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Your Story Isn't Over: Healing Childhood Trauma with Ruth Clare | Pathfinders Podcast with Jessa
How do you deal with the aftermath of growing up in an abusive home? In this episode of Pathfinders, we get the opportunity to learn from Ruth Clare's experiences. Ruth grew up with a father who had undiagnosed PTSD as a result of his experiences in the military. She shares about the childhood trauma she went through, but also the ways she's found to heal and unpack that trauma. She shows how she has embraced her story and lives her own, authentic life.
Through discussing her memoir 'Enemy' and her upcoming book 'Turn Fear Into Courage,' Ruth provides practical insights and tools for overcoming trauma. This episode delves into significant themes such as emotional resilience, parts work, the complexities of familial relationships, and the journey toward self-discovery and healing.
About Ruth Clare:
Ruth Clare is a TEDx and motivational keynote speaker, MC and panel facilitator, award-winning author, connected communication and embodied speaking coach, mental health, child voice activist and former professional actor. Through her own lived experiences, she knows what it's like to be in survival mode and how to get out of it. She has a desire to break stigmas, speak up for those who have been silenced and help people who are facing adversities to become resilient.
Ruth’s Website: https://ruthclare.com
Ruth’s Books: https://ruthclare.com/books/
Ruth’s TedTalk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orOJb8MDaGk
Ruth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruthclareauthor/?hl=en
00:00 Introduction to Ruth Clare's Story
00:45 Meet Ruth Clare: Author and Advocate
01:40 Ruth's Childhood: Living with an Abusive Father
03:49 Coping Mechanisms and Family Dynamics
10:43 The Day Dad Left: A Turning Point
16:45 Mom's Reaction and Long-term Impact
20:27 Struggles with Self-Worth and Healing
28:31 Complex Emotions: Love and Hate for Dad
32:25 Navigating Complex Emotions
34:02 The Power of Acceptance and Healing
41:05 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help
46:26 Embracing Vulnerability and Strength
01:01:01 Practical Advice for Mental Well-being
01:10:53 Final Thoughts and Recommendations
By Jessa van MeertenYour Story Isn't Over: Healing Childhood Trauma with Ruth Clare | Pathfinders Podcast with Jessa
How do you deal with the aftermath of growing up in an abusive home? In this episode of Pathfinders, we get the opportunity to learn from Ruth Clare's experiences. Ruth grew up with a father who had undiagnosed PTSD as a result of his experiences in the military. She shares about the childhood trauma she went through, but also the ways she's found to heal and unpack that trauma. She shows how she has embraced her story and lives her own, authentic life.
Through discussing her memoir 'Enemy' and her upcoming book 'Turn Fear Into Courage,' Ruth provides practical insights and tools for overcoming trauma. This episode delves into significant themes such as emotional resilience, parts work, the complexities of familial relationships, and the journey toward self-discovery and healing.
About Ruth Clare:
Ruth Clare is a TEDx and motivational keynote speaker, MC and panel facilitator, award-winning author, connected communication and embodied speaking coach, mental health, child voice activist and former professional actor. Through her own lived experiences, she knows what it's like to be in survival mode and how to get out of it. She has a desire to break stigmas, speak up for those who have been silenced and help people who are facing adversities to become resilient.
Ruth’s Website: https://ruthclare.com
Ruth’s Books: https://ruthclare.com/books/
Ruth’s TedTalk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orOJb8MDaGk
Ruth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruthclareauthor/?hl=en
00:00 Introduction to Ruth Clare's Story
00:45 Meet Ruth Clare: Author and Advocate
01:40 Ruth's Childhood: Living with an Abusive Father
03:49 Coping Mechanisms and Family Dynamics
10:43 The Day Dad Left: A Turning Point
16:45 Mom's Reaction and Long-term Impact
20:27 Struggles with Self-Worth and Healing
28:31 Complex Emotions: Love and Hate for Dad
32:25 Navigating Complex Emotions
34:02 The Power of Acceptance and Healing
41:05 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help
46:26 Embracing Vulnerability and Strength
01:01:01 Practical Advice for Mental Well-being
01:10:53 Final Thoughts and Recommendations