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Your Loneliness Is Real


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Episode Title:

Your Loneliness Is Real: A Leadership Reality Check

Episode Summary:

This one’s personal and powerful. Bron opens up about the hidden loneliness that comes with leadership—especially for women. Whether you're a founder, a senior executive, or somewhere in between, this episode names what most won’t: the ache for connection, the hollowness that hides behind performance, and the simple but powerful tools to reclaim your leadership confidence through connection.

You’ll walk away with clear steps to:

  • Build your Personal Board of Advisors (and exactly how to ask someone to join it)

  • Practice high-impact coffee dates (and why 3 a week might be your leadership superpower)

  • Use micro-moments of connection in meetings that change the energy in the room

  • Name your needs and rewrite the loneliness story we’ve been conditioned to keep quiet

    It’s time to stop pretending. You’re not alone—and leadership was never meant to be done solo.

    ️ Tools Mentioned:
    • Personal Board of Advisors: Build your own powerful circle to stretch and support you

    • The Art of the Coffee Date (shoutout to Tory Archbold)

    • Micro-connection practices for your team and stakeholder meetings

    • Language to name and normalise loneliness in your leadership world

      Resources & References:

      Loneliness in Australia

      • More than half of Australians report feeling lonely weekly; one in three are classified as highly lonely
        Medibank Loneliness Report

        CEO and Executive Loneliness

        • 55% of CEOs report serious mental health challenges including loneliness

        • 70% of first-time CEOs say loneliness impacts performance
          The Science of Coaching: CEO Loneliness

          Women in Leadership and Isolation

          • 60% of senior women feel increasingly lonely as their careers progress

          • Only 19% of women of colour feel supported and respected at work
            Fast Company: Women Leaders and Loneliness

            Female Founders and Isolation

            • Two-thirds report high or extreme levels of loneliness

            • Most lack same-gender peers, investors, or role models
              Positive Entrepreneurship: Female Founder Loneliness Report

              Health Impacts of Loneliness

              • Loneliness is associated with increased risk of premature death, depression, and poorer general health outcomes

              • It is a key social determinant of health, according to national research
                AIHW: Social Isolation and Loneliness

                Connect with Bron

                ✨ Follow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/bron-stephens
                ✨ Instagram: @transformandleadwithbron
                Book a coffee date

                Call to Action

                ✔ Schedule one coffee date this week with no agenda
                ✔ Ask one peer: “Want to be on each other’s personal board?”
                ✔ Open your next team meeting with a gratitude check-in

                Let’s create leadership that doesn’t just deliver results—but feels good to live.

                 

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                Transform and LeadBy Bron Stephens