Young Not Dumb

Welcome to Young Not Dumb—a podcast for young adults who desire to lead by example and walk in truth. Here, we dive into your real questions and offer honest, practical answers rooted in God’s Word. Our goal is to help you navigate life confidently so you can step into the purpose God has for you to experience. 

Every Christian has wrestled with this question at some point: if I really love Jesus, why do I keep struggling with the same sins? Why do I keep doing the things I know are wrong, even when I don’t want to?

In this episode, we unpack the battle between our old nature and our new identity in Christ. We talk about why temptation does not automatically disappear after salvation, what it means that our old self is dead in Christ, and how to stop beating yourself up when you still face struggles.

You will hear how to recognize the difference between conviction and condemnation, how to fight temptation with the truth of God’s Word, and how to live in the freedom Jesus already won for you.

If you have ever felt frustrated by your ongoing battles with sin, this episode will encourage you, challenge you, and remind you that you are not alone in the fight.

Everyone wants love, joy, peace, and patience, but why does it sometimes feel like Christians struggle to actually have these things? In this episode, we take a deep dive into the Fruit of the Spirit and answer the big questions you might be too afraid to ask. Can someone who isn’t a Christian still show these traits? Why do some believers seem to be missing them? Is it possible to have some of the fruit but not others?

We talk honestly about what the Bible says, why the Fruit of the Spirit is different from just being a “good person,” and how to let the Spirit grow these things in your life. If you’ve ever wondered why you don’t feel joyful, peaceful, or patient even as a follower of Christ, this conversation will give you clarity, encouragement, and hope.

Choosing who you date and eventually marry is one of the biggest decisions of your life. So what should you actually look for in a future wife? In this episode we dive into the biblical qualities that matter most, how to see past surface level attraction, and what it looks like to pursue a godly girl. We talk through the difference between cultural expectations and God’s design, and share practical insight on how to discern if she is someone who will point you closer to Christ.

This episode will challenge you to look beyond what the world says and focus on the kind of woman God calls truly beautiful.

Dating can feel overwhelming when you are trying to figure out who is truly worth pursuing. What qualities should you actually look for in a future husband? Is it about personality, attraction, or something deeper? In this episode we talk about the biblical qualities that matter most, how to discern someones patterns over their past, and how to keep your standards rooted in what God values.

This conversation will encourage you to raise your eyes above the surface level and focus on what really lasts in a godly marriage!

Can Christians have close friendships with people who do not follow Jesus? What about your inner circle—should your best friends all be believers? And how do you love others well without letting their influence pull you away from your faith?

In this episode, we dig into some of the most common but rarely voiced questions about friendship, influence, and following Jesus. We look at the example of Christ—how He was a friend to sinners, yet chose to spend the majority of His time with those who were hungry to follow God.

We also talk about how to find godly, deep friendships when you do not have them, how to be the type of friend you want to have, and how to navigate relationships in a way that honors God. Whether you feel stuck between two worlds or are craving the kind of community that actually sharpens your faith, this conversation is for you.

Insecurity isn’t just about what you see in the mirror—it’s about what’s going on in your mind. In this episode, we talk honestly about where insecurity comes from, how it affects our relationships, and why we often project our internal battles onto the people around us (even when they’ve said nothing at all).

We look at real examples of insecurity in the Bible and how God's people respond with truth, purpose, and grace. We also dive into the tension between accepting how God made you and still working to grow with excellence—not out of pressure, but out of purpose.

We tackle comparison, confidence, and what it actually means to find your identity in Christ. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling not so content with pieces of yourself, this episode is for you.

If you've ever felt awkward while praying, unsure what to say, or worried you're doing it wrong—you’re not alone!! In this episode, we break down the basics of prayer in a real and relatable way.

We talk about what prayer actually is, what the Bible says about it, WHY we pray, and how to pray when you don’t feel confident, spiritual, or “put together.” We also answer questions like: Do I need to say the right words? What if I get distracted? Do I have to fold my hands and close my eyes? Does God really hear me? Does he answer every prayer?

Whether you’re new to faith or just want to deepen your prayer life, this episode is here to take the pressure off and help you connect with God—honestly, simply, and consistently.

If God is in control of everything, do we really have a choice? And if we do have free will, how can God already know—and decide—how everything plays out?

In this episode, we tackle one of the biggest and most debated topics in Christian theology: predestination vs. free will. We unpack what Scripture says about both, challenge common misunderstandings, and talk through how these two truths can actually work together—not against each other.

Whether this topic has always confused you or you’ve just been too afraid to ask, this conversation will help bring clarity, peace, and a better understanding of God's character.

Pride is sneaky. It doesn’t always show up as arrogance...it can look like defensiveness, comparison, self-doubt, or needing to be in control. In this episode, we talk honestly about what pride really is, how it shows up in everyday life, and why humility is the God-given antidote.

We dig into what the Bible says about both pride and humility, why it’s so easy to fall into one and so hard to walk in the other, and how true humility isn’t about tearing yourself down, it’s about lifting Jesus up.

This episode will challenge you, encourage you, and help you get real about what’s going on in your heart. Because the way up in God’s kingdom always starts with bowing low.