In this first Q&A edition of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson answers real parenting questions about kids’ behavior — what it is, how to shape it, and how to support children through challenges.

We cover:

• How to handle lying, even when kids show no remorse
• Teaching respect, kindness, and standing up for others
• Whether there’s such a thing as “good” or “bad” behavior
• What to do when boys’ behavior becomes more destructive as they grow
• How to help kids recognize areas for growth without shame
• What to do when a high-energy child is sensitive to feedback

Further reading

• Common Causes of Behavior Problems in Kids – Child Mind Institute 
• Why Do Kids Act Out? – Child Mind Institute 
• Why Kids Lie and What Parents Can Do About It – Child Mind Institute