You don't get to CHOOSE how someone loves you w/ Brad Pickett

This week’s topic isn't directly related to weight loss, health, or nutrition. But it could be impacting your ability to stay on track. I know because this topic is something I didn't actually wanna get into. I felt resistance and I didn’t wanna know the truth. At the same time, I DO want to learn, because when it comes to relationships, I don't wanna make the same mistakes I've already made. To help me help you with this, too, I invited special guest Brad Pickett onto the podcast to talk about choosing how someone loves us. As in, when it comes to love, we want to CHOOSE how other people love us. We want to change them to be who WE think they should be. When it's clear they aren't gonna change (or if they do, it's just to get us to shut up about it, so they resent us while only pretending to change), we get mad at THEM... When really, we're the ones who put these expectations on another person that they didn't ask for. Listen, there's nothing wrong with asking for what you want. But expecting someone to change who they are to love you how you say you want to be loved is trying to choose how someone loves you. And your expectations could be the source of fights, arguments and other problems in your life. Tune into this episode for more help understanding why you don't get to choose how someone loves you...including what that means, why it's true, and how accepting it will set you free.   ---- Time to make a shift: https://21dayshift.com ---- Become a VIP https://coderedlifestyle.com/vip ---- Have you seen our new app?  Even when your other social platforms are unavailable, we are here for you on the Code Red App www.coderedlifestyle.com/app ---- Lose your first, next, or last 10 pounds with absolutely NO pills, powders, shakes, or exercise required.  Click Below to join the challenge! http://bit.ly/10lbtakedown ---- Connect with Cristy: Instagram http://bit.ly/cristycoderedIG