In this episode, the host Kyia Mochitani explains how to stay out of the victim mindset. Things happen, people are not always the kindest...but that does not mean we need to throw ourselves a pity party and let the situation get the best of us. 

There is always two sides to every story and 9 times out of 10....we actually had a role in the conflict at hand. 

(KYIA WANTS TO PREFACE THAT THINGS HAPPEN THAT ARE FAR BEYOND OUR CONTROL. NOT EVERY TIME ARE YOU PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD OR PLAYING A ROLE IN A SITUATION THAT HAS HAPPENED)