We all have the dream of what we want our futures to shape into, but we often don’t have a plan of how we are going to get there. Like most, I dreamed I’d go to college and meet an amazing guy and we’d have a huge wedding with all of our friends and family in attendance. We’d get married and have 4 kids and we’d all sit down to a home cooked meal every night. Our evenings and weekends would include attending practices and games for the kids. Our summers would be filled with fun family vacations. It all sounds so perfect, but reality is much different.