Most of this reflection is about me working through a situation in which I was openly (and surprisingly) irritated.

Additional themes: Mansplaining; Women in leadership; The body as a source of conscious and unconscious knowing; Ni and Fe as secret powerhouses; and the Juxtaposition of the INTJ8 and 8INTJ.

I have had a major job shift that I'm calling, "The Assignment". In this reflection I talk about what it means to think, feel and do as an INTJ in that assignment.

Additional themes: Aims, goals and objectives; supervision; dating; and production versus performance.

In this reflection, I consider Your Ni Dom as a project of "moods, musings and mysteries".

Additional themes: Consciousness; White supremacy culture; Type community; and Legitimacy and credibility.

Main themes: The conflict of the Social, Self- Preservation Eight; The act of exposing the social world as the matrix; Being a perspectives person and what that really means for me.

**A Pre-season Bonus Episode**

In this reflection, I contend with being an INTJ living in an SJ world.

Talking points: Singlehood as a heteronormative construct; Reincarnation; Intellectual stimulation: Recreation and leisure; Small talk versus getting-to- know-you banter; and Finding my people.

**A Pre-season Bonus Episode**

In this reflection I talk about about eight growth points for 2021, ranging from trauma to leadership.

In this reflection I talk about two YouTube videos I uploaded. I also talk about an exchange I had with a YouTube content generator (LiJo). Finally, I talk about an unexpected conversation I had with my sister tonight about our relationship.

This reflection starts with a conversation about love and the lies we tell ourselves when we want to hold onto toxic love. It ends with a conversation about self-gaslighting which is an inner rationalization process we activate that prevents us from getting our needs met.

Note: The name in the title is not capitalized on purpose. Look her up to learn more.

Typology reference: Ni and Fi.

In this reflection, I think through six common forms of gaslighting. [Heads up: I drop an F-bomb. ]

Type references: Ni, Fi, Ti and Si

Most of this reflection is a response to some YouTube content on teacher challenges and the current mass teacher exodus. In it, I both advocate for teachers and challenge them (to organize and push for change). I also share my story of being a school leader who has returned to teaching (and seeing a real gap in leadership across the board!).

While I deviated from my typical focus in this episode, I still ended it with a personal growth assignment for all (regarding leadership).