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You Changed to Keep Her. That's the Problem | Ep 66
You've changed. So why doesn't she want you more?
In this episode, we'll cover why change driven by fear of losing her often backfires, and why eager, anxious effort can feel like pressure instead of progress. You'll hear why needing her to notice and confirm your growth quietly puts her in a role that kills desire, and what it actually takes to change in a way that doesn't depend on her approval.
I'm hosting a free webinar on Aug 4th where I'll walk through exactly what she needs to see from you after a mistake, and how to give her that without losing yourself in the process. It's at 2:00pm PT, 3:00pm MT, 4:00pm CT, and 5:00pm ET.
Save your seat and register here: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration
I'd love to have you there.
🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast
💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in
Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/
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By Alisa StoddardYou've changed. So why doesn't she want you more?
In this episode, we'll cover why change driven by fear of losing her often backfires, and why eager, anxious effort can feel like pressure instead of progress. You'll hear why needing her to notice and confirm your growth quietly puts her in a role that kills desire, and what it actually takes to change in a way that doesn't depend on her approval.
I'm hosting a free webinar on Aug 4th where I'll walk through exactly what she needs to see from you after a mistake, and how to give her that without losing yourself in the process. It's at 2:00pm PT, 3:00pm MT, 4:00pm CT, and 5:00pm ET.
Save your seat and register here: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration
I'd love to have you there.
🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast
💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in
Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/