, needs, what the relationship feels like/looks like, boundaries etc?Amanda was too. We aren’t taught this shit. We’re just thrown into the world to figure it out by the seat of our pants, so she’s popping into your earbuds today to talk about just what your options really are, so you can move through your relationships and life decisions from a place that is rooted in your unique values, desires and needs.Things she talks about in todays episode: A breakdown of the different relationship models, from Monogamy to Relationship Anarchy (all along her Fuck Yes Relationship Model scale) — go to @amandkatherineloy on Instagram for the visual to follow alongWhat model she feels most particularly aligned withThe importance of knowing your values How to communicate with your partners so you can have aligned expectations RESOURCES:Polysecure by Jessica Fern122: Breaking Down Attachment Styles with Jessica Fern134: I’m Addicted To You Don’t You Know That You’re Toxic Monogamy Culture WORK & CONNECT WITH AMANDA:Peer support sessionsPatreon - join her “close friends” list on Instagram at the $5+ levelAmanda’s book, I Chopped Off My TitsAmanda’s Instagram | WebsiteJoin her email list for all the important things / monthly announcements