“I don’t need a man, I just want one.”
 It sounds empowering… but what if it’s actually another layer of protection?

In this episode, love & intimacy mentor Shilpa Cacho unpacks the cultural mantra of not needing a man and shares why, as a healed, self-loving woman, it’s actually safe to say:
“I do need a good man, not to complete me, but to expand me.”

Through her own story of divorce, healing, and remarrying, plus honest reflections about her current marriage, Shilpa explores:

• The hidden fear and self-protection behind “I don’t need a man”
• The difference between needing a man from wounding and desperation vs needing a man from wholeness and desire
• How a healthy, masculine partner deepens your softness, joy, safety, and freedom
• Why feminine women feel different (and more themselves) when they’re with a truly protective, present man
• The impact of provision, emotional leadership, and masculine protection on your nervous system
• How old stories from your past (and even your first marriage) can make nurturing, domestic roles feel like obligation instead of devotion
• Real-life examples, including Shilpa’s sister who married in her 40s and softened into a happier, more feminine version of herself

This episode is a loving permission slip to admit you do want — and yes, in many ways need — a man who is your partner, protector, and soulmate… not because you’re incomplete, but because you were never meant to do life alone.

If you’re ready to call in your own Soul Husband and learn how to soften without losing yourself, this conversation will challenge your beliefs, melt your defenses, and open your heart to a new way of seeing love.

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