We had to restart this conversation four times - because André cried, then Zerlina cried, then the light blew, and then André wanted Daddy.

This is motherhood. And this is what it looks like to rebuild strength anyway.

In this episode, I sit down with Rene - eight months postpartum and stronger than she was before having a baby. We talk about what it really takes to return to training after birth (spoiler: it’s not bounce back culture), how grief shaped her motivation, why bodyweight strength hits different after pregnancy, and what progress actually looks like when you’re still breastfeeding and sleep deprived.

We also get into:

• Why dips are harder when you’re tall (and how she still nailed them)

• How smart programming trumps “just doing more”

• What strength means now—as a mother, an athlete, and a woman

• The invisible mental gains that came from holding a handstand... and holding a baby

This isn’t a story about perfect routines. It’s about making it work - with less time, more purpose, and a system built for women.

Whether you're three months or three years postpartum, you’ll take something from this one.

Sick of being told "women should lift heavy" and not knowing how to start?

In this episode, I talk about the complexities of menopause and how it affects women’s strength training. I break down what’s actually happening in the body when hormones shift - especially how it impacts the nervous system and introduce a system I use called Asymmetrical Load Tolerance (ALT).

It’s a way to help women maintain strength, coordination, and stability through perimenopause and beyond. I’ll walk you through the physiology, explain the concept of signal loss, and show you how to train in a way that actually works during this stage - not just what the internet says you should be doing.

00:00 Introduction to Menopause and Strength Training

02:33 Understanding the Impact of Menopause on the Nervous System

06:10 The Brain-Body Disconnect During Menopause

09:46 Physiological Changes During Menopause

12:21 Signal Loss and Its Effects on Training

18:09 Introducing Asymmetrical Load Tolerance (ALT)

21:41 Phases of ALT: Preparation, Potentiation, and Consolidation

26:19 ALT for Perimenopausal Athletes

35:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Strength and Menopause

and as promised, here is my email address: [email protected]

References (menopause)

• Sipilä, S. (2014). Estrogen Influences on Neuromuscular Function in Postmenopausal Women. PMID: 25359124

• Kang, S., Park, I., & Ha, M. (2024). Dynamic neuromuscular stabilization training improves stability in middle-aged women. [Published 2024]
• Baumeister, J., Reinecke, K., & Weiss, M. (2016). Effect of joint stabilizers on proprioception and stability. [Published in Journal of Sports Medicine & Physical Fitness]
• Tiidus, P. (2023). Estrogen and Menopause: Muscle Maintenance, Repair, Function, and Health.
• MDPI (2024). Neuromuscular degeneration in postmenopausal women: A review.
• PET Scan Study (2024). Brain estrogen receptor activity changes during menopause: A neuroimaging perspective. [PET imaging study on menopause-related brain changes]
• MDPI (2024). Hormone Replacement Therapy protects skeletal muscle function and coordination in postmenopausal women. [Published 2024]
  

Load Tolerance & Asymmetrical Loading References

• Yan, B., Yao, S., Zhang, J., Li, C., Han, T., Hu, Q., & Lv, K. (2025). Effects of asymmetric load bench press offset training on muscle activation patterns and fatigue in strength-trained athletes. Frontiers in Physiology. DOI:10.3389/fphys.2025.1592477
• Changes in Muscle Activity during Asymmetric Bench Press among Resistance-Trained Individuals (2020). International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. Demonstrated greater activation on the loaded side when using 2.5%, 5%, and 7.5% asymmetry at 70% 1RM.
• Saeterbakken, A. H., Solstad, T. E., Behm, D. G., et al. (2020). Muscle activity in asymmetric bench press. European Journal of Applied Physiology, showing differential activation in pectoralis and deltoid muscles during 5% and 10% load shifts.
• Zeng, Z., Shan, J., & Wang, Y. (2022). Asymmetries in muscle strength, proprioception, biomechanics, and posture in unilateral knee osteoarthritis. Frontiers in Bioengineering and Biotechnology. Found that proprioceptive differences correlate with altered joint loading and muscle strength imbalances.
• Heshmati, S., Tabrizi, K. G., et al. (2025). Effects of Asymmetric vs Symmetric Sport Load on Balance & Strength. Sports (MDPI). Compared dominant vs non-dominant side outcomes in female athletes exposed to asymmetrical training.
• Devita, P., Hortobágyi, T. et al. (2018). Mediolateral postural stability when carrying asymmetric loads. Clinical Biomechanics. Demonstrated significant changes in lower-limb joint moments and stability control under uneven load conditions.

In this episode, We explore the often-overlooked connection between leg strength and handstand performance, emphasizing the importance of the nervous system in skill acquisition. We introduce concepts like the rebound window and rebound retention capacity, highlighting how these factors influence training outcomes, especially for women.

Practical programming strategies are discussed, focusing on how to create a safe and effective training environment that fosters skill retention and progress. The episode concludes with a call to action for coaches and athletes to rethink their approaches to training.

00:00 Introduction to Handstands and Leg Strength

02:53 The Role of the Nervous System in Handstands

05:28 Understanding the Rebound Window

08:24 Rebound Retention Capacity and Its Importance

10:31 Programming for Women: Nervous System Considerations

12:55 Practical Programming Strategies for Handstands

14:52 The Intersection of Strength and Nervous System Prep

16:46 Addressing Female-Specific Training Needs

18:04 Load Tolerance vs. Load Perception

20:21 Building a Comprehensive Training Program

22:00 Conclusion

Genpop References:

• Stronger By Science — “How Exercise Affects Your Brain”
  How different intensities of exercise influence learning, memory, and brain plasticity. Explanation of the consolidation window.
  

• Barbell Medicine — “Fatigue Explained”
  Breaks down central vs peripheral fatigue in a readable, science-based format. Explains leg fatigue as CNS modulation.
  

• The Ready State (Kelly Starrett) — “Why You Should Train Legs Before Skill Work”
  outlines the nervous system principle behind sequencing training.
  

  Scientific references

  • Geertsen, S.S., Christiansen, L., & Roig, M. (2016). Effects of different exercise intensities on motor skill learning and consolidation. PLOS ONE, 11(8), e0159589.

  • Holman, M.E., & Staines, W.R. (2021). The effect of acute aerobic exercise on the consolidation of motor memories. Experimental Brain Research, 239(8), 2461–2475.

  • Roig, M., Skriver, K., Lundbye-Jensen, J., Kiens, B., & Nielsen, J.B. (2012). A single bout of exercise improves motor memory. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience, 6, 85.

  • Adami, R., Saha, B., Vitali, I., et al. (2018). Reduced loading of the hindlimbs in mice affects neural stem cells and alters brain function. Frontiers in Neuroscience, 12, 336.

  • Datla, N. (2016). Effects of local muscle fatigue on proprioception and motor learning. Master’s Thesis, Wayne State University.

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From no strength to one arm chin ups.

In this episode, I interview Gemma, an OG member of Bodyweight Brigade, who shares her inspiring journey from having no strength background to achieving superwoman strength in calisthenics.

Gemma discusses the importance of consistency, mindset, and pushing through challenges, especially as a woman over 40. She emphasizes that anyone can start strength training at any age and that small wins can lead to significant progress.

The conversation touches on the unique challenges women face in fitness, the impact of health issues, and the empowering nature of bodyweight training.

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:31 Gemma's Journey to Strength Training

04:36 The Role of Meditation and Yoga

07:32 First Chin-Up Experience

10:24 Mindset and Determination in Training

13:32 Navigating Challenges and Setbacks

16:37 2023: A Year of Struggles and Resilience

25:25 Overcoming Health Challenges Through Training

27:56 The Mindset of Persistence

30:31 Strength and Progression in Your 40s

34:21 Discipline vs. Motivation

37:23 Current Training Regimen and Goals

41:33 Pushing Through Pain and Sensation

45:17 Empowering Women in Strength Training

48:00 The Importance of Strength Training for Women

51:02 Building Confidence Through Small Wins

53:02 Exploring Hand Balancing Skills

In this episode, We delve into the complexities of hypermobility, exploring its impact on strength training and athletic performance. We discuss the role of collagen types, neuromuscular challenges, and the unique fatigue patterns experienced by hypermobile individuals.

We also look at the importance of tailored training approaches that focus on stability, proprioception, and energy management, while also redefining progress metrics for hypermobile athletes.

00:00 Understanding Hypermobility

05:37 Neuromuscular Challenges in Hypermobility

12:00 Fatigue and Energy Management for Hypermobility

16:53 Building Power and Strength in Hypermobility

20:31 Training Strategies for Hypermobility

29:45 Mindset and Progress for Hypermobility

References & Further Reading

1. Child, A. H. (1986). Joint hypermobility syndrome: A clinical study of 66 patients. Annals of the Rheumatic Diseases, 45(12), 953–957.→ Explores abnormal collagen ratios (Type I vs Type III) in hypermobility.

   
   

2. Hakim, A. J., & Sahota, A. (2006). Joint hypermobility and skin elasticity: The hereditary disorders of connective tissue. Clinical Dermatology, 24(6), 521–533.→ Discusses collagen mutations and connective tissue fragility in Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

   
   

3. ALMohiza, M., & Reddy, R. S. (2025). Exploring the dynamics of stability and lumbar proprioception in hypermobility syndrome: A cross-sectional study. Journal of Orthopaedic Surgery and Research, 20, 285.→ Highlights proprioceptive deficits and their impact on movement control.

   
   

4. Rombaut, L., Malfait, F., De Wandele, I., Cools, A., Thijs, Y., De Paepe, A., & Calders, P. (2012). Muscle strength, muscle mass, and function in women with the hypermobility type of Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Arthritis Care & Research, 64(10), 1584–1592.→ Details strength and neuromuscular issues in women with hEDS.

   
   

5. World Physiotherapy Congress Proceedings (2023). Central fatigue is greater than peripheral fatigue in people with symptomatic joint hypermobility.→ Explores how central nervous system fatigue plays a bigger role than peripheral fatigue in hypermobile populations.

   
   

6. The EDS Clinic. Exercises for Managing Hypermobility and EDS.→ Recommends isometrics, proprioceptive loading, and gradual strength work tailored to joint instability.

Episode 3 was the why. This episode is the how.
We’re diving into the 4 things that actually move the needle in strength training: intensity, grind, accommodating resistance, and rest.
If you’re training hard and still not getting stronger, it’s probably one (or all) of these.
No motivation speeches. Just the stuff most calisthenics programs overlook.

00:00 Women's Strength Training Misconceptions

02:48 Understanding Intensity vs. Effort in Training

05:46 The True Meaning of Grind in Strength Training

09:06 Accommodating Resistance: The Key to Building Strength fast

16:01 The Importance of Rest in Strength Training

In this episode, We delve into the intricacies of training for handstands, emphasizing the importance of understanding the nervous system, the role of periodization, and how hormonal cycles affect performance. We discuss the necessity of structured training for skill acquisition and the significance of strength in mastering handstands. The conversation highlights the need for clear inputs and consistent practice to facilitate progress and overcome plateaus.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Handstands and Training Systems

02:57 Understanding Skill Acquisition and Nervous System Role

05:48 Plateaus in Training: Neurological and Muscular

09:07 The Impact of Hormones on Balance and Training

11:57 Periodization: Structured Planning for Progress

19:47 Building Strength and Capacity for Handstands

28:34 The Importance of Clear Inputs and Consistency

33:25 Conclusion and Next Steps

Still stuck on chin-ups? It’s not you, it’s the programming. In this episode, Shimi breaks down why most women’s chin / pull up struggles have nothing to do with effort and everything to do with outdated, male modeled training. We cover the myths, the physiology, and the real fix:

Precision programming built for female strength. No fluff. Just facts, frustration, and the strategy you’ve been missing.

00:00 Introduction to Chin-Ups and Common Misconceptions

03:13 Understanding Strength vs. Programming Issues

06:01 The Gender Gap in Strength Training

08:53 The Importance of End Range Training

11:49 Factors Affecting Bodyweight Strength Training

15:11 Building a Personalized Training Plan

In this first episode of the pilot season of Your Coach is Lying, Shimi kicks things off with a much needed reality check: most training programs weren’t built for women, and it shows. She dives into why generic group classes, aesthetic goals, and inappropriate scaling advice aren’t cutting it, and why bodyweight strength training, when done right, can completely change the game. You’ll hear the BWB origin story, the gaps she saw in women’s training, and how bodyweight strength became the antidote.

It’s not about chasing bikini bodies. it’s about getting strong enough to do the cool sh*t you actually care about.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Calisthenics for Women

03:25 The Shift from Aesthetics to Strength

08:19 Building a New Training Model for Women

10:43 Understanding Bodyweight Strength Training

14:01 The Importance of Structure in Training