Welcome to Season 2, and Happy Holidays! This is the You Should Have Asked Me First Holiday Spectacular. We have everything, plum puddings, Christmas spirits, Cratchits, Fezziwigs, and the largest Christmas goose in the poulterer’s window. God bless us, every one.

Today we're talking about Second Acts.  Midlife resets. What's next? 

Heather's guest on this episode is Jo Ann Kobuke, a coach for midlife women, helping them answer the question…what’s next? Like so many women of her generation, she put herself on hold while she created a life for her family. Then, a few years ago her kids did exactly what they were supposed to do…they left the nest.

It was a bittersweet time and it led Jo Ann to examine what she wanted for her life as she watched her children launch theirs. It took some serious soul searching into who she was, what was important to her now, and where her strengths lay before she decided to become a certified coach and create her coaching business, Midlife Rewritten.

Now she works with midlife women helping them shed their self-limiting stories, believe in themselves, and overcome some of the same hurdles she experienced so they can make their long-delayed dreams a reality, now, while there’s still time.

Join her Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/groups/messymidlifesociety to gain access to the 5 Day Midlife Mindset Makeover Challenge - a free challenge that begins October 19, 2020.  

Website: www.midliferewritten.com

Instagram: @midliferewritten

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This is not a normal episode of YSHAMF. It's an emergency round table discussion with friends Dana and Corlin about the newly discovered fact that there are tapes of Trump talking about how serious COVID-19 actually was - and he's known since February so he's been lying to America this whole time. There are swears.  And then Heather talks to her friend Jorn from Norway for an international reaction. 

Honestly, can we just vote this guy out? Please?

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We talk about white privilege, systemic racism, amplification, mistakes, Black Lives Matter, and our place going forward.

I knew this day would come. Here’s an attempt to explain what was going on in my brain when I chose the name for the podcast. In the interview section, I talk with Dr. Jennifer Kuchenbecker Thomas about growing up “Bossy”, Boomers and Gen Xers, raising daughters today, and how language has evolved to better describe feminist terms. ————————. Recommended in the episode: Teaching to Transgress: Education as the Practice of Freedom - bel hooks (Harvest in Translation) https://www.amazon.com/dp/0415908086/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VDxXEbDD3M4K2 Spotify Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0VxVSjcxKeDWMFRh4gHcqj?si=ukvmXd53TJ6Cb4ARttMW3Q

Innovation, productivity, and creativity can occur even in times of social upheaval. We’ll talk about historical examples of creativity while being distant, socially. I tell you about my foray into gaming, and I talk to a couple of friends about projects and what they see people doing to innovate. Check out Jesse’s page at Facebook.com/Jessesmusicclub

A relaxing episode, where Heather puts on her makeup and chats about what products she uses.

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Heather and Jo chat about Sheltering at Home during COVID-19. Family, school, parenting, being alone, diversions, etc.

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