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Your Story Isn't Over: Healing Childhood Trauma with Ruth Clare


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Your Story Isn't Over: Healing Childhood Trauma with Ruth Clare | Pathfinders Podcast with Jessa

How do you deal with the aftermath of growing up in an abusive home?  In this episode of Pathfinders, we get the opportunity to learn from Ruth Clare's experiences. Ruth grew up with a father who had undiagnosed PTSD as a result of his experiences in the military. She shares about the childhood trauma she went through, but also the ways she's found to heal and unpack that trauma. She shows how she has embraced her story and lives her own, authentic life.

Through discussing her memoir 'Enemy' and her upcoming book 'Turn Fear Into Courage,' Ruth provides practical insights and tools for overcoming trauma. This episode delves into significant themes such as emotional resilience, parts work, the complexities of familial relationships, and the journey toward self-discovery and healing.

About Ruth Clare:

Ruth Clare is a TEDx and motivational keynote speaker, MC and panel facilitator, award-winning author, connected communication and embodied speaking coach, mental health, child voice activist and former professional actor. Through her own lived experiences, she knows what it's like to be in survival mode and how to get out of it. She has a desire to break stigmas, speak up for those who have been silenced and help people who are facing adversities to become resilient.

Ruth’s Website: https://ruthclare.com

Ruth’s Books: https://ruthclare.com/books/

Ruth’s TedTalk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orOJb8MDaGk

Ruth’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruthclareauthor/?hl=en


00:00 Introduction to Ruth Clare's Story


00:45 Meet Ruth Clare: Author and Advocate


01:40 Ruth's Childhood: Living with an Abusive Father


03:49 Coping Mechanisms and Family Dynamics


10:43 The Day Dad Left: A Turning Point


16:45 Mom's Reaction and Long-term Impact


20:27 Struggles with Self-Worth and Healing


28:31 Complex Emotions: Love and Hate for Dad


32:25 Navigating Complex Emotions


34:02 The Power of Acceptance and Healing


41:05 The Role of Therapy and Self-Help


46:26 Embracing Vulnerability and Strength


01:01:01 Practical Advice for Mental Well-being


01:10:53 Final Thoughts and Recommendations


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