You want a slim thick woman when you have a sugar daddy bod? Do you have the money to match? You want a man living in his OWN home and driving his own car. Did your daddy have a house when he married your mother? Do you have your own home? Or are your standards applicable only when it is on another person's pocket?

This episode drives home the importance of working towards being the kind of person that you desire your partner to be- rich, educated, athletic, compassionate, prayerful and so on. ‘Becoming who you want to be with’ is the third and important step in finding love.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia❤️

Don't settle for less than you deserve – it's time to define what truly matters to you in love and relationships. By crafting clear non-negotiables that filter out incompatible matches, you stop wasting time on people that lead nowhere which frees up your schedule for the good stuff!

Tune in on the next episode for step 3 of Finding Love: becoming who you want to be with.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

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The importance of defining what you truly desire in a partner is that you automatically start to recognise what you don't want, guiding you closer to your ideal match and saving you precious time and emotional energy.

Finding love has become painfully challenging given limited quality options, despite an abundance of people. But what if the very first step in finding love is surprisingly simple? This episode dives into the power of admitting that you WANT love, and embracing your desire for connection.

Enjoyed this? Tune in on the next episode for step two: identifying your non-negotiables – the dealbreakers that absolutely cannot be compromised. Let's find love together, one episode at a time.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

Holding onto grudges can transform your partner into a villain, when in reality, it's your own inability to forgive that's consuming you. Grievances create a distorted view of your partner, making them seem worse than they are. But the real monster? Unforgiveness itself. Learn how to break free from the cycle for a happier, healthier relationship.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

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From the undeniable betrayal of physical infidelity to the subtle transgressions of emotional entanglements, I discuss the nuances of each form.

Whether you're grappling with the aftermath of cheating yourself or seeking to understand its complexities, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you question the boundaries of trust. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that might just redefine your perception of cheating!

Link to article referencing the research on high IQ men and cheating - https://www.businessinsider.com/intelligence-and-cheating-2017-10

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

I discuss the privilege of genuine love - how exciting things usually are at the beginning of love, relationships and marriage - and the eventual, sometimes unintended descent into the abuse of access.

One of the fastest ways to ruin the beauty of love is to take the access you have to your partner for granted. Genuine love demands that you never trivialise the privilege of access even when the relationship has lost its spark or after your partner has been demystified.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

Do you have what it takes to hold the attention of the man you love? Good conversations do not happen by chance; they are the result of a willing heart and a curious mind. Listen to 4 basic tips to get you off to a good start in that conversation with your crush. He is supposed to chase after you, NOT after a conversation with you. I hope you know the difference.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

How ‘cheap’ is your man? It sounds like all men lack control and discipline- but I would like to believe that God still has sons. Unsuspecting men falling prey to the seductive whims of women who aren’t their partners is the new order of the day. Is he safe with your wig vendor for even a day? Or will he be ‘snatched’ from you just like that? Where are the men who master discipline? Where are the men who understand boundaries? Where are the men who shun infidelity? Where are the sons of God? When you find them, are you able to recognise them?

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

The absence of my father has influenced the way I interact with my romantic partners. The fatherless daughter syndrome is real and it manifests in more ways than we know. Constantly seeking validation, feelings of insecurity, clinginess, hyper vulnerability and a host of many others, could be signs that you are yet to heal from the psychological damage caused by a father who walked out on you as a kid. Emily (name changed) and I discuss our trauma response to absentee fathers in our relationships.

Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.

From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,

Kezia Vilawa. ❤️

https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

Are you in a committed relationship but find yourself attracted to another person? On this episode, Kezia discusses third-party attractions, why they occur, how to guard your heart jealously and what to do if you already find yourself in this tricky situation.

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