The more you see a trigger to a habit, the easier it is for you to engage in it. The formation of habits, undergoes four main stages. The Cue (the trigger of the habit-initiator), Craving (Motivators), Response (executing the habit), and lastly (the outcome of the habit).

The Holy Spirit is more than willing to guide us in all our endeavors. For He has promise to lead us into all truths. Consult the Holy Spirit on any issue of concern; for He's more than willing to guide you.

There's nothing in this world that's above; He's the Above all God. We should always be motivated to present our concerns to the above all God. We shouldn’t limit God by narrow or small thinking. We need to think far bigger than ourselves but in line with God’s purpose for our lives.

Building necessary walls is our responsibility. To do this, we need to learn how to exercise self control. Some of the best ways to exercise self control is to remove temptations and learn how to manage stress. Bear in mind, "A person without self-control is like a city with broken-down walls." Proverbs 25:28 NLT

It's important to love others because at the bottom of it, loving others is for our own benefits. Let's be generous, be kind to people and learn to add value to others. Learn to be a peace maker: there are somethings for the sake of peace, you have to ignore. Finally, learn to forgive one another: without forgiveness, love can hardly survive.

The approval of others is needed when you don't love yourself and accept yourself for being who you are. Don't be judgemental about yourself, rather, learn how to embrace yourself.

You have the right to be angry, but it’s your responsibility to direct your anger. Most men express the basic anger because they are perceived by society to be aggressive. Also, men are permitted to soley express anger openly. Due to this, many men channel almost all their emotions through anger.

Negative situations can be overcomed with a positive behavior: whenever you face something negative, rather than harming or condemning yourself, do something positive. Also, having the mindset, "This too shall pass" and "There's always a way out" can serve as a medium to free you as well as help you take advantage of the negative situation.

To direct your focus, you need to keep improving and learn not to give up. These two things will help you understand the times and know the very things you need to do so as to keep you in focus.

What are you giving your focus? Whatever you give your focus is always likely to multiply. To direct your focus, you must identify your strength. This is because the more your strength is enhanced, the greater power you have over your weakness.