Black hair is still a HUGE topic INSIDE and OUTSIDE the black community! We are judged on how we wear our own hair, whether that's our natural hair, weaves, wigs, extensions, braids, twists, or locs.....and for some reason it offends way too many people, even our own people. Mind ya' business!

Why is "submission" such a  dirty word in our society? Do you submit in your relationship or marriage? Is it a two-way street? Should men submit to women? If a man submits, is that emasculation? Why were so many people up in arms about Jeannie Mai saying she wants to submit to Young Jeezy?  This week we are decoding submission and if it's the right or wrong thing for your relationship.

Have you ever dated someone unattractive? Does your physical appearance complicate your sex life? Would you be comfortable as a BBW or BBM? What are your non-negotiables with "looks"? 

Ty and Tari are decoding physical appearance this week and explaining why we focus so much on our bodies and how society loves "pretty people".

How many break-ups have you had?  Have you ever stalked an ex?  What's the worst breakup you've been through?  Why can't I shake this break-up off! Ty and Tari are decoding break-ups this week and wondering why it can be so hard to do or too damn easy!

Have you ever had a toxic friendship? Are you a "frenemy"?  Do you intermingle your friends?  Ty and Tari are discussing the hit TV show "Girlfriends", toxic friendships, if friends should be chosen or organic, failed girls trips, and  which "girlfriend" you relate to the most.

So what actually happens after you say "I do"?  It's definitely not a fairy tale.  Just ask Andrew Gillum, Cardi B, and Ray J!   Ty and Tari are discussing what actually happens, what expectations NOT to have, and why love languages are important.

Introducing Zest and Zen in a non-conventional way! Our very first podcast! In this first episode we will be giving you'll a window view into our world, as well as a sneak peek of what to expect from us every week. Always keeping it real, raw, uncut, and definitely unfiltered!