Young Black Married Christian

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

In this episode, you will learn …
1. Jesus cares about Justice.
2. Cast Your Votes. Using your voice to promote black people (and policies that support black people) into positions where they can make decisions for our community.
3. Advocate For The Arts. Intentionally consuming and supporting films, books, shows, and news outlets that portray black people in a fair and accurate way.
4. Reach Out With Relationships. Introducing people who don't look like you to your community and spiritual family.
5. Engage In The Economy. Using your dollar to only support businesses that share your values.

Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

In this episode, you will learn …

1. Cheating comes from our hearts. It's not the other spouse's fault.
2. Faithfulness is a learned behavior. You need safeguards to help you stay pure.
3. It is not the end. This could be the start of your new honest open real relationship.

Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

Want to learn how to partner with your spouse? 💰

In this episode, you will learn …

3 Big Ideas:

1. Policing Your Spouse Only Trains Them To Hide
2. Change the Dynamic of How Truth Is Confessed
3. Pray and Trust God With the Unconfessed Secret Parts Of Your Relationship

Colossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly in all WISDOM; teaching and admonishing one another...

Join the Phenomenal Family Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🤔 Submit Your Question: https://www.speakpipe.com/JamesFamily

Free Training: https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

3 Big Ideas:

✅The best apology is changed behavior. Changed behavior comes from God. You can change.
✅We forgive even though we still remember. Forgiving someone does not mean you no longer feel the pain of their offense.
✅Extend the same forgiveness that you've been given. God in Christ forgave us by absorbing in himself the destructive and painful consequences of our sin against him.

Ephesians 4:32 And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

Excuse the audio quality of this interview, but we HAD to share this interview with you. There are TOO many gems in here for us to keep hidden.

There are still BIG value bombs dropped in this episode with @4KNWN

Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

This episode is from our inner circle family. We don't do this often but we UNLOCKED it for you.

Join the Inner Circle: www.themarriagesecrets.com/family

Get Our Coaching: www.themarriagesecrets.com/coaching

In this episode, you will learn …

✅ We need obedience-driven discipleship, not curriculum-driven discipleship. We all know more scripture than we apply.
✅ We should ask and answer, "What is God saying to you?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Observe. Reflect. Discuss.
✅ We need to ask and answer, "What are you going to do about it?". This is a question we should all be asking each other. Plan. Have Accountability. Act.

🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨

www.marriage.podia.com/hearandobey

[02:00] Phenomenal Family Shoutouts
[03:45] How to know the difference between curriculum-driven discipleship versus obedience-driven discipleship.
[05:45] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me?
[06:15] How do I OBSERVE what God is saying to me in scripture?
[07:15] God speaking can feel like a speed bump. (see Jonah 1:4)
[08:35] God speaking can feel like a brick wall. (Acts 16:6)
[09:45] God speaking can feel like a window.
[10:15] God speaking can feel like a mirror. (Luke 15:17-20)
[10:45] How do I REFLECT and DISCUSS what God it saying to me?
[13:45] How do I PLAN what I'm going to do about it?
[17:45] We need ACCOUNTABILITY.
[21:00] We must ACT. Matthew 7:24-29
[22:30] Recap

Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

One-on-One Coaching: www.marriage.podia.com/coaching

🚨Click Here To Gain Access To Resources Related To This Episode 🚨

www.marriage.podia.com/realestate

4 Big Ideas:

✅ Starting the Conversation with a realtor is FREE! You don’t pay the realtor that helps you buy a home. The seller of the home normally pays for all the realtors involved.
✅ You can use the equity built in your first home as the down payments for your next (bigger and better) home or start a business, college fund, etc.
✅ On average you only have to stay in a home for 5 years in order to have enough equity built in to profit from selling it.
✅ If you’re the "friend with a good job”. Buy a house and have your friends pay you rent.


[01:00] Introduction of Chris Winstead www.AllCitySA.com
[01:30] Chris calls you the Phenom-ily! *sorry -LJ*
[02:00] What is the simplified process of buying a house? Is it complicated?
[03:15] How much money do you need in your bank account in order to buy a house?
[04:30] Why go to FB and IG first?
[05:00] What is equity and why should you understand it?
[06:30] Your money is better spent growing in your home than growing in your bank account.
[07:00] Renting vs Buying a Home
[08:30] Securing the Bag means keeping the bag by not paying rent forever. Pay yourself by purchasing a home.
[09:00] Check out the home you’re going to buy at different times of the day
[10:00] Why have your landlord raise your rent when you can have a fixed mortgage?
[12:00] How long do I have to stay in a house if I buy it? What’s the process of selling?
[17:00] What are some successful ways to profit from real estate? What if I’m not married?
[19:00] Recap
[21:00] Lighting Round Questions

Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

✅ This episode is all about increasing the passion, intimacy, and commitment in your marriage. You don't want to miss the laughs and lessons shared in this shareworthy episode.

Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family

🚨Get The Free Bonus Videos 🚨

https://www.themarriagesecrets.com/members/posts

[03:30] #1 You don't know how to limit frustrations in your marriage.
[08:30] #2 You don't have a shared family budget for your time or your money.
[12:00] #3 You don't have a core mission or vision for your family.
[16:00] Revised James Family Mission Statement
[18:00] #4 You don't have agreed-upon rules for when you fight.
[22:00] #5 You believe that once you get married you'll live "happily ever after".
[23:30] #6 You believe that your marriage will solve personal problems that only God can fix.[26:30] #7 You stonewall when arguing.
[30:00] #8 You criticize or attack your spouse's character instead of the behavior their doing.

Join the Inner Circle: www.marriage.podia.com/family