Imagine you are with a kinky play partner, lounging around in the afterglow of an amazing scene and they say:

> "I really appreciate you as a friend, I am glad we get to spend time together, and I especially like how your kinks and mine are so compatible…," and then they pause and add "…BUT…."

Or someone says:

> "I was really impressed with that scene you did…but…"

> "That's an amazing corset…but…"

> "I like your new hairstyle…but…"

Or, one of my favorites:

> "You're right…but…"

Find the transcript for this episode here. https://datingkinky.com/blog/communication/your-but-is-showing/