You're the Boss, Now What? | Team Emotional Intelligence for Managers and Leaders

Why do your meetings feel exhausting?

Why does one person dominate while someone else disengages completely?

If you’re leading meetings as a new manager and walking away frustrated, unclear, or stuck repeating the same conversations, this episode will help.

Most leaders assume disengagement is about attitude.
 They assume domination is about ego.
 They assume lack of follow-through is laziness.

But it’s usually none of those things.

It’s misaligned energy.

Desiree and Tessa walk through Patrick Lencioni’s Working Genius framework and explain how each genius shows up inside meetings, and how understanding it improves communication in the workplace, team accountability, and overall team management.

BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:

• Why meetings feel draining and how to clarify their purpose
 • How to structure meetings so the right conversations happen at the right time
 • The two changes that immediately improve team accountability

If you want your team to commit, follow through, and stop dreading meetings, this framework is a practical starting point.

Connect with Tessa Kampen 

Working Genius Assessment

 The 6 Types of Working Genius by Patrick Lencioni 

Meetings Series 

• How Managers Build Team Accountability During and After Meetings
• 3 Ways Meetings Drain Your Team and Create Conflict at Work 
• How to Make Meeting More Effective and Engaging | Lessons from Death By Meeting by Patrick Lencioni

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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Have you ever questioned your reaction because of who was watching?

In this week’s leadership tip, we talk about owning your leadership style. When you lead based on outside judgment or approval, you risk becoming inconsistent. But when you know your values, trust your intentions, and stay consistent in how you show up, you build real trust and credibility.

Check back every Monday for your weekly leadership tip!

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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If you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and constantly busy—but nothing truly important is moving forward—busyness may be the problem, not the solution.

In this episode, Desiree is joined by productivity expert Sarah Ohanesian to challenge the belief that doing more equals leading better.

They explore why New Year productivity plans fall apart so quickly, how unrealistic expectations fuel burnout, and why leaders often reward visible busyness instead of meaningful impact. Sarah introduces the idea of the “productivity parade”—work that looks impressive but distracts from what actually matters—and explains how meetings, unclear expectations, and outdated metrics quietly reinforce it.

You’ll learn how to identify true non-negotiables, use your calendar as a leadership tool, integrate work and life priorities realistically, and close the clarity gap that drives disengagement. Sarah also shares her COAT framework (Clarity, Organize, Act, Take Time) and a simple time-tracking challenge that helps leaders see where their time is really going.

If you want less burnout, more clarity, and a team focused on real results—not just looking busy—this episode is for you.

Sarah's Book Recommendation: Rocket Fuel

Sarah's Website: SO Productive

Sarah's LinkedIn

Link to episode: 3 Tools to Get Your Team to Care as Much as You Do

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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Do you ever notice how easy it is to look to others for reassurance?

In this week's leadership tip, we reflects on the reminder that confidence grows when we do things for ourselves, not for approval. When leaders rely too heavily on outside validation, confidence stays fragile. When confidence is built internally, leadership becomes steadier and more grounded.

Check back every Monday for your weekly leadership tip!

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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Meetings don’t fail because of bad agendas. They fail when decisions don’t turn into action.

In this episode of the podcast for managers, Desiree picks up from last week’s conversation on meeting fatigue and zooms in on what happens next. You’ll learn why accountability often feels like micromanagement, how clarity and support change follow through, and what real team accountability actually looks like after meetings end.

This episode walks through three things every manager is responsible to their team for: clarity, support, and accountability. When these are present, meetings become a leadership development tool instead of a source of conflict at work.

Key Takeaways
 • Why clarity closes the gap between expectation and reality
 • How support prevents accountability from feeling like micromanagement
 • What managers can do after meetings to protect team standards

Listen to more episodes on meeting, conflict and accountability!

A Manager's Guide to Keeping Top Talent and Stopping Negativity Before it Spreads
5 Steps to Rebuild Trust and Handle Conflict at Work as a Manager
How Great Managers Prevent Conflict Before it Starts

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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If you are a manager who feels stuck in meetings that go nowhere, you are not alone. Many leaders schedule meetings hoping to create alignment, solve problems, or move work forward, but instead experience meeting fatigue, disengagement, and conflict at work. 

In this episode, Desiree explains why meetings without decisions drain your team and your time, how information-heavy meetings quietly disengage employees, and why meetings have become the default response instead of a leadership tool. You will learn how misalignment around meeting purpose leads to frustration, a lack of team accountability, and stalled leadership development. This episode focuses on front-end fixes managers can make before meetings even begin, so meetings become a tool for clarity, trust, and stronger team management rather than a source of stress.

Key Takeaways

• Meetings without clear decisions create frustration, rework, and conflict at work
• Information meetings are a major cause of disengagement and meeting fatigue for teams
• Using meetings intentionally is a leadership development skill that improves team accountability

 As you listen, think about your next meeting and ask yourself what decision actually needs to be made and who owns it.

Episode Links: 

How to Make Meetings More Effective and Engaging | Lessons from Death By Meeting By Patrick Lencioni

The Best Way to Overcome Dysfunction and Build a Cohesive Team | Lessons from 5 Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni 

5 Steps to Make One-on-One Meetings Build Trust Instead of Waste Time 

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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Your team says they want to grow—but do they avoid disagreement, fear mistakes, or shut down feedback? A real growth mindset isn’t optimism—it’s how a team handles tension, learning, and risk.

In this episode, Desiree is joined by leadership expert Jim Fielding to unpack what a true growth mindset looks like inside teams—not just in individuals.

They explore how growth mindset shows up in observable behaviors, including teams that welcome dissent without defensiveness, leaders who create psychological safety without lowering standards, and cultures that reward smart risks and clean recoveries—not just wins.

Jim shares practical leadership strategies for fostering growth, from how leaders run meetings and ask better questions to why curiosity matters more than control. They also discuss the difference between being nice and being kind, why fear shuts learning down, and how both leaders and individual contributors can influence team culture—even without the title.

If you want a team that speaks up sooner, learns faster, and grows stronger through challenge instead of avoiding it, this episode is a must listen.

Links Mentioned & Referenced in Episode:

● Jim Fielding on LinkedIn
● Dare to Lead — Brené Brown
● Start With Why — Simon Sinek
● The Five Dysfunctions of a Team — Patrick Lencioni

 Other Episodes You’ll Enjoy:

● The Best Way to Overcome Dysfunction and Build Cohesive Teams | Lessons from The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
● How to Handle a Negative Employee Without Losing Your Best People
● The Strategy That Stops New Hires From Checking Out Early

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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You work hard. You care deeply. So why does your career growth still feel unclear?

If you're a manager doing everything right but waiting for recognition, promotion, or more trust, this episode shows you why.

Desiree sits down with Andy Storch, author of Own Your Brand, Own Your Career and host of Talent Development Hot Seat, for a no-fluff talk on personal brand.

Not influencer vibes or nonstop posting. This is reputation, trust, and ownership at work.

They break down:

• What personal brand really means inside organizations
• Why hard work alone won't cut it anymore
• How to build credibility by developing your people
• Why talent-growers become impossible to replace

Walk away knowing career growth is something you build, not wait for. Grow your career. Lead your team better. This shifts how you see visibility, reputation, and leadership.

 Resources

Own Your Brand, Own Your Career by Andy Storch

Free workbook + resources

Connect with Andy on LinkedIn

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Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You Lead

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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3 Mindset Shifts for Sustainable Goals (Without Burning Out)

Have you ever started the year motivated and confident, only to feel behind or overwhelmed a few weeks later?

In this episode of You're the Boss, Now What?, Desiree shares three mindset shifts that help leaders set goals and habits in a way that actually lasts, even when life doesn’t go as planned.

This is not a New Year’s resolutions episode.
 It’s a conversation about sustainability, self-trust, and learning how to lead yourself without burning out.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why focusing on outcomes creates pressure and frustration
• How input-based habits give you back control
• Why habits should be treated as feedback, not judgment

If you want to make progress this year without starting over every January, this episode is for you.

Next week, Desiree is joined by Andy Storch for a conversation about career growth, ownership, and reputation — without self-promotion and without burnout.

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
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 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
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Overwhelmed as a manager? Leadership doesn't have to feel this heavy. Desiree Petrich shares one mindset shift to release pressure, beat burnout, and lead with clarity + energy into 2026

Last week we unpacked the 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership. Today? We close the year simpler: one word to lighten your load as a new manager.

If leadership feels overwhelming right now, you're not alone. Managers often carry too much: expectations to be everything to everyone, 110% performance, juggling work + home. It builds to manager burnout, resentment, drained confidence.

In this You're the Boss, Now What? episode, I share release - the mindset shift that drops unhelpful commitments without adding more to-do's. No fixing yourself. Just letting go.

You'll Walk Away With:

1. Expectations no longer serving your leadership (and how to spot them)
2. Why doing it all yourself fuels burnout - plus how to stop
3. Proof: Leadership can feel meaningful without constant struggle

Slow down, reflect, enter 2026 lighter. Perfect for coaching for managers, imposter syndrome in leadership, and new manager tips.

Reflection Questions from the Episode:

• What expectations won't you carry into 2026?
• Commitments you're dreading? How can you release or delegate them?
• What's the story making leadership harder than it needs to be?

Connect: Follow on LinkedIn for leadership overwhelm tips, team dynamics, work boundaries, better management without burnout.

Resources:

• Habit Tracking App: Strides 

Primary Keywords: Coaching for Managers, Leadership Podcast for New Managers, How to Be a Better Manager, Imposter Syndrome in Leadership, New Manager Tips
Secondary Keywords: Manager Burnout, Leadership Overwhelm, How to Lead Without Burning Out, Boundaries at Work for Managers, Confidence in Leadership

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This podcast for managers is here to help you:

• Grow your leadership development
 • Navigate team management with confidence
 • Learn how to handle conflict at work
 • Apply real, practical leadership tips

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