Young Dumb & in Love

Young Dumb & in Love

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Young Dumb & in Love episodes

  • Mental Health & Marriage | Supporting Your Spouse | EPISODE 10

    In today’s episode, we’re talking about supporting your spouse when they struggle with mental health. Over the years we have walked through seasons of mental health struggles and we’ve had to learn how to navigate through them to come out stronger on the other side. We now know how important it is for the spouse who isn’t struggling to stay strong and consistent while still taking care of themselves during the process. There are many things you can do to help your spouse but today we want to talk through some of the things we learned while in these seasons. Mental health is a serious issue in today’s society and we believe that more people should be talking about it. We’ve also seen a lot of marriages struggle because of it and we know that if more couples would talk through it and get the help they need, the battle they are fighting is worth it. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and we believe you can make it there to see it as well.

    28 min
  • Mental Health & Marriage
    In this week's podcast, we talk about our journey with Mental Health. We discuss our personal struggle with mental health and share how your spouse can support and come alongside you. Mental Health & Marriage is real and we believe that by sharing our story we can begin to shine a light on a topic that needs more attention. May is Mental Health Awareness month and we will continue the discussion in the coming weeks.
    37 min
  • Marriage Questions and Answers
    Today we're answering some of your questions about marriage and having fun while doing it. Here are some of the questions we tackled today.
    How do you navigate deciding if Mom should go back to work after our kid is born?
    Should we be open to friends
    about our relationship? What are
    typical boundaries?
    Debt free, or manage debt?
    Should we spill everything to
    parents once married?
    Opposite sex friends/best
    friends ok!?
    We hope that our answers help you today.
    35 min
  • How to Support Your Spouse in Challenging Times
    Today on Young, Dumb, & in Love were are talking about 5 action steps to supporting your spouse in difficult times. When your spouse is going through something that has been difficult for them there are two paths you can go down. You can be a supportive, patient, and loving spouse or you can react out of fear or anger. What do you think the best choice would be? Well, today we will be helping you take some simple action steps to make the best choice in your reaction.
    Here are 5 things to help you win!
    1. Stay calm (keep your reaction calm)
    2. Be quick to listen but slow to speak
    3. When you do speak, make it kind, make it encouraging, make it useful
    4. Create an opportunity for joy
    5. Brainstorm action steps that will help you move forward
    We want to see you win in your relationship. Marriage is hard no doubt about it, but that doesn't mean you can't win. It takes time and effort. But for better or for worst we must stand by our spouse to win!
    28 min
  • Fear Dance: Young, Dumb, & in Love EPISODE 6
    Have you ever found yourself in a relational cycle that never ends? No matter what you do you just can't seem to find a way to get healthy in your relationship? Today Julian and Brittany talk about the Fear Dance from Gary Smalley's book "The DNA of Relationships" and how this book helped shape their relationship to be what it is today. Here is a link where you can find Gary Smalley's book "The DNA of Relationships" on amazon https://amzn.to/3KcN9p3
    The Fear Dance: I Hurt I Want I Fear I React You Hurt You Want You Fear You React
    25 min
  • How to Unpack Baggage “Episode 5”

    Baggage!!! Let’s be honest we all have it. Today we’re talking about how to handle the baggage we bring into our marriages. We really believe there is a healthy way to deal with the baggage that will put you on a trajectory towards a healthy marriage. Baggage is one of those things we all have, whether it’s past hurts, family or past relationships.  But baggage is something we must face in our relationships to grow and thrive together.  Today we want to help you unpack your baggage. When we first got married we both showed up to our new apartment with baggage we had no idea existed.  Talk about shock. 

    29 min
  • Questions & Answers “EPISODE 4”

    1. How do you get your husband to open up about his feelings?

    2. I feel like we're going in two totally different directions in life. How do you stay in line with each other?

    3. Finances? Do you keep them together or separate?

    4. Advice for sharing responsibilities in your home?

    5. How can you help your spouse be more romantic?

    6. Best advice for getting married young?

    We want you to win in your marriage. Let's continue the conversation and build better marriages together! If you have any other questions put them in the comments below and we'd love to talk about them with you.

    35 min
  • Foundations & Values “EPISODE 3”
    Your values are the foundations of your home! It’s so important to start your marriage off the right way. Values are what you live by and if you don’t have them set in place, you won’t have a foundation to build on. Today we want to help you think about the values in your marriage that you live by. Do they help you make everyday decisions? Do you find yourself not able to agree on things? Are you fighting because you don’t see things the same? We share some of our values that help us every day.
    37 min
  • “When Two Worlds” Collide Episode 2
    When you got married did it feel like your entire world blew up before your eyes? Everything you thought your life would be like was suddenly shattered into a million pieces? Well we want to talk with you about how you can change the trajectory of your marriage from the very beginning.
    35 min

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Let’s all be honest; we want the pretty and the perfect in marriage, and the truth is life is hard, and tough things happen. We must be able to be strong and stand firm in what we know that we are…