This episode starts exactly how you’d expect from us - mid-conversation, laughing, and absolutely no formal intro energy. We talk glimmers (including sweet potatoes, butterflies, and bird sounds at sunrise), relationship therapy breakthroughs, growing together in marriage, and how differently families communicate.

Somewhere along the way:

• Bethany has to chase escaped chickens mid-recording
• Kait confesses to buying herself flowers at the roller rink and pretending they were from a crush
• We relive our high school soundtrack era featuring Britney Spears, Spice Girls, JoJo, and Limp Bizkit
• We talk about confidence, growing up insecure, and why feeling truly seen matters so much
• Plus: reactive dog boarding guilt, giving family members dog instructions, and why one bad weekend won’t ruin your dog’s training

Honestly? This episode feels like sitting at the kitchen table with friends while everyone talks over each other in the best possible way.

In this episode of You Know What I Mean, Bethany and Kait start with a simple idea — share three “glimmers” from the week — and somehow end up talking about everything from books and backyard ecosystems to irrational pet peeves and the lives they’re trying to build.

What begins as a light, feel-good exercise turns into something deeper. They talk about the small moments that bring joy (and how easy they are to overlook), the weird things that make them irrationally defensive, and the tension between where they are now and the lives they’re working toward.

There’s no real structure. No dog training deep dive. Just honest, unfiltered conversation — the kind that makes you feel like you’re sitting at the table with them.

And honestly? That’s kind of the point.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What “glimmers” actually are — and why noticing them matters
• The difference between big wins and small, everyday joy
• Kait’s unexpected reading streak and living in multiple “worlds” at once
• Bethany’s current obsession with gardening and backyard life
• The moment things took a turn… (yes, the chicken story)
• Comfort shows, book vibes, and why some things just hit differently
• The question: what feels unreachable right now?
• Building a life that blends ambition with ease
• Wanting more — while also being content with what you have
• The things that make us irrationally defensive (this gets honest)
• Family dynamics, boundaries, and unspoken tension
• Pet peeves, gym “icks,” and inside thoughts that should stay inside
• Why this podcast doesn’t feel like work — and why we love it

This episode starts off exactly how you’d expect — catching up, talking about life, and yes… a very detailed conversation about homemade lattes and a recent bathroom situation.

But somewhere between ice cream habits, baking dilemmas, and full-on garden mode, we end up having a really honest conversation about dog training — specifically, the growing gap between what people believe online and what actually works in real life.

We talk about:

• why certain narratives around e-collar training stick — even when they don’t match reality
• the difference between hearing about something and actually experiencing it
• how overcomplicating dog training can leave owners feeling stuck
• and why clear, simple communication often gets overlooked

We also get into:

• addictive personalities (coffee edition ☕️)
• the mental gymnastics of having sweets in the house
• plant care becoming a full personality trait
• and the chaos of trying to “tighten things up” after a few weeks of living your best life

It’s one of those episodes that feels like a real conversation — a little all over the place, unexpectedly honest, and somehow still tied together in a way that makes you think.

This episode starts off normal… and then quickly goes in about ten different directions.

We talk about:

• the wildest rodeo story (you’ll know when you hear it 😳)
• why some dogs are just… harder — even when you’re doing everything right
• the difference between reactivity, whining, and the behaviors that actually wear you down
• what it looks like when owners realize their dog isn’t “easy” — and how validating that can be

And then we get into life.

We talk about therapy, relationships, family dynamics, and what it’s like when things feel a little heavier than usual — even when everything looks “fine” on the outside.

There’s also:

• shadow program insights you don’t usually hear
• the reality of emotional vs neutral dog handling
• overthinking, over-talking, and trying to do things “right”
• and somehow… Amazon packages getting sent to the wrong house (again)

It’s one of those episodes that feels like a real conversation — the kind where you laugh, go off on tangents, and then accidentally say something that actually matters.

This one is… a lot. In the best way.

We start with a Stanley cup mix-up that somehow turns into one of the most “on brand” stories we’ve ever told, get into vision boards, Hobby Lobby chaos, and the ongoing saga of the Rogue bench… and eventually (kind of) make our way into dog training.

We talk about what it actually looks like to use the e-collar in real life - not the internet version, not the black-and-white opinions - but the in-the-moment decisions, the nuance, and why it can be such a powerful tool for the dogs who need it most.

There’s also:

• A nervous dog breakthrough that felt like a deep breath at the end of the leash
• The reality of online opinions vs real-world results
• Why we’re not here to convince everyone — and why that matters
• Bird feeders (a lot of bird feeders)
• A childhood book that unexpectedly explains… a lot

It’s one of those episodes that feels like you’re just sitting with us, talking about dogs, life, and whatever else comes up.

And honestly… that might be our favorite kind.

This episode starts in one place and ends somewhere completely different - you know what I mean.

Kait shares a really personal life update about Birdie’s recent cancer diagnosis, the emotional weight of going through something like this again, and what it’s like trying to hold it together while also supporting someone you love.

We talk about that weird in-between feeling of being “not good, but not bad,” how life can feel like one thing after another, and what it actually looks like behind the scenes when you’re still showing up for work, clients, and everyday life.

And then… naturally… we end up talking about TV shows, jury duty, bird feeders, childhood trauma via bug stories, and whether it would be weird to mail someone a dead lizard.

Because that’s life too.

In this episode, Bethany and Kait record in the afternoon for once… and it shows — in the best way.

What starts as a casual catch-up about hair appointments, eyebrows, and TV shows quickly spirals into a mix of hilarious stories, random thoughts, and surprisingly meaningful moments.

They talk about:

• The comfort of background shows (and why The Great British Bake Off fixes everything)
• The crime shows currently taking over Bethany’s brain
• Laughing so hard you can’t breathe (and the exact moment it happens)
• The tiny, unexpected things that bring joy — like growing lemons or spotting something meaningful on a walk
• Why noticing small moments might actually change your day
• Family dynamics, holidays, and navigating grief in real life
• The blurred lines between being a dog trainer and being human
• And… a very questionable idea involving interviewing strangers in public

This episode is light, honest, a little all over the place — and exactly what it feels like to sit down and catch up with a friend when there’s no agenda.

Because sometimes the best conversations are the ones that don’t go anywhere…
and somehow end up meaning something anyway.

You know what we mean.

In this episode, Bethany and Kait catch up in the most them way possible — starting with birthday dinners, chef experiences, and a suspiciously expensive antique basket… and somehow ending up in a conversation about identity, business evolution, and the parts of life we don’t share online.

They talk about:

• Why Instagram feels like dating in the early stages
• The weird pressure to buy something in antique stores
• The difference between how life looks vs. how it actually feels
• Questioning your business (even when it’s going well)
• Outgrowing things you once loved — and what to do with that
• The reality of dog ownership that no one prepares you for
• And the nuanced, sometimes uncomfortable conversations around training, responsibility, and making hard decisions

This episode is funny, honest, a little all over the place — and also the kind of conversation that makes you feel less alone in whatever “messy middle” you’re in right now.

Because sometimes everything looks good on the outside…
but you’re still figuring things out behind the scenes.

You know what we mean.

In this episode of You Know What I Mean, Kait and Bethany catch up on everything from life updates to the weird things that pop into your brain when you’re a dog trainer.

What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into one of those classic “you know what I mean” episodes - the kind where the topic changes every few minutes but somehow all makes sense by the end.

They talk about strange recurring dreams, funny travel moments, the realities of working with dogs and owners, and the weird little thoughts that start showing up when you’re in your 30s trying to figure life out.

Along the way they get into:

• The difference between anxious dogs and pushy dogs

• The funny and frustrating things owners say

• Social media pressure in the dog training world

• The things trainers sometimes feel insecure about

• And the random conversations that only happen between friends who’ve known each other a long time

It’s honest, a little chaotic, and very much the kind of conversation you’d hear between two friends sitting on the couch catching up.

Basically… exactly what this podcast is meant to be.

In this episode, Bethany and Kait catch up on life, dog training, and the moments that shape us both personally and professionally.

Bethany shares a meaningful experience meeting friends of her late father and reflects on how grief can change the way we hear stories about the people we love. The conversation turns into an honest discussion about communication, people-pleasing, and how growing older often means becoming more comfortable speaking your truth.

They also dive into real-life trainer struggles - including Bethany’s decision to send a training dog home early after realizing the case wasn’t the right fit. From kennel anxiety and barking dogs to the emotional toll certain cases can take, Bethany and Kait talk openly about boundaries in dog training and why trusting your gut matters.

Along the way, they discuss:

• Why some training cases simply aren’t the right fit

• How crate habits and lifestyle affect anxious dogs

• The reality of working with owners vs. working with dogs

• Social media backlash and navigating criticism as a trainer

• The pressure (and freedom) of building your own path in the dog training industry

• Why it’s okay to change your mind about what you share online

As always, the episode blends humor, real talk, and behind-the-scenes insight into the lives of two trainers figuring it out as they go.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, questioned your approach, or wondered if other trainers deal with the same challenges - this conversation will remind you you’re not alone.

To find more from both Kait and Bethany:

Kane9 Dog Training: https://www.kane9dogtraining.com/

Walking Dog Training: https://walkingdogtraining.com/