A struggle for control is a common issue in relationships.  In some cases it results in a divisive and destructive sundering of the bonds between individuals but others find their way through this thicket of emotion.  Alvean and Doug talk about strategies for giving and taking, for learning to see control as a double edged weapon that can harm those who wield it even as they attempt to assert their will on others.  For a full transcript of this episode, click here:LL24-You're not the Boss of Me