I’m just now realising how cringe toxic “masculinity” culture is? However could it be MY fault I keep getting hurt?
Erm girl, if your hand was in a fire your body would tell you to pull it out, IT'S DOING THAT IN RESPONSE TO YOUR SHITTY MAN BUT YOU'RE JUST IGNORING IT.
Why do we ignore the red flags, is it really cause we love them? Or is it cause our crippling self worth allows us to chase people with padlocks on their hearts??? Let's unpack bae!
Is it actually toxic masculinity or is it just toxic people? Cause to me masculinity isn't exclusive to men and we never really say toxic femininity for women so idk, but either way this behaviour is fucking cringe. For years I chased this kinda man and i'm trying to figure out why. Maybe it was the childhood trauma or maybe it was cause the toxic dick is life changing 9 times outta 10. Idk but I'm maturing enough to know that it aint always life changing in a good way and a peaceful life and my trusty Hitatchi is all thats in the cards for me right now. (iykyk) I understand it's easy to be manipulated and taken over when you're not feeling too good about yourself and everything I say comes from my experience and learnings along the way I just wanna be that sexy chubby angel on your shoulder knocking a bit of sense into your gorgeous self when it feels like you're drowning OK? Love you bitch. x
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