You're Drugging Yourself: And You Don't Know It

What happens between the little Black girl sitting in a classroom and the woman she eventually becomes?

Our girls spend much of their formative time in school and engaging with social media. In both places, they encounter messages about beauty, success, womanhood, relationships, money, motherhood, and what they should desire. Those messages do not simply disappear. They can influence the direction of a girl’s life.

In Part 3 of this series, Dr. Cynthia Jackson-Howard examines consumerism through a trajectory-based lens. The purpose is not simply to become alarmed by what our girls see. It is to recognize what may be shaping them, identify where intervention is needed, and ask what we are intentionally preparing little Black girls to know, do, and become.

This conversation explores:

• How school and social media influence identity
• How repeated messages can become normalized
• Why consumerism is more than a spending issue
• What can happen between childhood and womanhood
• Where parents, educators, families, and communities can intervene
• How trajectory thinking can help us prepare girls for the futures they deserve

This episode is part of the Growing Happiness with Dr. C. podcast and the continuing series on consumerism and its influence on young Black girls.

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In this episode of Growing Happiness with Dr. C., we explore a deep internal literacy dive into the biological cost of cultural expectations. We trace where our sustained thoughts go in our bodies, examining the connection between media messaging, traction alopecia, and brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF) suppression.

Discover how to move your focus from hair care to brain care and help the young Black girls in your life build true emotional resilience.

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