You've Got This, Mama - Podcast

Sabrina is so excited to be back! After a brief hiatus, she is right back in the studio to deliver you the positive, encouraging words you can expect from You've Got This Mama, the podcast. This episode’s theme is “You Cannot Be Everyone’s Cup of Tea”. Sabrina explores how tough this mindset can be to process as a recovering people-pleasing perfectionist herself.

In the world of motherhood, womanhood, business, we fall into the comparison trap so often, impeding the sense of community. It fosters competition and jealousy. At YGTMama, we want to foster community over competition. We want to encourage people to step into their power and not drag people down with negativity. After a particularly demanding stage of growth, Sabrina discusses how the seasonal transition from the damp, muddy spring into the beautiful blooms of summer have inspired her to take inventory of how she cultivates her own garden.

Like gardens, people go through seasons and how they are tended, directs how they grow. It is painful and uncomfortable. Growing pains are real. Sabrina explores her own seasonal transitions as she embraces the new changes in her life. As in nature, personal transition and growth are moving forward and changing the structure of things. In fact, long-time followers know growth is one of our favourite topics here at You've Got This Mama!

How do you like your tea? Light and sweet, coconut milk, black, we all like it differently. There are so many varieties of tea, and so many varieties of people. So when we try to be the best person for someone else, it will never work. We can't be everyone’s cup of tea. What other people think of you, is none of your business. You don’t need to worry about what other people are thinking of you. Everyone is more concerned with themselves. Keep this in mind next time someone may rub you the wrong way, or if you have a negative interaction.

The important lesson to learn is that you can't make everyone happy. Not all of the time, it's not possible. This doesn’t mean you should go around burning bridges, but that you just need to be you. You only need to focus on what you are doing, not who is doing what. Do you, in motherhood. Don't worry about who is co-sleeping, or breastfeeding or bottle feeding. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter. Your child is your child and you are you. And what works for you is not going to work for somebody else. And somebody else's opinion of you isn’t your business.

When it comes to business, there’s going to be so many people that judge your success, that want you to fail, that don’t trust or believe you, and that question your integrity. It could be jealousy, anger, any number of things motivating them. But you can't allow that to stop you or get in your way, because then those people win. You continue to manage your own stuff and do you. You let what they think about you to be their business.

When it comes to friendships and relationships, it is the same. You cannot be everyone's cup of tea or best friend. If your friendships are rich, it doesn’t matter how many of them you have. It has been said that you are the sum of the 5 people you spend this most time with. So who are you spending your time with? Who are you giving your energy to? Who are you allowing to influence you?

Back in your garden, if you were a seed, ready to be planted, what type would you be? Would you be a perennial that grows and take care of themselves, and can be left untended? Without changes have a fixed mindset that allows for simple maintenance.  But is it a vegetable, rose, or something else? You want to grow. With a growth mindset, you can actually become smarter and more intelligent. What type of garden do you have, and do you want that to change?

How are you tending your garden? Is there adequate light or is something blocking the sun?

Sabrina is so excited to be back! After a brief hiatus, she is right back in the studio to deliver you the positive, encouraging words you can expect from You've Got This Mama, the podcast. This episode’s theme is “You Cannot Be Everyone’s Cup of Tea”. Sabrina explores how tough this mindset can be to process as a recovering people-pleasing perfectionist herself.

In the world of motherhood, womanhood, business, we fall into the comparison trap so often, impeding the sense of community. It fosters competition and jealousy. At YGTMama, we want to foster community over competition. We want to encourage people to step into their power and not drag people down with negativity. After a particularly demanding stage of growth, Sabrina discusses how the seasonal transition from the damp, muddy spring into the beautiful blooms of summer have inspired her to take inventory of how she cultivates her own garden.

Like gardens, people go through seasons and how they are tended, directs how they grow. It is painful and uncomfortable. Growing pains are real. Sabrina explores her own seasonal transitions as she embraces the new changes in her life. As in nature, personal transition and growth are moving forward and changing the structure of things. In fact, long-time followers know growth is one of our favourite topics here at You've Got This Mama!

How do you like your tea? Light and sweet, coconut milk, black, we all like it differently. There are so many varieties of tea, and so many varieties of people. So when we try to be the best person for someone else, it will never work. We can't be everyone’s cup of tea. What other people think of you, is none of your business. You don’t need to worry about what other people are thinking of you. Everyone is more concerned with themselves. Keep this in mind next time someone may rub you the wrong way, or if you have a negative interaction.

The important lesson to learn is that you can't make everyone happy. Not all of the time, it's not possible. This doesn’t mean you should go around burning bridges, but that you just need to be you. You only need to focus on what you are doing, not who is doing what. Do you, in motherhood. Don't worry about who is co-sleeping, or breastfeeding or bottle feeding. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter. Your child is your child and you are you. And what works for you is not going to work for somebody else. And somebody else's opinion of you isn’t your business.

When it comes to business, there’s going to be so many people that judge your success, that want you to fail, that don’t trust or believe you, and that question your integrity. It could be jealousy, anger, any number of things motivating them. But you can't allow that to stop you or get in your way, because then those people win. You continue to manage your own stuff and do you. You let what they think about you to be their business.

When it comes to friendships and relationships, it is the same. You cannot be everyone's cup of tea or best friend. If your friendships are rich, it doesn’t matter how many of them you have. It has been said that you are the sum of the 5 people you spend this most time with. So who are you spending your time with? Who are you giving your energy to? Who are you allowing to influence you?

Back in your garden, if you were a seed, ready to be planted, what type would you be? Would you be a perennial that grows and take care of themselves, and can be left untended? Without changes have a fixed mindset that allows for simple maintenance.  But is it a vegetable, rose, or something else? You want to grow. With a growth mindset, you can actually become smarter and more intelligent. What type of garden do you have, and do you want that to change?

How are you tending your garden? Is there adequate light or is something blocking the sun?

Welcome to April.

This is another ‘Share Your Truth” episode, the second in the series where we share the true story of one inspiring mama. We couldn't think of a better fit. Saira is a relatable woman. Her story is a challenging one but if you listen with an open mind and heart you will be able to see yourself in her story.

Saira Amjad is a Pakistani-Canadian Poet, Best Selling Author, Certified Coach, Entrepreneur, Speaker, ex-Corporate Professional, Self-Love Advocate, and a Single Mom. Her new book ...And So She Rises has become an international bestseller on Amazon, which is a deeply intimate collection of poems about her struggle through a failed arranged marriage, a suicide attempt, sexual abuse, pressures of being “the perfect Muslim woman”, and learning how to love herself. Saira has invested thousands of dollars in her personal development to learn, grow, heal, and expand in order to rebuild her life alongside her young daughter. Saira has emerged as an inspiration for men and women around the globe as a strong and compassionate woman. She recently launched Saira Amjad Inc., through which she helps CEOs and Entrepreneurs revive their relationships, break-up with their fears, and accelerate their healing. She empowers her clients with the necessary tools and knowledge to rise above adversity and fall in love with themselves all over again because she believes that no one should ever have to live in fear, hate, lack, abuse or depression.

Saira has always been ambitious, she had a career in the corporate world prior to the bulk of her journey. She was also coined a rebel in her family and culture. She was the first woman in her family to pursue a post-secondary education. This was an unusual path for a Muslim woman. She always had a negative opinion of marriage because arranged marriage was common in her family. Saira lost track of her health at one point in her obsession with success. She was at her lowest when her parents arranged for her to be married. Shortly after she quit her corporate job and was wed. She was in love and excited, they moved to Saudi Arabia even though her husbands family intentions were Canadian immigration.

The marriage started to break down, Saira conceived in an to attempt to save the marriage. She stayed in Saudi Aribia for nearly a year. She realized many of her actions were a reflection of her mothers. "Saudi Araibia is like heaven for Muslims" so Saira wanted to stay because for much of her life she considered herself a bad Muslim.

Saira took a lot of abuse and toxicity from her and her husband's families and was still struggling with bad health even after her daughter was born. After a long time dealing with abuse and poor health, a dear friend reached out with an opportunity with an MLM company. She dove into using healthier products and personal development. This was a big turning point in her life. She went to a seminar and learned about new concepts like manifestation and personal growth. She woke up. She left her husband and went to court to get custody of her daughter.

During the custody battle and tough more tough times she continued her personal development journey. She invested about $50-$60K in her self-improvement over the years on courses, and seminars.

Saira now has a book, a modest clothing line, and mentors and guides women (and men) on how to heal from trauma with her online courses and coaching programs.

Saira attributes her ability to rise above adversity to personal development and growth. There are a lot of free resources available to start your journey.

They mamas open up about what it means to be a perfect Muslim woman. Saira half way though her corporate career removed her hijab, she wore short sleeves, she had male friends and was independent. This was considered rebellious to her culture which is very much still the case. There is typically very high expectations for women to be in the home,

Welcome to April.

This is another ‘Share Your Truth” episode, the second in the series where we share the true story of one inspiring mama. We couldn't think of a better fit. Saira is a relatable woman. Her story is a challenging one but if you listen with an open mind and heart you will be able to see yourself in her story.

Saira Amjad is a Pakistani-Canadian Poet, Best Selling Author, Certified Coach, Entrepreneur, Speaker, ex-Corporate Professional, Self-Love Advocate, and a Single Mom. Her new book ...And So She Rises has become an international bestseller on Amazon, which is a deeply intimate collection of poems about her struggle through a failed arranged marriage, a suicide attempt, sexual abuse, pressures of being “the perfect Muslim woman”, and learning how to love herself. Saira has invested thousands of dollars in her personal development to learn, grow, heal, and expand in order to rebuild her life alongside her young daughter. Saira has emerged as an inspiration for men and women around the globe as a strong and compassionate woman. She recently launched Saira Amjad Inc., through which she helps CEOs and Entrepreneurs revive their relationships, break-up with their fears, and accelerate their healing. She empowers her clients with the necessary tools and knowledge to rise above adversity and fall in love with themselves all over again because she believes that no one should ever have to live in fear, hate, lack, abuse or depression.

Saira has always been ambitious, she had a career in the corporate world prior to the bulk of her journey. She was also coined a rebel in her family and culture. She was the first woman in her family to pursue a post-secondary education. This was an unusual path for a Muslim woman. She always had a negative opinion of marriage because arranged marriage was common in her family. Saira lost track of her health at one point in her obsession with success. She was at her lowest when her parents arranged for her to be married. Shortly after she quit her corporate job and was wed. She was in love and excited, they moved to Saudi Arabia even though her husbands family intentions were Canadian immigration.

The marriage started to break down, Saira conceived in an to attempt to save the marriage. She stayed in Saudi Aribia for nearly a year. She realized many of her actions were a reflection of her mothers. "Saudi Araibia is like heaven for Muslims" so Saira wanted to stay because for much of her life she considered herself a bad Muslim.

Saira took a lot of abuse and toxicity from her and her husband's families and was still struggling with bad health even after her daughter was born. After a long time dealing with abuse and poor health, a dear friend reached out with an opportunity with an MLM company. She dove into using healthier products and personal development. This was a big turning point in her life. She went to a seminar and learned about new concepts like manifestation and personal growth. She woke up. She left her husband and went to court to get custody of her daughter.

During the custody battle and tough more tough times she continued her personal development journey. She invested about $50-$60K in her self-improvement over the years on courses, and seminars.

Saira now has a book, a modest clothing line, and mentors and guides women (and men) on how to heal from trauma with her online courses and coaching programs.

Saira attributes her ability to rise above adversity to personal development and growth. There are a lot of free resources available to start your journey.

They mamas open up about what it means to be a perfect Muslim woman. Saira half way though her corporate career removed her hijab, she wore short sleeves, she had male friends and was independent. This was considered rebellious to her culture which is very much still the case. There is typically very high expectations for women to be in the home,

Sticking with the theme of inspiring women for the month of March, Sabrina interviews You've Got This, Boss Mama contributor, and serial entrepreneur Jaimie Jolly. They talk about all things living off-grid, raising children in the bush and building a successful business while living in the country.

Jaimie knows a thing or two about beauty: as a professional make-up artist, permanent make-up artist and educator, elite micro-blading technician, health and wellness consultant and certified aesthetician, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to her craft, making her one of the most sought after beauty professionals across Canada. Jaimie has worked out of boutique salons throughout the country, continuously staying on top of the newest trends and techniques. A natural-born entrepreneur, Jaimie has founded 3 enterprises, including owning and operating her own spa, all before the age of 30. She currently coaches other women in business, networking, and skills development. Jaimie's got a mighty impressive bio, but don't be intimidated. She's as down to earth as they come. Quick with a laugh, and low maintenance, this beauty professional lives east of the Muskokas in the off-grid cordwood home she and her husband built in the bush. Here, you'll find them raising their 3 kids, tending to their animals, and mucking around outdoors. You might say Jaimie leads a double life: homesteader and jet-setter.

Sabrina shares her obsession with off-grid living and her now, not-so-secret desire to be that family. She shares her favorite homesteaders, YouTube sensations Wild Wonderful Off-Grid or you can follow them on Instagram too!

Jaimie shares that she grew up in suburban Toronto, she loved going to the cottage growing up and moved to that small town when she was 19. She talks about her “dirty hippie husband” who was the one that introduced her to off-grid living and a greener way of life. She was the girl that was used to having really hot showers and blowdrying her hair daily and dove into a massive change when she became a woman living off-grid, in a yurt and being a little bit different.

The mamas dive into what it looks like and takes to raise children with free thinking rather than over scheduling and over stimulating. Living in the bush means playing with dirt and animals, without the common distractions so many of us have in our lives today. She shares how off-grid living has provided perspective in a sense. Things that we so often take for granted, like clean abundant water, are things you learn how to respect. She talks about how it is really all her children know, as they have never experienced a different lifestyle. Her children do go to school, although she dabbled in home-schooling for a while.

The mamas talk about the infamous mom guilt and how we stress ourselves out about the smallest things. Sabrina shares that kids will not remember the little things and these will not traumatize them for life. We need to learn to stop helicopter parenting and let them be wild. Children need a certain level of autonomy and freedom to explore their own surroundings.

They talk about what a yurt is and the structure of what it really means to be "off-grid"  from a government perspective. Jaimie and her family lived in the yurt for two years before they built the rest of their house, now the yurt remains their master bedroom. She shares some funny #yurtlife stories, like finding a snake trapped in the wall.

Jaimie explains the intricacies of her "double life" and what it really means to be a successful business owner and also live in the bush.  She has a feminist point of view when it comes to the beauty industry and about how women should feel. The beauty industry often gets a bad reputation for encouraging women to butcher themselves. Jaimie stands strong in her advocacy to support women feeling beautiful, whatever that means to them. She is very passionate about her work and loves wh...

Sticking with the theme of inspiring women for the month of March, Sabrina interviews You've Got This, Boss Mama contributor, and serial entrepreneur Jaimie Jolly. They talk about all things living off-grid, raising children in the bush and building a successful business while living in the country.

Jaimie knows a thing or two about beauty: as a professional make-up artist, permanent make-up artist and educator, elite micro-blading technician, health and wellness consultant and certified aesthetician, she brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to her craft, making her one of the most sought after beauty professionals across Canada. Jaimie has worked out of boutique salons throughout the country, continuously staying on top of the newest trends and techniques. A natural-born entrepreneur, Jaimie has founded 3 enterprises, including owning and operating her own spa, all before the age of 30. She currently coaches other women in business, networking, and skills development. Jaimie's got a mighty impressive bio, but don't be intimidated. She's as down to earth as they come. Quick with a laugh, and low maintenance, this beauty professional lives east of the Muskokas in the off-grid cordwood home she and her husband built in the bush. Here, you'll find them raising their 3 kids, tending to their animals, and mucking around outdoors. You might say Jaimie leads a double life: homesteader and jet-setter.

Sabrina shares her obsession with off-grid living and her now, not-so-secret desire to be that family. She shares her favorite homesteaders, YouTube sensations Wild Wonderful Off-Grid or you can follow them on Instagram too!

Jaimie shares that she grew up in suburban Toronto, she loved going to the cottage growing up and moved to that small town when she was 19. She talks about her “dirty hippie husband” who was the one that introduced her to off-grid living and a greener way of life. She was the girl that was used to having really hot showers and blowdrying her hair daily and dove into a massive change when she became a woman living off-grid, in a yurt and being a little bit different.

The mamas dive into what it looks like and takes to raise children with free thinking rather than over scheduling and over stimulating. Living in the bush means playing with dirt and animals, without the common distractions so many of us have in our lives today. She shares how off-grid living has provided perspective in a sense. Things that we so often take for granted, like clean abundant water, are things you learn how to respect. She talks about how it is really all her children know, as they have never experienced a different lifestyle. Her children do go to school, although she dabbled in home-schooling for a while.

The mamas talk about the infamous mom guilt and how we stress ourselves out about the smallest things. Sabrina shares that kids will not remember the little things and these will not traumatize them for life. We need to learn to stop helicopter parenting and let them be wild. Children need a certain level of autonomy and freedom to explore their own surroundings.

They talk about what a yurt is and the structure of what it really means to be "off-grid"  from a government perspective. Jaimie and her family lived in the yurt for two years before they built the rest of their house, now the yurt remains their master bedroom. She shares some funny #yurtlife stories, like finding a snake trapped in the wall.

Jaimie explains the intricacies of her "double life" and what it really means to be a successful business owner and also live in the bush.  She has a feminist point of view when it comes to the beauty industry and about how women should feel. The beauty industry often gets a bad reputation for encouraging women to butcher themselves. Jaimie stands strong in her advocacy to support women feeling beautiful, whatever that means to them. She is very passionate about her work and loves wh...

Aimee is Mama to two beautiful girls, Eliza Rose & Lindie Fern, and is expecting Baby #3 any day now. This year she and her husband, Chris, will be celebrating their 10 year anniversary. She is a co-author in You’ve Got This Mama, Too, set to be released next month and loves writing on her blog. Aimee became a Down syndrome advocate after discovering that her youngest daughter, Lindie, had Down syndrome the day she was born. She loves educating others on the beauty that can be found in a Down syndrome diagnosis, all while vulnerably shedding light on the challenges that come with raising a special needs child.

Aimee shares her story, the real version of what a surprise Down Syndrome diagnosis means. She shares that awareness and education are key tools in dealing with the shock behind a surprise. The first year was the hardest. Aimee shares that her daughter Lindie’s first birthday was a massive milestone because she felt as though her birth was not the celebration it deserved to be. Aimee’s biggest challenge in dealing with a special needs child is all of the appointments, the doctors and experts.

The community has been a big deal for this family. The down syndrome community is really powerful. Aimee shares the importance of giving yourself grace in these kinds of situations. It is easy to fall into the trap of blaming yourself for things, but surrendering, accepting what you have and being grateful will provide you grace.

Aimee explains the technical side of Down Syndrome. Most people have 46 chromosomes but people with Down syndrome have an extra copy of the 21st one. Some of the visible characteristics include lower set ears, palmer crease, thicker neck, and almond shaped eyes. There are also a lot of health issues too like duodenum, heart defects, feeding issues, low muscle tone and lots of developmental challenges.

Sabrina asks Aimee what she loves about Down syndrome. Aimee says the main thing is how sweet and easy Lindie is. Not as a generalization but, typically people that have Down syndrome have really great personalities. Lindie is really outgoing and great with people. She also shares that being a mom of a child of special needs has given her a lot of perspective and gratitude for life. She feels like she is an exclusive member of an amazing club.

Sabrina asks what the biggest challenges are. Aimee admits that her biggest challenge has been all of the appointments. Therapy, doctors, it is a juggle. She often feels alone. Even with a supportive husband and a great community, she tends to bear the weight of the workload.

Aimee discusses the relationship between her two daughters and how great they are together. Aimee is also expecting a son in about a month, there are concerns about Lindie’s adjustment but Aimee is confident that being sandwiched between her two siblings is going to be incredible.

The mamas talk about the importance of awareness and what World Down Syndrome day represents. We celebrate on 3/21 because Down Syndrome is when someone has 3 copies of the 21st chromosome. One of the things the community does is wear mismatched and crazy socks.

If you would like to keep up with Aimee you can follow along on Instagram or her blog.

Aimee is Mama to two beautiful girls, Eliza Rose & Lindie Fern, and is expecting Baby #3 any day now. This year she and her husband, Chris, will be celebrating their 10 year anniversary. She is a co-author in You’ve Got This Mama, Too, set to be released next month and loves writing on her blog. Aimee became a Down syndrome advocate after discovering that her youngest daughter, Lindie, had Down syndrome the day she was born. She loves educating others on the beauty that can be found in a Down syndrome diagnosis, all while vulnerably shedding light on the challenges that come with raising a special needs child.

Aimee shares her story, the real version of what a surprise Down Syndrome diagnosis means. She shares that awareness and education are key tools in dealing with the shock behind a surprise. The first year was the hardest. Aimee shares that her daughter Lindie’s first birthday was a massive milestone because she felt as though her birth was not the celebration it deserved to be. Aimee’s biggest challenge in dealing with a special needs child is all of the appointments, the doctors and experts.

The community has been a big deal for this family. The down syndrome community is really powerful. Aimee shares the importance of giving yourself grace in these kinds of situations. It is easy to fall into the trap of blaming yourself for things, but surrendering, accepting what you have and being grateful will provide you grace.

Aimee explains the technical side of Down Syndrome. Most people have 46 chromosomes but people with Down syndrome have an extra copy of the 21st one. Some of the visible characteristics include lower set ears, palmer crease, thicker neck, and almond shaped eyes. There are also a lot of health issues too like duodenum, heart defects, feeding issues, low muscle tone and lots of developmental challenges.

Sabrina asks Aimee what she loves about Down syndrome. Aimee says the main thing is how sweet and easy Lindie is. Not as a generalization but, typically people that have Down syndrome have really great personalities. Lindie is really outgoing and great with people. She also shares that being a mom of a child of special needs has given her a lot of perspective and gratitude for life. She feels like she is an exclusive member of an amazing club.

Sabrina asks what the biggest challenges are. Aimee admits that her biggest challenge has been all of the appointments. Therapy, doctors, it is a juggle. She often feels alone. Even with a supportive husband and a great community, she tends to bear the weight of the workload.

Aimee discusses the relationship between her two daughters and how great they are together. Aimee is also expecting a son in about a month, there are concerns about Lindie’s adjustment but Aimee is confident that being sandwiched between her two siblings is going to be incredible.

The mamas talk about the importance of awareness and what World Down Syndrome day represents. We celebrate on 3/21 because Down Syndrome is when someone has 3 copies of the 21st chromosome. One of the things the community does is wear mismatched and crazy socks.

If you would like to keep up with Aimee you can follow along on Instagram or her blog.

Shayla is a motivated mom boss devoted to a life of family, friends, and fitness. She completed her commerce degree from the University of Calgary and has been working in the direct sales industry for 13 years. She was offered a sole proprietorship for Vector Marketing that has flourished into one of the top-ranked offices in all of North America. Her team finished #1 in Canada last year and are on pace to surpass $1million in sales this year. She spends her days mentoring the next generation of young business owners. Shayla is committed to helping people live a life that satisfies their values, which she models by being a present mom, wife, leader and business owner. Shayla and her husband Brad had traveled the world with their kids Carter & Brooklynn. She believes that consistently growing her capacity is the key to experiencing more of the amazing opportunities life has to offer with the same about of time. When Shayla's plate gets full, she gets a bigger plate. Shayla is beyond grateful for the life she has created and is excited about the future as she continues to learn, grow and dream.

Sabrina pulls out that as moms we make a lot of excuses as to why we can’t do, X or Y or Z. We have a tendency to harness the negative self-talk. Shayla is breaking barriers and stepping outside of the box as a leader for women.

Next, they dive into the intricacies of the “busy” culture. What is it that we are so busy doing? Don't we all have the same 24 hours in a day?

Shayla explains that what keeps her in line is being really well planned and organized. She likes to review 18 months ahead for her planning regime. She explains that she and her husband have a date night every Wednesday night. She also shares that she takes every Wednesday off of work, it does not exist in her work world. This helps tame the busy-ness and reset mid-week. She protects this with the support of a great team and family. It is imperative to get your village on board with your scheduling.

Shayla dives into how she created The MomBossConnection and explains that it is all about. Success can be defined in so many ways. Her version of success with MomBossConnection was to get like-minded moms together and empower one another.

The mamas dive into the stigma around the word “boss” as they have been getting some flack from the masses on this word. Being a boss is not a literal term. It does not mean you are bossy or the boss of people, it means owning your life, being in control of what you do. You are driven, motivated, in the driver’s seat.

The mamas dive into the myth that is work/life balance. Shayla uses the analogy of her life as a pie. Her hubby is a piece, her kids are another slice, business, all of it just pieces of a larger pie.

With mile-long to-do lists Shayla picks a focused five, she shares the structure of this helpful tool. Multi-tasking is a swear word in Sabrina's house.

You can connect with Shayla on Facebook or Instagram don't forget to follow along with the MomBossConnection too.

Shayla is a motivated mom boss devoted to a life of family, friends, and fitness. She completed her commerce degree from the University of Calgary and has been working in the direct sales industry for 13 years. She was offered a sole proprietorship for Vector Marketing that has flourished into one of the top-ranked offices in all of North America. Her team finished #1 in Canada last year and are on pace to surpass $1million in sales this year. She spends her days mentoring the next generation of young business owners. Shayla is committed to helping people live a life that satisfies their values, which she models by being a present mom, wife, leader and business owner. Shayla and her husband Brad had traveled the world with their kids Carter & Brooklynn. She believes that consistently growing her capacity is the key to experiencing more of the amazing opportunities life has to offer with the same about of time. When Shayla's plate gets full, she gets a bigger plate. Shayla is beyond grateful for the life she has created and is excited about the future as she continues to learn, grow and dream.

Sabrina pulls out that as moms we make a lot of excuses as to why we can’t do, X or Y or Z. We have a tendency to harness the negative self-talk. Shayla is breaking barriers and stepping outside of the box as a leader for women.

Next, they dive into the intricacies of the “busy” culture. What is it that we are so busy doing? Don't we all have the same 24 hours in a day?

Shayla explains that what keeps her in line is being really well planned and organized. She likes to review 18 months ahead for her planning regime. She explains that she and her husband have a date night every Wednesday night. She also shares that she takes every Wednesday off of work, it does not exist in her work world. This helps tame the busy-ness and reset mid-week. She protects this with the support of a great team and family. It is imperative to get your village on board with your scheduling.

Shayla dives into how she created The MomBossConnection and explains that it is all about. Success can be defined in so many ways. Her version of success with MomBossConnection was to get like-minded moms together and empower one another.

The mamas dive into the stigma around the word “boss” as they have been getting some flack from the masses on this word. Being a boss is not a literal term. It does not mean you are bossy or the boss of people, it means owning your life, being in control of what you do. You are driven, motivated, in the driver’s seat.

The mamas dive into the myth that is work/life balance. Shayla uses the analogy of her life as a pie. Her hubby is a piece, her kids are another slice, business, all of it just pieces of a larger pie.

With mile-long to-do lists Shayla picks a focused five, she shares the structure of this helpful tool. Multi-tasking is a swear word in Sabrina's house.

You can connect with Shayla on Facebook or Instagram don't forget to follow along with the MomBossConnection too.