In this episode, I was discussing the golden child syndrome when it comes to your siblings and how they were treated better than you were. How that child was the golden child that could not do no wrong. The golden child that basically essentially mom and dad always invested in and always did for. The one that no matter what they always put on a pedestal compared to you. The one that they always are comparing you to, and wants you to be like. The one they always have the upmost excuses for when it comes to their behavior when they do something negative. The one that they’re always there for their events all of the times but yet forget about yours. The one who get the best birthday party, but they forget your birthday party. The one that every event that the sibling has, your parents are always there, but they never show up for yours. This happens more times than not. I think it’s time that we start talking about this particular issue. Because a lot of people are independent because of the way their parents treated them compared to their siblings. And I know that this episode is going to hit a lot of people in a very bad way, and it’s going to leave a very bad taste in your mouth. And some of y’all gonna be sending me emails talking about I thank God you talked about this particular topic, because this is me when it came to my sibling or siblings. So I know personal to a lot of people. But I wanted to do this because I think it was time that we start addressing somebody’s topics that we don’t necessarily talk about nowhere. And the golden child syndrome when it comes to that favorite child, definitely needs to be discussed.

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In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the importance of seeing things for what they are, and seeing people for who they are. I ended up losing some money today, and despite what happened I’m still trying to look at the positive side of it. And even though I’m going through what I’m going through in my situation, I’m gonna see it for what it is, and I’m gonna have faith that it’s all gonna work out. And even though we want to see things and people the way we want to see them, it doesn’t mean that is who and what they truly are. And if we don’t start seeing people in situations and things for what they are, then we’re gonna end up being bamboozled, lied, too, manipulated, deceived, and lead astray. So this conversation is all about us seeing things for what and who they are, and not the way and what we want them to be.

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End this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the importance of moving in silence, and telling no one about what you’re doing, or how you’re moving. Nobody needs to know what you’re doing, and how you’re going about doing it? No one needs to know that you are successful, what’s going on in your situations, and what you’ve got going on. The reason for this is because as soon as you tell the wrong people what you got going on, they’re gonna do everything they can to either sabotage it, destroy it, cause chaos, or they’re gonna try to make you doubt yourself to the point that you’re not gonna want to do it at all. So many people even steal your idea, and make it their own. Some people will take everything that you have that you built and make it seem like it’s theirs. Some people will even go as far as try to take and strip you of everything that you worked hard for. Come in and destroy all the relationships you have, just because they want what you have. And you can’t continue to do that so it’s very important that you learn the importance of you moving in silence and telling no one what you have, who you with, what you got going on, or what you doing

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In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to go from being of the world to becoming the godly person that you are meant to be. Going from who everybody else wants and things that you should be in our, to the person that you were always meant to be. How when you become healed and recovered from everything you’ve been through, you will make better choices, and decisions to the point of where your actions, behavior and emotions will represent that. How it will be easier for you to make better choices based upon everything you learned from when it comes to your healing recovery that you have no intentions of repeating, nor are you gonna want to do those things anymore? At the end of the day it’s gonna be more so about maintaining your healing and recovery versus doing all of the things you used to do that’s going to send you back. The last thing you want to do is go through all of this to heal and recover, just to go back to everything you just overcame. You don’t go through all of this healing and recovery, just to go through the same things all over again. And we have to understand it’s about maintaining our healing and recovery.

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On this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the Twitter beef between Cardi B and Nicki Minaj when it comes to them bailing out over Nicki Minaj being upset cause Cardi B Album is doing well. And why I think Nicki Minaj is trying to get rid of Cardi B. And it’s not for the reasons that you might think. It’s gonna be a part two to this episode because I had a meeting to go through at 8 o’clock. But we will be going through the tweets. And the history of these two women, as far as how this beef between both of them started. I’m so trying to understand why Nicki Minaj has an issue with Cardi B, when Cardi B has never done anything to her to give her a reason to. The fact that misery loves company is amazing to me.

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In this episode, I’m gonna talk about going from who and what everybody wants you to be, children, and become, to who and what you want to be, do, and become. A lot of people now are realizing that they’re whole entire lives. They have not been who they are, and doing what they want to do, and becoming the person they wanna become, they are and have been who and what everybody else is one of them to be, doing whatever everybody else wants them to do, and becoming the person that everybody else expects. And a part of healing and recovery is learning that it’s not about lowering yourself in order to build your body up, or doing things because it’s expected of you by others, and you being who everybody else thinks that you should be. It’s about you being, doing, and becoming the person that you think that you should be. And the godly person that God put you on this earth to be, and become. And doing all of the things based upon the godly talents that God gave you to do the word that God wants you to do. And the one thing that is the hardest thing to do is to become the person that you want to become, do the things that you want to do, and be the person that you want to be because of society standards. but once you stop worrying about what everybody else thinks, says, and expect for you to do, and you move in silence, you will see how happy you’ll be when you finally get to become the person that you want to be and become, as well as being able to do the things that you want to do that makes you happy.

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In this episode, we’re gonna be talking about how to walk to the beat of your own drum, path, and purpose that you are meant to do instead of walking everybody else’s path, journey, and purpose. The one thing about the things that make you, is you discovering what your talents are. What it is that you are meant to do as far as your purpose on this earth that may have nothing to do with your actual talents that everybody is basing you on. How you can take some of the darkest times,of your life, flaws, imperfections, disabilities, and mistakes that you’ve made in your past and turn them into something that could be a purpose of helping others? How you can find who you are, who you want to be, and become in the present in the future, by letting go of the past version of you that is keeping you from being great in your present in future? How walking to the beat of your own drum, and minding your own business is not easy when you are focusing on everybody else, lol yourself to build everybody else up, allowing people to break your self-esteem, self-worth, self value, self respect, self confidence, and you not believing in yourself? So trust and believe walking to the beat of your own drum in order to find your path, purpose, and journey that you’re meant to do, B, and become can only happen when you walk on the journey alone in the beginning? How as you come into your own when it comes to walking into the beat of your own drum, will you discover other people like you who are going on similar paths, journeys, and purpose that you are that will help you through not only their journey, but will also assist in yours versus either one of you lowering yourselves to help the other. So I hope this podcast episode helps all of you when it comes to finding your path, purpose, and journey by walking to the beats of your own drum.

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In this episode, I did a YouTube live the other day, where I discussed how to mind your own business by not letting your heart be troubled by things that you can control as far as healing and recovery. We have many things going on in our lives that may make us overwhelm, exhausted, tired, broken, depressed, pain, trauma, damaged, pressured, vulnerable, dark times, and more, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. The Bible verse John 14: 1 stares that Do not let your heart be troubled. You believe in God: and believe also in me. What that scripture means? How this scripture will help you on the journey of healing and recovery when it comes to turning my troubles and darkness holding me back from moving forwards, success, overcoming adversity, achieving your goals. How the scripture will also help you with becoming the new version of you, by letting go of the past situation, and old version of you. Overcoming the darkness that has affected and impacted your life.

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In this episode, I will be discussing why so we lower ourselves in order to build other people. How we think by doing all these things, and taking care of family, friends, romantic relationships, and people who you work for? How our parents always always support your siblings instead of you? How they make you feel less than, not worthy of their love and support? How they will pay for what your siblings wants, but neglect what your want and need? How no matter what you do is never good enough for them? How they only come to you when they need money, or support? How you feel obligated  to take care of our family due to them raising you to lower yourself to build up your siblings? That family helps family, but that is never done in returned? How you feel by doing all of these things, that your parents will love, and look at you differently? How no matter what you do for them, the child that they favored will always be their favorite, and will never respect, love, or appreciate you, or what you do? This episode is going to hit home for a lot of people. I'm doing this on TikTok as a panel. I hope this episode helps people to know that it is okay for people to accept, and not chosen you. I was having technical difficulties, so the rest of the conversation wasn’t able to be recorded. So there will be a part two to this episode.

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In this episode, I will be talking about how to maintain your healing and recovery after you achieve your goals. Many people think that once you reach your goals that you just stop what you did to get to the goals in the first place. How attaining your goals is the easy part, but maintaining those goals are the hard part? How the things that you do to heal and recover to become a better person physical internally and externally, mentally, psychological, and emotionally? How longevity when it comes to health and wellness comes from maintaining the things that you did to healing and recovery from diseases, illnesses, trauma, stress, pain, accidents, mental health, disabilities, depression, anxiety, and more? We talk how to do things, but not how to maintain it. I think it is time that had this conversation. So, in this episode, we are going to have this conversation.

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