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  • E109: The Siren Song of Self Sabotage

    The leap feels amazing. Then comes the predictable panic. Leaving the job, leaving what’s dead, building Desert Bloom. Dreams are safe. Doing can fail. Fear dresses up as prudence. Name the fear. Do the big scary thing anyway.

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    10 min
  • E108: You're Becoming Not Broken

    Why I’m easing off traditional psychiatry toward ceremonial work. Diagnoses as a guessing game. Medications that may or may not help. Ten years of retreading trauma (almost) never changes the way you feel.  Intention + ritual + a real act — like ashes in the water — moves the needle.  Lifts the feelings. Its what we do with our hands that heals our hearts. 


    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    11 min
  • E107: Feral Woman Fall

    Hot Girl Summer grows up. Gets some sleeves and eats at dusk. She's still got her wild streak but with a tired nervous system. Maiden / Mother / Empress / Crone as weather, not a quiz. Ambivalence about aging allowed. Hot was a costume. Fall is permission to stop auditioning for the parts of you that you've outgrown.

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    10 min
  • E106: Caftans and Cancelled Plans

    It's Saturday night, and we are north of 40. The couch wins. A caftan, a canceled plan, Tim Gunn over a Tito’s and tonic. Gen X already got it in — this is off the clock, not off the joy. Harvest Moon energy: bring in what’s ripe. Leave the rest in the dark. If you're with me, give this episode a listen. 


    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    12 min
  • E105: Four Days, Five Planes. One lesson.

    Ojo site visit for Desert Bloom was done and dusted. Then off to The Midst in Pasadena for The Midst: How The Fuck to Old, Justina Blakeney. Inspiration overload. Two travel days in a four-day trip. Soft Girl Era: I don’t recover like I’m twenty-eight. Saturday night in my own pool with my honey. Inspired. Then I needed a week.

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    9 min
  • E104: Soft Girl Era

    I was humbled at the physical stress and strain I felt while recently traveling to NYC-a place I thrived in not that long ago. I need more now. And that's okay. Have you discovered this about yourself as you've aged ? 

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    7 min
  • E103: On A Clear Day You Could See Forever: 9/11 reflection

    I witnessed the terrorist attacks while working on an inpatient adolescent psych unit at Elmhurst Hospital. Here's how that day changed me, changed NYC and what I learned about resilience and letting go. 

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    12 min
  • E102 Closure

    In August I traveled North to scatter my father's ashes in the Long Island Sound. It was the complicated closure I didn't even know I needed. 

    Releasing yourself from the past and isn't about denial or bypassing the hurt, it's about acknowledging it, and letting go of it. For you. 

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    10 min
  • E101: The Wound IS The Way

    Your Wound Isn’t in the Way — It Is the Way

    What if the parts of your story you’ve been trying to hide are actually the very things that qualify you? 

    In this episode I talk about the old belief that our wounds, messy choices, and late-blooming paths disqualify us — and how the opposite is true. Your imperfect life isn’t a liability. It’s the ground you stand on. You get to heal. You get to be happy. 

    Your wound isn’t in the way.
    It is the way.

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    9 min
  • E100: Still Becoming

    This is episode 100.

    In this special milestone episode, I look back at the messy, beautiful journey of the past hundred episodes — what I’ve learned about unmasking, midlife loneliness, sacred silliness, and becoming who we were always meant to be.

    Thank you for walking with me. Here’s to the next hundred episodes of still becoming.

    The waitlist is open for Desert Bloom Retreat Fall of  2027 at Ojo Resort in Santa Fe New Mexico find out all about it and join the waitlist here: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/desert-bloom-retreat


    If you’re ready to explore which archetype is most active in your life right now, take the free Midlife Archetype Quiz.

    👉 Take the Midlife Archetype Quiz


    What to book my signature workshop Craft Your Crown: https://yourmagicalmidlife.com/craft-your-crown


    Book your FREE  coaching curiosity call: https://calendly.com/your-magical-midlife/coaching-curiosity-call


    Follow me on Instagram @yourmagicalmidlife where you can find updates on my upcoming workshops, retreats and coaching offers.  


    Please share this podcast with a midlife friend who needs to know she's not alone ♥️



    8 min

About Your Magical Midlife

From the publisher's feed

Calling all wildflowers, late bloomers, seekers and dreamers:  Your Magical Midlife is for women 40+ who never (quite) fit in. 


I'm Kate Higgins, a licensed therapist…