Your Listener

Your Listener

By John CuturiloSociety & Culture
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Your Listener episodes

  • A primer on the "Manosphere" with Valerie Friedlander

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    I thank Your Recovery for their partnership. Find them here: www.yourrecovery.au


    In this episode, I welcome Valerie Friedlander, a leadership coach in Chicago, United States. We discuss what cognitive hazards are at the core of what we call the "Manosphere".

    Find Valerie at: www.valeriefriedlander.com/


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    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: www.yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    57 min
  • Our souls' choices (and what it means to believe in God) with Gaëlle Weigel

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    I thank Clear Ground Counselling for their partnership. Find them here: www.cleargroundcounselling.com.au


    In this episode, I welcome my guest Gaëlle Weigel. Gaëlle's mission is to help as many people as possible unlearn shame, reclaim the magic within, and remember that they are — and have always been — perfect, just as they are. Through energy healing, coaching, and sacred writing, she creates pathways of healing that reconnect people with their body, their roots, and their truth. Just like the people she supports, she has experienced abuse. She has felt ashamed, worthless, and searched for love everywhere — even in the most desperate places. She knows what it is to feel wrong at your core, to flee your own body, to hate what makes you who you are, to belong nowhere fully. She is now guiding others through the same terrain she walked. Her work is both invitation and initiation, a pathway to reconnect with the immense power that has always been ours. She was born in Cameroon, grew up in France, and currently lives in the Netherlands. In this episode, we explore Gaëlle's perspective on how our souls make choices when they enter this life, and the philosophical bases of believing in a greater power.

    Find Gaëlle at:

    Web: https://gaelleweigel.com

    Instagram: @gaelleweigel


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: www.yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    58 min
  • Intimacy and sex in senior years with Suzanne Noble

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    I thank Art Of Caring for their partnership. Find them here: www.artofcaring.com.au


    In this episode, I welcome my guest Suzanne Noble. Suzanne is a sex educator and erotic memoirist. Her work fosters candid conversations about sexuality, relationships, and dating after the age of 50 years. We discuss how intimacy and sex manifest in people's senior years and dispel some misconceptions about it.

    Find Suzanne's work here:

    https://sexadviceforseniors.com

    https://facebook.com/sexadviceforseniors

    https://youtube.com/@sexadviceforseniors

    https://instagram.com/sexadviceforseniors

    https://tiktok.com/@sexadviceforseniors


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: www.yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    50 min
  • Am I actually promoting my own ideas?

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    I thank the South Eastern Suicide Prevention Network (S.E.S.P.N.) for their partnership. Find them here: https://www.facebook.com/SESPN19/


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: www.yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    5 min
  • The subtleties of gratitude ― not just "thanking the universe"

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    I thank Aly's Place for their partnership. Find them here: www.alysplace.com.au


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: www.yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    6 min
  • What motivates youth? With Al Barnett

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    I thank MJC Partners for their partnership. Find them here: www.mjcpartners.com.au


    In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Alistair Barnett. Alistair Barnett is an educator, keynote speaker, mentor, and the host of the Legendary Lectures podcast. With over 15 years in education, he is passionate about personal growth, meaningful conversations, and helping people to unlock their potential. Through his podcast and speaking, Alistair shares inspiring stories and practical insights that encourage others to live with purpose.


    Find Al's work here: https://linktr.ee/albarnett


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    46 min
  • Neurodiversity and the utility of being "normal" with Lauren O'Carroll

    Note: this episode contains some mildly coarse language.


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    I thank MJC Partners for their partnership. Find them here: www.mjcpartners.com.au


    In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Lauren O'Carroll from the United Kingdom. Lauren is a neurodivergent family specialist, speaker, founder of Positively Parenting, and author of the forthcoming book "You're Not a Shit Parent, You Have ADHD". After spending 10 years managing advocacy services and a further 10 years leading N.H.S. services, she left her leadership career to support parents navigating the realities of neurodivergent family life.

    Drawing on specialist training in A.D.H.D., autism, and peaceful parenting, over 20 years of leadership experience, the latest evidence and neuroscience, and lived experience as a mum with A.D.H.D. raising neurodivergent children, Lauren helps families move beyond guilt, overwhelm, and survival mode, towards greater understanding, connection, and practical solutions that work in everyday life. She is passionate about challenging shame, making the science of neurodivergence accessible, and helping parents realise they were never meant to do this alone.

    In this episode, we explored the nuances of our culture and perception of neurodiversity, pondering whether being "normal" actually has any utility, whether characteristics such as neurodiversity constitute our identity, whether autism and A.D.H.D. are mental illnesses, and more.


    Find Lauren's work:

    Website: https://www.positivelyparenting.co.uk

    Book waitlist: https://positivelyparenting.co.uk/youre-not-a-sht-parent-you-have-adhd

    Instagram: @positivelyparentingtogether

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyparentingloz

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LaurenParentCoach

    LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/positivelyparenting


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    1 hr 26 min
  • Tarot is not what you think! With Christian Kenny

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    I thank The Love Life Counsellor for their partnership. Find them here: www.thelovelifecounsellor.com.au


    In this episode, I welcome Christian Kenny. We discuss the psychology and phenomenology of tarot ― and even if you are a sceptic as I am, you are likely to gain some new insight in to it with this discussion!

    Christian Kenny is the founder and creative force behind Courage Over Comfort Co., a multidisciplinary company built at the intersection of psychology, storytelling, technology, art, education, and social change.

    Rather than limiting himself to a single industry or discipline, Christian has spent years developing the rare ability to connect ideas that most people would never think to combine. His background spans tarot, astrology, business leadership, psychological research, publishing, product development, branding, game creation, investigative technology, media, and large-scale creative direction.

    Christian approaches every project as both an artist and a strategist. He studies human behavior, social conditioning, symbolism, fear, morality, trauma, and the hidden psychological forces that influence how people think and act. He then transforms those complex ideas into books, games, tarot systems, software, visual media, educational tools, and immersive experiences that challenge audiences to confront uncomfortable truths.

    His work is not created simply to entertain. It is designed to provoke thought, expose hypocrisy, encourage self-examination, and create measurable social impact. Through Courage Over Comfort Co., Christian develops original intellectual properties that confront difficult subjects others are often too afraid, uncomfortable, or unimaginative to approach.

    What separates Christian is not simply the number of skills he possesses, but his ability to combine them into entirely new concepts. He does not follow existing categories; he creates new ones. Every project is built from extensive research, psychological insight, creative risk, and the belief that meaningful change begins when people are willing to question what they have been taught.

    Christian Kenny is more than a founder, artist, or entrepreneur. He is a systems thinker, cultural provocateur, inventor, storyteller, and multidisciplinary creator whose work is driven by one central purpose: to use creativity as a force for courage, consciousness, and social transformation.

    Find Christian's work here:

    Website: https://www.courageovercomfortco.com/

    Killer Kards Tarot: https://killerkardstarot.com/

    Circuits of consciousness: https://circuitsofconsciousness.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/courageovercomfortco

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@courageovercomfort444

    X: https://x.com/courageovcmfort


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    53 min
  • The fallacy behind the "generation wars": a primer

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    I thank Made To Help for their partnership. Find them here: www.madetohelp.com.au


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    9 min
  • The predicament of having a complex relationship with somebody

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    I thank Gibelli Positive Pathways for their partnership. Find them here: www.gibellipositivepathways.com.au


    Prefer to listen elsewhere? Find my podcast on your favourite platform here: https://linktr.ee/your.listener.coaching


    Contact me to discuss how I can help you as a counsellor.

    Phone: +61 402 333 950

    Email: [email protected]

    Web: yourlistener.com.au

    Location: Melbourne, Australia


    Note: any third parties mentioned in this content, partners of Your Listener or otherwise, are independent and do not make any financial exchange with Your Listener. Your Listener is not responsible for the actions of third parties and does not make guarantees of them. No part of this content should be accepted as giving advice of any kind. For advice, please seek professional guidance. For crisis support, see here: https://tinyurl.com/assistanceserviceslist

    13 min

About Your Listener

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John Cuturilo, the counsellor of Your Listener Counselling in Melbourne, Australia, is the host of the Your Listener podcast. Discussing psychological topics including mental health, critical…