You Seem Great

You Seem Great

By Talia and BeccaSociety & CultureRelationships
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You Seem Great episodes

  • Green Flags with guest Lisa Elson

    In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, Becca and Talia are joined by Lisa Elson to dive into the positive signs in relationships — the green flags that show when things are really going well. Together, they explore how to recognize behaviors and patterns that signal a healthy, thriving partnership, why focusing on green flags can help you build trust and joy, and how tuning into these can change your dating game for the better. Whether you’re starting a new relationship or deepening an existing one, these insights and tips are not to be missed!

    Key Takeaways:

    • Spotting the Green Flags: Learn about the subtle but powerful signs that your relationship has a strong foundation worth nurturing.

    • Building Trust and Connection: Discover why paying attention to green flags helps create resilience and emotional safety with your partner.

    • Practical Tips for Dating and Relationships: Get expert advice on how to celebrate what’s working and grow together with intention.

    • A Positive Mindset Shift: Understand how focusing on green flags can boost your confidence and improve your overall relationship experience.


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    45 min
  • You Seem Great… but some things are always true

    Welcome back to You Seem Great! This week, we’re diving into the universal truths of dating — the patterns and lessons that hold up no matter who you are, how old you are, or how many dating apps you’ve deleted and re-downloaded. In this episode, we reflect on why your person might show up in a different package than you expected, how timelines quietly make or break connections, and why playfulness and travel styles matter more than you think.


    We also get honest about the myths we used to believe, what dating industry experience has taught us, and why the longer you stay single, the easier it can be to stay single. If you’ve ever questioned if you’re doing it wrong — you’re not. You’re just learning what’s always been true.

    Expect more behind-the-scenes matchmaking insight, stories we probably shouldn’t tell, and dating advice that won’t expire.

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    30 min
  • You Seem Great… but this season is different

    Welcome back to You Seem Great! We're kicking off Season 2 with a fresh focus and a deeper look at what matchmaking really means — not just finding the “right” person, but figuring out what right feels like for you.

    Expect more honest conversations, more nuance, and a matchmaking lens that goes beyond checklists. Because maybe you're not doing it wrong — maybe you're just doing it differently now.

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    14 min
  • You Seem Great… and we can’t wait to see you again soon!

    In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into cuffing season and how to make the most of this cozy time of year! We’ll share why this season offers so much for singles as the colder months approach and how to embrace this time of year with intention. Plus, we share a podcast update as we take a brief pause after season 1 and give you all the details on how to catch us on Instagram Live during the break. And don’t worry—season 2 is on the way! Stay tuned!

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    10 min
  • You Seem Great… and you’re ready to date after a breakup

    In this week’s episode of You Seem Great, we’re diving into the post-breakup dating world! Whether you’re feeling unsure about getting back out there or simply looking for guidance, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss how to heal from a breakup, rebuild your confidence, and approach dating with a fresh mindset. From having conversations about your past relationship to handling those first few post-breakup dates, this episode offers practical advice to help you move forward and find meaningful connections.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Healing and Growth: Learn how to take the time to reflect and grow after a breakup, setting a solid foundation for future relationships.
    • Confidence Reboot: Discover tips for rebuilding your confidence and feeling empowered as you re-enter the dating scene.
    • Navigating First Dates: Get expert advice on how to approach those early dates after a breakup and how to talk about your past with honesty and grace.


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    29 min
  • You Seem Great… but you could use some help with flirting

    In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the art of flirting! Whether flirting feels like a challenge or you're just looking for fresh ideas, we've got you covered. We'll break down everything you need to know, from mastering the slow burn flirt to acing a first date flirt, and even perfecting that quick, one-time meet flirt to ignite a romantic spark. No matter the situation, these practical tips will help you elevate your flirting game and feel confident in any scenario. Don’t miss this episode—it’s all about building chemistry and connection!

    Key Takeaways:

    • Mastering the Slow Burn Flirt: Learn how to build interest and intrigue gradually, creating lasting chemistry over time.
    • Acing the First Date Flirt: Get tips on how to flirt effectively on your first date to set the stage for deeper connection.
    • Perfecting the Quick Flirt: Find out how to make a memorable impact with a short, effective flirt in spontaneous encounters.


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    50 min
  • Empowering Neurodivergent Daters: Insights with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh

    In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Jeremy and Ilana Hamburgh, a dynamic duo specializing in coaching autistic and neurodivergent individuals on dating. Together, we explore practical strategies to help neurodivergent daters navigate the complexities of relationships and find meaningful connections. This empowering conversation sheds light on the unique strengths that neurodivergent individuals bring to the dating world and how they can embrace those qualities to their advantage.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Building Confidence in Dating: Learn how to cultivate self-assurance and approach dating with confidence, regardless of neurodivergent challenges.
    • Effective Communication Strategies: Discover tips for improving communication in dating, including handling social cues and expressing your needs clearly.
    • Embracing Neurodivergent Strengths: Explore how neurodivergent individuals can leverage their unique perspectives and qualities to form deep, fulfilling relationships.

    Join us for an insightful conversation on how neurodivergent daters can thrive in the dating world with authenticity and confidence!

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    38 min
  • You Seem Great… but you feel anxious about dating

    In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we dive into the topic of dating anxiety and offer practical solutions to help ease your nerves in the search for love. Whether you're struggling with the fear of rejection, past relationship trauma, or feeling the pressure of societal expectations, this episode is packed with strategies to help you feel more confident and at ease in dating.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Overcoming Fear of Rejection: Learn how to build resilience and handle rejection with a healthy mindset.
    • Navigating Social Pressure: Explore ways to free yourself from the expectations and pressures placed on dating in today's society.
    • Boosting Confidence in Dating: Discover simple, effective strategies to boost your self-esteem and present your best self in romantic pursuits.


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    37 min
  • Dating Over 60 with Maryann Roberts

    In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're joined by Maryann Roberts, a matchmaker with Three Day Rule, to discuss the ins and outs of dating over 60. We'll explore the pros and cons of finding love later in life, how to approach relationships at this stage, and the role of technology and texting for baby boomers. Whether you're over 60 and single or tuning in for advice for a parent, these expert tips are not to be missed!

    Key Takeaways:

    • Finding Love Later in Life: Explore the benefits and challenges of dating over 60 and why it can be an incredibly fulfilling time to find a partner.
    • Navigating New Relationships: Learn how to approach relationships with a fresh perspective, focusing on shared experiences and personal growth.
    • Technology and Texting for Boomers: Discover the evolving role of technology in dating and how to navigate the world of texting and online connections with ease.
    • Advice for Family Members: Gain insight on how to support and encourage parents or loved ones in their dating journey over 60.


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    40 min
  • You Seem Great… and you’re wanting to date long distance

    In this week's episode of You Seem Great, we're diving into the world of long-distance dating. With more singles open to dating beyond their city since the pandemic, we're here to show you how to make it work! We’ll explore everything from where to search for a long-distance partner to how to build a strong connection and avoid common pitfalls.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Finding Your Partner: Discover the best places to search for a long-distance relationship and how to approach the initial stages.
    • Building Strong Connections: Learn strategies for maintaining a deep and meaningful connection, even when miles apart.
    • Avoiding Pitfalls: Understand the common challenges of long-distance relationships and how to overcome them.
    • Going the Distance: Explore tips on how to plan for the future and keep your relationship moving forward.

    Tune in for practical advice and insights on how to take your long-distance relationship the distance, whether you’re just starting out or already committed.

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    39 min

About You Seem Great

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Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and…

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