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  • 11. Weight Loss + Sex

    In this episode:


    • How losing 100 pounds changed the way I experience my body, sex, and being seen
    • The connection between gaining 80 pounds, swallowing what I really felt, and staying far too long where I no longer belonged
    • The truth about how I lost the weight—including microdosing a GLP-1 and why I consider it one of the best decisions I’ve ever made
    • The sexual experience that made me stop obsessing over the exact angle a man saw my body from
    • Why you deserve to be turned on by yourself—and how exploring my sexuality helped me take better care of my body


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    44 min
  • 10. You’re Not Sexually Invisible. You’re Hiding.

    In this episode:


    • Why feeling sexually invisible might have more to do with hiding than whether men find you attractive
    • How success, work, and achievement can become a coat of armor that disconnects you from your body and desires
    • Why “one day” doesn’t randomly come—and the uncomfortable first step I took after nearly five years without dating
    • How picking up your head, getting off your phone, and engaging with the world can begin to wake up your sexual energy
    • Why you have to stop letting what happened to you dictate who you’re willing to become next


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    30 min
  • 9. Fuck Anyone's Opinions About YOUR Sexuality

    In this episode:


    • Why anyone who has a problem with how you operate in your sex life can go fuck themselves
    • The false choice between treating your pussy like a “sacred portal” and letting everyone hit it like a McDonald’s drive-through
    • Why casual sex can be selective, self-respecting, intentional, and deeply empowering
    • How conditioning, relationships, breakups, and divorce can cause you to abandon the sexy, sexual version of yourself
    • What it means to reclaim your sexuality—and why that part of you belongs to absolutely no one else


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    15 min
  • 8. I (Kinda) Got Ghosted

    In this episode:


    • What happened when a man went from talking to me every day to basically disappearing after our second date
    • Why I noticed the energetic shift without obsessing over what caused it
    • The difference between communicating like a secure, grown-ass woman and chasing, lashing out, or pretending you don’t care
    • Why someone losing interest doesn’t make him the villain—or mean there’s something wrong with you
    • How to navigate disappointing dating experiences without giving away your power or shutting yourself down


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    20 min
  • 7. Why He Isn't Investing in You

    In this episode:


    • Why he may not be investing in you—and what your own overinvestment has to do with it
    • The difference between being generous and giving far more than someone has earned
    • Why healthy, powerful women pay attention to reciprocity in every relationship
    • What continually pouring into someone who gives very little back teaches them about how to treat you
    • Why I don’t invest in people who haven’t invested in me


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    31 min
  • 6. I Want You to Center Men (Just a Little)

    In this episode:


    • Why some women actually need to center men a little bit more
    • When seeking male attention and validation can be a healthy fucking thing
    • What “letting the popcorn pop” looks like in your dating life
    • Why so much “decenter men” advice isn’t meant for the high-achieving good girl who has barely centered men at all
    • How allowing yourself to experience men—and letting men experience you—can help you feel alive again


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    16 min
  • 5. Why You Should Sleep With Married Men

    In this episode:


    • Why I think more women should consider sleeping with married men—in open relationships, obviously
    • The difference between deciding something isn’t for you and judging the fuck out of anyone who chooses it
    • How asking the right questions can help you determine whether a man is actually in an open relationship
    • Why experienced, partnered men can be some of the kindest, safest, and most intentional men to explore with
    • How assuming all men are lying could be closing you off from some really pleasurable experiences


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    21 min
  • 4. THIS Fucks You Over More Than Men

    In this episode:

    • When “if he wanted to, he would” becomes an excuse to shut down instead of communicate
    • Why automatically distrusting men will fuck you over more than they ever could
    • What it looks like to respond as a secure, powerful woman when you feel disappointed
    • Why I’d rather be vulnerable and get hurt than abandon myself by pretending I don’t care
    • How trusting yourself to survive heartbreak allows you to actually open yourself up to love


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    35 min
  • 3. Everything Can Change TODAY

    In this episode:

    • Why losing momentum doesn’t mean you’ve lost everything
    • How quickly your business, dating life, or entire reality can fucking change
    • Why your past experiences with men have nothing to do with what gets to happen next
    • The difference between aiming for a 10 and continually accepting a five
    • Why you have a responsibility to show up as a match for what you say you want
    • How to stop giving shitty men—or your past—the power to dictate your future


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    28 min
  • 2. Coffee Dates + Letting Your Guard Down

    In this episode:

    • Why preferring coffee dates might mean you’re dating too much in your masculine energy
    • What happens when you go into every date focused on whether he could be your husband
    • How treating a first date like a job interview kills the fun, flirting, and sexual energy
    • Why a man wanting sex doesn’t automatically mean sex is all he wants
    • The difference between being open about your desires and abandoning your standards or boundaries
    • When being guarded and self-protective stops you from letting men experience the real you
    • Why dating gets a hell of a lot better when you calm down and let yourself have some fun


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    31 min

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You’re Fucking Welcome® is the podcast for women ready to stop giving their power away and start creating what they actually want—in life, love, and business. Expect honest conversations about the…