Your Life, Love, and Relationship Coach, Joey Francess

Thankfully it's not all of us that think this way.... But there seems to be a good number of us that find Stable people boring and Toxic people attractive. How does being stable automatically mean boring? Maybe you enjoy bungee jumping or skydiving, maybe you're emotionally stable and an international cat burglar, that doesn't sound boring at all does it.... And what makes a toxic person so exciting? The idea of danger, the risk, maybe it's your subconscious mission to fix people? As we dive in, hopefully I have some answers for you and at the very least help you be self-aware to your own habits.

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This one gets a little information intense (I actually did some research). Even saying that I gloss over a few types of attachment. The Secure, The Anxious, and The Avoidant. I still believe listening will give you a good idea of each and whether or not you could recognize some of these behaviors in yourself or others. I even have a few suggestions on how to put yourself on the road to change.

Thank You for listening!

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This once easily question has become a point of controversy. As the times have changed society and the typical gender roles have broaden, this question has birthed many answers. Not to mention, serial daters using the kindness of others for a free meal, that kindness is slowly disappearing. I believe I've always had the right answer when it came to this question. Luckly for me, someone already put it into words. That someone is none other than Matthew Hussey

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Watch as I expand and explain on his (although I've been living by this for as long as I can remember) idea.

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I honestly didn't think I would need to make a podcast about Rejection. I know it can be hard to deal with. But this is something the majority of us should have figured out in our teenage years. Whether it be not getting to be friends with the cool kids or our first breakup. I get that there are a few people that might have an issue with it, but the amount of (I'm sorry I even have to say this) MEN that can't take no for an answer is absolutely astounding! Don't worry women can't take no for an answer too but the ratio is so much more in favor of men. Let's dive deeper and find a solution.

A listener has written in, is being loyal harder today than it has been before because of the amount of accessibility at the touch of a button. Essentially has Social Media and Dating Apps made it harder to be Loyal...?

This week I explore what it means to be loyal and what effect Social Media and Dating apps have actually had.

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Insecurities, Imposter Syndrome, Jealousy, where one leads into the other causing the last. I revisit the jealousy people have while dating the divorced. Planting the seeds of doubt. And the pitfalls of being extremely insecure.

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Here's the thing, sometimes we find it easier to be nice to other people then it is to be nice to ourselves. We don't want to come off as being selfish or insincere. But the thing is, we always listen to ourselves. If you continually say bad things, they'll eventually be true. Just as a positive daily affirmation works, so does a negative one. Better yet, its not just what we say to ourselves, its also what those close to us say that can be a problem too.

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I don't want to spoil it for you, but I'm going to tell you how to get people to treat you the way you want to be treated!!!

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In this week's episode, we visit two people. One who spent no time processing and very quickly wanted to move on. And the other, a woman who thinks the most important part of a man is his bank account.

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And yes, you don't have to be past 30 to come across these challenges. And yes, these situations aren't always a challenge. Sometimes breakups, separations, and divorces go very easily. But let's be honest, most don't. I discuss some of the downsides to dating those who aren't exactly free and clear. Also mention a few problems the Datee has with the Dater.

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