Sis, if you’ve ever found yourself in a "What are we?" situation, feeling strung along, or settling for potential instead of real love, this episode is for you. Today, we’re breaking down why we stay in situationships, how to break free, and how to start dating with clarity and purpose.

We’ll dive into:

🤍What a situationship really is (and why it’s one-sided)

🤍Why we stay stuck (scarcity mindset, attachment wounds, and chasing potential)

🤍 How to shift your mindset and start dating with intention

🤍 The love you truly deserve and how to recognize it when it comes

🤍Resources for This Episode

📖 Scriptures for Love & Clarity:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – Love is patient, love is kind…
• Proverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart above all else…
• Jeremiah 29:11 – For I know the plans I have for you…

🤍 Journaling Prompts for Self-Reflection:

• What are my non-negotiables in a relationship?
• In what ways have I settled for potential instead of actual love?
• How does love currently feel for me? Safe or uncertain?
• What would my ideal, healthy relationship look like?

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