You Had Me At Cheese

You Had Me At Cheese

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You Had Me At Cheese episodes

  • Luna’s Experience as a Late Bloomer (The One With The Sugar Mama)
    What happens when the world around you is exploring sexuality, while you are not?

    In this episode, Luna opens up about how culture, religion, and limited sexual education shaped her decision to hold back in her teens and early adulthood. She shares what it felt like to watch others explore while she stayed on the sidelines, and what finally pushed her to begin her own journey of sexual exploration in her 30s.






















    1 hr 2 min
  • Venus's Journey With Sex Toy (The One With The Rocketship)
    From first-time curiosity to ongoing exploration, Venus opens up about her journey with sex toys.

    In this episode, she shares what it was like trying one for the first time, the toys she’s experimented with along the way, what works (and what doesn’t), and how they play a role in her gender euphoria. 


















    38 min
  • Porn (The One With The BYO Porn)
    From awkward first encounters to evolving preferences, we open up about our personal experiences with porn.

    In this episode, we talk about how it was first introduced to us, what we enjoy (and what we don’t), and how our views have shifted over time. Honest, curious, and a little spicy.




















    42 min
  • Luna’s Journey with Boundaries (The One With The Slap on The Bottom)
    What happens when you realise it is time to start saying no?

    In this episode, Luna opens up about her personal journey with boundaries, and shares where she finds her inspiration to keep setting and honouring them. She talks about the place or absence of boundaries in her country of origin, what led her to recognise the need for them, and the challenges of putting them into practice.




















    1 hr 2 min
  • Privilege (The One With The Cleaning Ladies)
    What does it really mean to be privileged?

    In this episode, we unpack the nuances of privilege. How it shows up differently in our lives, the tension of being privileged in some areas while underprivileged in others, and our own experiences navigating the world through both lenses.




















    38 min
  • Hat Roulette ENFJ Clichés (The One With The Whipped Cream)
    What is it really like to live be an ENFJ? 

    In this Hat Roulette episode, we dig into clichés about being “too emotional,” mind-reading, leadership, criticism, and always putting others first.

    Together, we sort through which traits fit, which don’t, and how we actually experience life as two ENFJs.




















    40 min
  • Acceptance - Part 2 (The One With The Circus Act)
    Building on the last episode, Venus and Eclipse shift the conversation inward. 

    Can we hold space for others while still voicing our own truth? What does self-acceptance really look like? And what comes first, being accepted by others or accepting ourselves? 

    Let's explore the meaningful work of showing up with compassion, for ourselves and those around us.







    40 min
  • Acceptance - Part 1 (The One With Pineapple on Pizza)
    What does it mean to feel truly accepted?

    In this episode, Venus and Eclipse explore acceptance through the lens of being seen, heard, and validated. Share stories about times in which they felt invisible, and how differently things could have turned out had acceptance been present.

    From wellbeing to relationships, let's unpack the deep impact of being welcomed as we are. 




    39 min

About You Had Me At Cheese

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After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.

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