You Like It

In today’s special episode, Mistress Madeline takes the reins to interview her dear friend and fellow Domina, Mistress Seren, while co-host Eamon   steps back to listen in like a true fly on the dungeon wall. Settle in as these two powerful Dommes share intimate stories, candid reflections, and plenty of laughs from their journey together in kink.

Madeline and Seren dive deep into their intertwined history, from Madeline’s unforgettable first scene, to bonding through the six-month BDSM intensive that forever shaped their practice. They explore the power of voice notes, Seren’s infamous worm scene, and  how Seren balances sweet-hearted sadism with genuine emotional connection. Along the way, the duo offers invaluable insights on what to do when scenes  go off-track, the art of being a Domme within a romantic partnership, and how to skillfully navigate BDSM dynamics when working with couples.

Mistress Seren is a luxury Domina whose diverse career in art, tech, fashion, and finance informs her deeply psychological and meticulously tailored BDSM practice. Raised in the Rocky Mountains, her approach integrates Mother Nature’s raw power and Carl Jung’s theories of individuation to create authentic and emotionally profound experiences. A true sadist known for her high standards and artistic approach, Seren’s work emphasizes catharsis, transformation, and self-discovery.

Timestamps

• (05:24) Madeline and Soren's Origin Stories
• (14:11) The Intensive BDSM Course
• (20:36) Voice Notes and Creative Collaboration
• (24:27) The Art of Sadism and Masochism
• (35:47) Evoking and Expressing Anger
• (38:30) The Role of a Caring Dom
• (42:53) Ethics and Pitfalls in Doming
• (55:13) Navigating Romantic Relationships and Boundaries
• (01:06:58) Empowering Couples Through BDSM

Links

• Mistress Seren
• Miss Seren (@its.mistress.seren)
• Mistress Seren (@MistressSeren) / X
• Bonded Masterclass

Today on the show, Tantric educator and kink connoisseur Lauren Harkness stops by to demystify everything from group clitoral stroking and Kundalini awakenings to the pitfalls of “Tantra f*ckboys” and sex cults. 
This episode explores the intersection of kink and Tantra, asking whether everyone has the capacity to switch between Dom and sub roles. The conversation covers Lauren’s journey from novice seeker to seasoned teacher in multiple traditions, highlighting the impact of clitoral stroking in group settings and why communal practice can accelerate healing. Lauren unpacks the essence of Neotantra, from subtle Kundalini work to the undeniable charge of erotic embodiment and offers a behind-the-scenes glimpse of what it means to train as a Modern Priestess, avoid “Tantra fuckboys” and navigate the pitfalls of sex-cult dynamics.
A trained Tantrika and Advanced Certified Tantra Educator through Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra, Lauren’s studies encompass Lafayette Morehouse practices, D/s arts and Shamanism with Om Rupani, Somatic Experiencing with Peter Levine, and the Mastery Program at Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts. Co-Founder of The Tantra Institute of NY, Lauren teaches Tantra and other healing modalities to large groups worldwide—including appearances at Burning Man, FYN, and Dark Odyssey—and offers private Tantra Sessions, coaching, and Reiki Healing Attunements. Her work is a powerful stand for personal freedom, grounded erotic exploration, and a life ablaze with awakened pleasure.

Timestamps

• (03:12) Lauren's Journey and Teachings
• (07:54) Clitoral Stroking and the Power of Group Practices
• (19:09) Neotantra and Kundalini 
• (30:53) The Intersection of Kink and Tantra
• (37:55) Is Everyone a Switch?
• (45:10) Training to be a Modern Priestess
• (49:12) Beware of the Tantra Fuckboy
• (57:40) How to Avoid a Sex Cult

Links

• Lauren Harkness
• @sensualalchemistress - Lauren Harkness

• Tantra Illuminated: The Philosophy, History, and Practice
• Source School of Tantra Yoga 
• Lafayette Morehouse
• Om Rupani Workshops
• Mama Gena

Are you a Nice Guy or Bad Boy? Today’s guest, legendary Dom Om Rupani says they are both distortions of the masculine. Buckle up for some edgy gender politics as Madeline and Eamon get a masterclass in polarity, containment and what it really takes to become an integrated man and a good Dom.

In today’s conversation they discuss D/s archetypes and the importance of training and containment in power exchange. It gets spicy with a conversation on why women can’t train their men (unless they’re professionals), and whether egalitarianism really works in relationships. Om makes a compelling case that you can’t perfect a man by criticizing him and teaches how men can move from Nice Guy Syndrome into true masculine integration through kink.

Om Rupani is a master Dom based in New York City with decades of experience at the intersection of Tantra and BDSM. He’s the author of Prerequisites to Ecstasy and the creator of courses like The Dominant Man and Tantra Meets BDSM. He also runs The Modern Priestess of Eros, a six-month immersive designed to train professional Dommes. Whether you’re new to kink or a seasoned player, Om’s insights cut straight to the heart of what it means to embody power, intimacy, and integrity.

Timestamps

• (04:07) The Importance of Training in BDSM
• (10:23) Understanding Kink Archetypes
• (23:55) Containment vs. Penetration
• (45:28) The Problem with Nice Guys
• (53:15) Egalitarianism vs. Polarity
• (01:03:42) Men's Burnout and Containment
• (01:12:35) Feminism and Relationship Dynamics
• (01:19:53) The Importance of Respect

Links

• You like It Community
• Om Rupani
• Om Rupani Podcast
• Prerequisites to Ecstasy: A No-Nonsense Guide to What It Really Takes to Create the Love and Sex We Say We Want
• Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude
• Dossie Easton

Internal Family Systems (IFS) has never spoken on BDSM… until today. On this episode of You Like It, Dick Schwartz, founder and head honcho of the popular psychotherapy technique weighs in on kink while Madeline and Eamon get a little free therapy of their own. 

On the show, Madeline, Eamon, and Dick discuss the foundational principles of IFS, explore why sexual parts are often exiled, and examine how legacy burdens and ancestral trauma can influence relationships and personal growth. They also explore the liberation found in role play and address the dark elephant in the room, whether healing parts means healing kinks. During the conversation Dick generously invites both Eamon and Madeline to do a little impromptu IFS. 

Dick Schwartz is a renowned family therapist, systems thinker, and the originator of the IFS model. Since its development in the 1980s, Internal Family Systems has gained international recognition for its unique approach to understanding and harmonizing the various sub-personalities that exist within an individual. Schwartz is also the author of multiple books, including his latest release, No Bad Parts, and continues to expand IFS to address a wide range of therapeutic and personal growth contexts.

Links

• Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. - The Founder of Internal Family Systems
• IFS Institute: What is Internal Family Systems?
• No Bad Parts: Schwartz, Richard
• Patricia Rich: No Bad Sex Parts

Timestamps

• (02:33) Dick Schwartz explains Internal Family Systems
• (16:36) Exiling Sexual Parts
• (21:59) Legacy Burdens and Ancestral Trauma
• (27:26) The Liberation of Role Play
• (39:01) Live IFS Session: Eamon
• (51:27) Does Healing Parts Mean Healing Kinks?
• (56:33) Masculinity and Cultural Legacy Burdens
• (01:02:48) Integrating IFS into Group and Sexual Healing Work
• (01:10:07) Live IFS Session: Madeline

If you’re craving a crash course on the philosophy of kink won’t find a better guide than the Sexual Freedom Philosopher herself, Nicolle Hodges.

This episode of You Like It dives deep into the mythological implications of kink, the subtleties of power dynamics, and the vital role of trust in BDSM. Hodges sheds light on common misconceptions, reveals gaps in BDSM literature, and discusses how kink can serve as a powerful avenue for healing and self-discovery. The conversation also covers cultural shifts sparked by phenomena like Fifty Shades of Grey, the significance of community evolution, and the rewards and challenges of exploring the shadow self through BDSM.

Nicolle Hodges is a journalist, author, and Sexual Freedom Philosopher, as well as the founder of Girls Who Say Fuck—an incubator for projects and conversations that instigate change. She is the author of Oh, the Places You’ll Go Oh Oh, a Dr. Seuss-style exploration of the power of female orgasms. Hodges also created the video series Men Who Take Baths and launched the Garden of Earthly Delights event series to challenge societal norms around sexuality. Currently, she is completing a new book that explores BDSM as therapy, continuing her mission to expand conversations and empower people to embrace their own desires.

Links

• Nicolle Double L (@nicolledoublel)
• Nicolle Hodges (@nicolledoublel) / X
• Nicolle Hodges Substack
• Oh, the Places You'll Go Oh Oh!
• Men Who Take Baths
• Men Who Take Baths (@menwhotakebaths)

• Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power: Urbaniak, Kasia
• Existential Kink
• The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink
• Getting the Love You Want
• Discovering Kinbaku
• Member Spotlight: Susan Wright

Timestamps

• (03:12) Exploring BDSM and Sexual Freedom
• (05:47) The Philosophy of Dominance and Submission
• (09:40) Literature and Resources on Kink
• (11:43) Misconceptions and Realities of BDSM
• (20:58) The Role of Trust and Consent
• (31:57) The Healing Power of Kink
• (35:06) The Myth of Inanna
• (39:32) Kink and Personal Growth
• (42:06) The Healing Journey of Kink
• (46:16) Advice for Kink Beginners
• (51:08) Kink in the Context of Modern Culture
• (57:12) Masculinity and Sexual Expression

Welcome to the very first episode of You Like It, the provocative new podcast exploring kink, erotic intelligence, and the transformative power of desire. Join hosts Madeline Pryor and Eamon Armstrong as they share why they like kink, why they launched this show, and how it can guide you toward deeper intimacy and erotic fulfillment. 

On this episode, Madeline and Eamon discuss the origin of the name “You Like It,” the Erotic Blueprint framework, Kink archetypes, Daddy dynamics, the art of erotic tension, and the power of containment.

Madeline is a sex educator and NYC-based dominatrix, focused on the study of erotic intelligence through tantra, BDSM, power dynamics and polarity. Her core philosophy Body Alchemy is designed to heal, balance, and awaken the body as a primary tool to creates stronger connection to ourselves and deeper intimacy with one other. A podcast host, writer, speaker, and lifestyle Dom, Eamon also hosts the Life is a Festival and Psychedelic Therapy podcasts. He’s finishing his first book, an investigation of integrated masculinity through festival culture, psychedelics, and alternative sexuality.

Links

• You Like It Website
• You Like It Instagram
• You Like It WhatsApp community

Timestamps

• (02:13) The Origin Story: Naming the Podcast
• (06:57) Understanding Kink: Frameworks and Blueprints
• (12:36) Madeline’s and Eamon’s Personal Journeys
• (19:59) Integrating Kink: Balancing Pervert and Good Man
• (25:06) Dominance and Submission: Professional and Personal Insights
• (27:27) Understanding Men Through Intimacy
• (30:43) Daddy Archetype and Masculinity
• (34:05) Kink Archetypes and BDSM Test
• (41:25) The Birth of the Podcast