If you’ve ever thought “I hate sex,” this episode is for you. Many women don’t hate sex, they hate the pressure, expectation, and performance wrapped around it. When the body doesn’t feel safe, pleasure can’t open, no matter how much desire is there.

This is a re-framing, not a how-to. Nothing is wrong with you, your body has been protecting you bbg! Ahhhh 🤣 , that means babygirl (I blame my seventeen year old 😆)

As we move through December, these episodes are designed to help you slow down, soften, and reconnect with pleasure in a way that feels grounded and honest.

A free starting point for the pleasure education you’ve been missing:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/free-sensation-error

If you’ve been listening and feeling something shift, this page exists to support that:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/start-here

Keywords: why I hate sex, I hate sex, don’t like sex anymore, dislike sex, dead bedroom, women’s desire, low desire in women, pleasure and nervous system, stress and intimacy, embodiment and pleasure, reconnecting to pleasure, low libido