Catching up on how our summers went. Bruja Drool explains their new lessons in love. We also give tips on how to pleasure people with vulvas. 

Cyber Dasha and Bruja Drool discuss their reflections on the lessons that being messy has taught them. How everyone can be messy and how embracing your shadow can teach you about hidden desires. CyberDasha shares how codependent love pushed them towards sobriety and a new outlook on desire. 

Trigger Warning: Mentions of self-harm and addiction. 

CyberDasha and Bruja Drool discuss how their appearance and how it shows up in the world affecting what spaces they have access to. Pondering the question of inclusion and who has access to it. As well as how the role of identity politics among BIPOC communities and its impact on intersectional community building. CyberDasha explores birthday blues and how they’ve emotionally changed throughout their years celebrating their first birthday as a sober person. As well as sharing about the performance art that moved them the most during the Sacred Wounds zoom show.

Link to Sacred Wounds Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sacred.wounds/

Link to CyberDasha's Twitch Channel: https://www.twitch.tv/cyborgdasha

We have had a busy month, but we will be dropping two new episodes this Saturday. So stay tuned, and thank you for listening. 

In  this episode, Bruja Drool, and Cyberdasha get vulnerable discussing their attachment styles, situations in which they’ve been emotionally unavailable, and share about their journey of relational change. As well as narration and commentary on Bryn Collins’s book Emotional  Unavailability.

Links Mentioned

https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/

Books Mentioned:

What Makes Love Last? By John Gottman, PhD 

Emotional Unavailability By Bryn C Collins, M.A., L.P.

The Psychology of Romantic Love, Nathaniel Branden

Tiktok Referenced

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeDpFcVP/

In this episode, Bruja Drool and CyberDasha get vulnerable discussing their attachment styles, situations in which they’ve been emotionally unavailable, and share about their journey of relational change. Aswell as narration and commentary on Bryn Collins’s book Emotional Unavailability.

Links Mentioned

https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/

Books Mentioned:

What Makes Love Last? By John Gottman, PhD

Emotional Unavailability By Bryn C Collins, M.A., L.P.

The Psychology of Romantic Love, Nathaniel Branden

Tiktok Referenced

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeDpFcVP/

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Bruja Drool and CyberDasha discuss their frustrations in dating people from across the spectrum of identities. Bruja shares their experience of  the Latinx diaspora and finding their place in it. CyberDasha tells us the woes of wanting babies and how much they enjoy cruising and their questionable dating choices.

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Bruja Drool and CyberDasha discuss their experiences in navigating dating life as single people during a pandemic, and their predictions for the future of dating and sex post-Corona. 

Support: https://anchor.fm/your-lesson-for-today/support ----  Follow: https://anchor.fm/your-lesson-for-today  IG: @00cyborgmonk00 https://www.twitch.tv/cyborgdasha ---- Music Credits: Intro- Bruja Drool Outro- Dasha  ----